Bulge size

[Zandero]

Hi all,

i realise this probably a subjective question, but what size do you guys think your penis needs to be for you to have a bulge that's clearly noticeable under your clothing? Does anybody have any experiences when people have commented on it or they can obviously see people noticing it at least? What size are you?

Thanks,

Z

 

[Stealthpeman]

Very subjective. Underwear being the bigger part of it.

If I can hide my extender down my pants you can hide your bulge.

If you are more of a shower then a grower your going to bulge more.

The size of your testies will also vary a lot. I don't think there's going to be a definitive answer here other then once your 8x6 your going to have a lot more trouble trying to hide it.

I know I pack a massive bulge after using the bathmate because even flaccid it is extremely plump.

 

[jockinthebox]

I got a call over the weekend from an old friend reminding me to get my tuxedo measurements in to the shop he's chosen for his upcoming wedding. I'm a groomsman, and he's chosen a navy tux, so I'll have to rent one:bad:. I went to a franchisee shop locally today by the same name, to have them measure me and forward the info to his local shop where he's picking tuxedos up for those of us traveling in for the ceremony.

When I went in, there was a thiry-something female there, but I thought nothing of it, since I've been measured for tuxedos many times before,... just always by another guy. She explained she was usually the consultant for the brides helping them select the groomsmen tuxedos, but she was familiar with how to measure, so she would do it while the guy who normally did it was at lunch.

She escorted me to a backroom and grabbed her cloth tailor's tape before kneeling down in front of me. I had taken my cock ring off before going, but was commando (as usual), with just a pair of kakhi slacks on; so I was hanging flaccid, with my penis down my left leg where he usually is. She asked me to spread my legs a bit, then placed the end of the tape between her index & middle finger on her left hand then (surprisingly) cupped my balls in her palm while stretching the tape down my left leg (obviously copping a "feel" of my balls:biggrin1. She smiled a sly grin, looking up at me with BIG EYES and said "WOW! You've got a REALLY NICE ONE!" I smiled back, and said "So I've been told!"

My penis of course, grew to a "semi" while she measured my right leg in the same way; then she commented that she really enjoyed working here, as she glanced back & forth between my ever-bulging erection and my face, still kneeling between my legs. I laughed, saying I'd been measured for a tux many times, but never by a female. She replied the pleasure was all hers! LOL! The sexual innuendo was heavy for sure, as she asked if I was married or "involved" with anyone. I told her I had a live-in GF, but I was flattered by her "interest", which ALL guys LIKE! She appeared a bit crestfallen and said my partner must be very "capable" saying I was particularly "well-endowed", then adding, "she's a VERY LUCKY woman!" I thanked her and she stood to finish my measurements as I tried to get my boner back into his flaccid state.:bad:

As I was leaving the store, she said she'd forward my measurements to the store I had indicated, then offered one more comment before I left...
"If you ever need a seamstress to alter your pants, be sure to remember me, I do "ALTERATIONS" on the side!" I thanked her (then thought to myself), I'll bet that's not the ONLY TALENT nor position she's adept in "performing" her "skill-set"! :becky:

 

[1mat]

Perfect. I am sure you enjoyed this visit

After PE mine is shown quite well, but after a day or two, nothing special. Must get into better shape.

 

[benschmidt]

I got a call over the weekend from an old friend reminding me to get my tuxedo measurements in to the shop he's chosen for his upcoming wedding. I'm a groomsman, and he's chosen a navy tux, so I'll have to rent one:bad:. I went to a franchisee shop locally today by the same name, to have them measure me and forward the info to his local shop where he's picking tuxedos up for those of us traveling in for the ceremony.

When I went in, there was a thiry-something female there, but I thought nothing of it, since I've been measured for tuxedos many times before,... just always by another guy. She explained she was usually the consultant for the brides helping them select the groomsmen tuxedos, but she was familiar with how to measure, so she would do it while the guy who normally did it was at lunch.

She escorted me to a backroom and grabbed her cloth tailor's tape before kneeling down in front of me. I had taken my cock ring off before going, but was commando (as usual), with just a pair of kakhi slacks on; so I was hanging flaccid, with my penis down my left leg where he usually is. She asked me to spread my legs a bit, then placed the end of the tape between her index & middle finger on her left hand then (surprisingly) cupped my balls in her palm while stretching the tape down my left leg (obviously copping a "feel" of my balls:biggrin1. She smiled a sly grin, looking up at me with BIG EYES and said "WOW! You've got a REALLY NICE ONE!" I smiled back, and said "So I've been told!"

