Any tips to blow her mind :)
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I'm not into sadism cusp82 not that type of woman=just dinner and a little romance. No messing with my head this is a relationship website isn't it?
No it's not. It's a serious place.It is not proper to hijack the thread of the original poster. You can go make a new thread in the realtionship foum. Just go to where it says new thread, give it a title, and away you go.
mind you, of all the people at the gym who probably deserve their threads being hijacked, I'm probably up there
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Why thank you!
Lube, especially flavored lube, was something that I discovered fairly recently. It is a ton of fun with the right person! It does require a certain lack of shyness and a good sense of humor, however.
Lube, especially flavored lube, was something that I discovered fairly recently. It is a ton of fun with the right person! It does require a certain lack of shyness and a good sense of humor, however.
Why thank you!
Lube, especially flavored lube, was something that I discovered fairly recently. It is a ton of fun with the right person! It does require a certain lack of shyness and a good sense of humor, however.
she won't have a lot of say in the matter, I'll be honest
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You know, one thing that I always enjoyed and this gf of mine did too, wearing fishnets and some stripper shoes............the ones with the platform soles and the 8" stilleto heels................the total porn star experience.
Why not get some whipped cream? Maybe some chocolate sauce?? Put it on your dick and she on her