My penis of course, grew to a "semi" while she measured my right leg in the same way; then she commented that she really enjoyed working here, as she glanced back & forth between my ever-bulging erection and my face, still kneeling between my legs. I laughed, saying I'd been measured for a tux many times, but never by a female. She replied the pleasure was all hers! LOL! The sexual innuendo was heavy for sure, as she asked if I was married or "involved" with anyone. I told her I had a live-in GF, but I was flattered by her "interest", which ALL guys LIKE! She appeared a bit crestfallen and said my partner must be very "capable" saying I was particularly "well-endowed", then adding, "she's a VERY LUCKY woman!" I thanked her and she stood to finish my measurements as I tried to get my boner back into his flaccid state.:bad:

As I was leaving the store, she said she'd forward my measurements to the store I had indicated, then offered one more comment before I left...
"If you ever need a seamstress to alter your pants, be sure to remember me, I do "ALTERATIONS" on the side!" I thanked her (then thought to myself), I'll bet that's not the ONLY TALENT nor position she's adept in "performing" her "skill-set"! :becky:

Jock, you dirty old dog...:biggrin1: I guess you could say she had her hands full with you, but she wished it wasn't just her hands.

 

[jockinthebox]

Jock, you dirty old dog...:biggrin1: I guess you could say she had her hands full with you, but she wished it wasn't just her hands.

Well, I'll admit I kept her card...just in case I need some "MANIPULATIONS"...er, ah, "alterations"!:becky:

 

[Phoenix7672]

I'm honestly not sure just how much mine shows, but I do know it's somewhat visible if you look for it, and I guess it is likely more visible when walking/moving, given the way the fabric of my jeans bends/flexes, or rather doesn't in places.

That said, I don't have a story quite like Jock's, but I do know the last time I bought suits they needed to be altered, and the seamstress very likely did notice things, given they were tight and left it no place to go but sideways. What was funny was they did the alterations, but it still wasn't enough down there...they were able to 'let the crotch out' a bit more, which gave enough room for it to be presentable. She never really made any comments, but every time I've been in there since she's come over...too bad she isn't my type at all.

As for the comment about hiding an extender....unless you are wearing super relaxed jeans with a ton of room, I don't know how anyone could do that. Same with the Phallosan, as there is no room for it to go up either, at least in my case (but then that could have to do with flaccid length).

 

[jockinthebox]

I'm honestly not sure just how much mine shows, but I do know it's somewhat visible if you look for it, and I guess it is likely more visible when walking/moving, given the way the fabric of my jeans bends/flexes, or rather doesn't in places.

That said, I don't have a story quite like Jock's, but I do know the last time I bought suits they needed to be altered, and the seamstress very likely did notice things, given they were tight and left it no place to go but sideways. What was funny was they did the alterations, but it still wasn't enough down there...they were able to 'let the crotch out' a bit more, which gave enough room for it to be presentable. She never really made any comments, but every time I've been in there since she's come over...too bad she isn't my type at all.

As for the comment about hiding an extender....unless you are wearing super relaxed jeans with a ton of room, I don't know how anyone could do that. Same with the Phallosan, as there is no room for it to go up either, at least in my case (but then that could have to do with flaccid length).

My bulge has always been highly "visible" since I was a teen. My mother would buy me 6 new pairs of Levis for Christmas & again before school started every year, because my crotch always turned white first where my bulge ribbed on EVERYTHING every day making it even more "attention grabbing"! I hated "breaking in" new Levis!:bad: It took about 3 months of rotating them to get them to conform to my bulge & ass cheeks just perfectly, to become comfortable, like wearing my own skin. There's nothing more comfy than an old pair of well-worn jeans naked (commando)!:thumb:

When I wore my Phallosan, I wore sweats to disguise him as much as possible, but he was still extremely "evident", tbh.:bad: If you're born with a big Flaccid Dong, you just learn to "roll with it", 'cause there's really nothing you can do to hide him. When I was in school, dress codes required all guys to tuck their shirts in, so I couldn't wear my football jersey even, to try to cover my crotch.:bad: I just learned to deflect or ignore the stares & snide remarks from other guys, and most of the women who stared could give me a "boner" within seconds, making my bulge even worse! ...Life goes on....:becky:

 

[LeafyGreens]

It's really a mystery to me why bulges vary so much between men of similar size dongs. Leg size, fat pad, ball size, pant style, and other things must be a factor.

My flaccid is a touch bigger than jock's starting stats, and on occasional days where I'm just hanging really low and full, it approaches his current stats. But I honestly can't say I've ever noticed any attention on my bulge. When the material of my pants stretches on my crotch, it just looks like the pants are too small.

But i've got thick thighs and ass. Maybe that's a factor. Maybe when I get down to 10% body fat, it will be more noticeable. Honestly, I wouldn't mind getting some attention on it, because my wife is hot and always wears killer clothes. Would like to give her a taste of her own medicine.

 

[LeafyGreens]

On a related note, does anyone know what things allow you to hang at your maximum flaccid size more often (besides the really obvious one of hot weather)?

The only thing I've noticed is that if I do a lot of walking, my boy will be dangling thick and full and low. Don't know if it's good blood flow from the movement or what.

 

[DeepThor]

You're right, leafygreens. There are so many factors affecting bulge size on clothes. I've found that sweat pants are the best (or worst, if you are shy). The internet knows this too, haha.

As for max flaccid size, I think weather and blood flow are the main factors, with blood flow being affected by your physical comfort, mental state and level of horniness...

 

[CLOSEDDennyA]

Bulge is a constant now...i dont go commando because its too noticeable. Bulge is a fine line between ooohhh and eewwwhh at this size.

 

[jockinthebox]

It's really a mystery to me why bulges vary so much between men of similar size dongs. Leg size, fat pad, ball size, pant style, and other things must be a factor.

My flaccid is a touch bigger than jock's starting stats, and on occasional days where I'm just hanging really low and full, it approaches his current stats. But I honestly can't say I've ever noticed any attention on my bulge. When the material of my pants stretches on my crotch, it just looks like the pants are too small.

But i've got thick thighs and ass. Maybe that's a factor. Maybe when I get down to 10% body fat, it will be more noticeable. Honestly, I wouldn't mind getting some attention on it, because my wife is hot and always wears killer clothes. Would like to give her a taste of her own medicine.

I think you're correct about similar size dongs showing more on some guys than others, Leafy. I've always been fairly "proportional" body-wise. I have a penis that's more "exposed" because I'm very long-waisted with an athlete's "V" shaped groin, from my abs downward. The top of my navel is 11 7/8" above the top of my penis base, for example. So my penis sits higher on my body with a greater distance between my penis & my anus (longer perineum) than most guys (I think). I have large balls that swing & hang from a wide scrotum that attaches high and wide alongside the top of my penis base. My flaccid penis head & circumcised glans hang straight down about 2.5" below my scrotum & balls (which hang 5" fully relaxed from my body). My flaccid base girth is 5.5" and I'm uniformly 5.25+" girth down the length of my flaccid shaft.

I also have always maintained a lower body fat (BMI around 12%), with good firm but not big thighs (I'm a swimmer), well defined quads & calf muscles and fairly tight glutes. I have wide shoulders & chest (43") on a 6' frame, a 34" waist, 31" inseam. I like my body, and I think it is aesthetically pleasing to the eye, naked (or at least I've been told that)... I was asked to model nude for an art class while an undergrad in college, which I did for over a week (it was FUN!).

Guys who have thicker thighs, and a thicker trunk with normal or a shorter waist to chest ratio look smaller visually than me probably, even if they have a larger or equally- sized Dong to mine.

 

[WIItard]

I all I know is I have pretty big balls and I usually wear boxer briefs. I have a bulge all the time. Like someone said there is a fine line between, ahhh and eewwww. It like my wife's boobs, she's a 34 D. A tube top wood just be to much, she generally doesn't show much skin for that reason or the real reason is it just attracts to much attention.

 

[dillydally]

Anyway to see full potential of a flaccid pre or beginning stages of PE?

 

[Phoenix7672]

Also to add, I think past a certain length it is the girth that really matters in terms of bulge size. Like I said, in regular jeans mine is somewhat noticeable I think (I can sort of see it at times looking in a mirror, plus although I haven't noticed many looks/stares, I've seen some)...but if I use the Bathmate prior and my flaccid girth goes from 4.25-4.5" to just over 5", it can be stupidly noticeable, to the point where I rarely pump if I am going out the door soon.

 

[Road28]

No offence to jock but I slightly doubt the credibility of this story. You say she just grabbed your junk in the fitting room like it would be the start of a porno? Also you got a boner? Did you get her number brw? To me thats sexual harassment lol. In my culture girls are very shy so they dont openly talk sexual things, dont know about british girls though. If this is a true story must be a nice ego boost

Brtw OP, bulging isnt really an issue unless you're a pussy imo. I often have a 5 inch flaccid (if my PE was good the previous day) but usually he hangs at 4.5 inches or so, which still shows. Dont worry about having a flaccid bulge. I genuinely believe you only start getting major bulge problems when you get to tje 6-7 inch range. If this really bothers you go reddit bigdickproblems they have tons of questions like that there

 

[Road28]

I think past a certain length it is the girth that really matters in terms of bulge size.

This. Maybe the reason bulging isnt really a problem to me is cuz my flaccid dick looks very long and skinny, 4.5-5 inches length and 2 inch girth or so

 

[jockinthebox]

No offence to jock but I slightly doubt the credibility of this story. You say she just grabbed your junk in the fitting room like it would be the start of a porno? Also you got a boner? Did you get her number brw? To me thats sexual harassment lol. In my culture girls are very shy so they dont openly talk sexual things, dont know about british girls though. If this is a true story must be a nice ego boost

I didn't say she grabbed my junk:bad:...I said she cupped my balls in her palm (lightly) feeling the weight of them, while holding the cloth tape to the inside of my inseam running down my left leg where my penis was dangling. It wasn't "pornographic"...it was actually surprisingly funny, yet stimulating. The conversation was full of innuendo, but not lewd, which gave me a "semi" but not a full boner. She gave me her card, so yeah, I have her number. It was a bit awkward, but somewhat of an ego boost too, I'd say! I'm American, not British, btw...

It doesn't matter to me if you believe it happened or not, tbh....we're talking about guy's natural bulges here, NOT PORN.:bad:

 

[Road28]

I always thought you were welsh or smthing lol. American women are very horny for some reason (must be the food) so that explains it a bit more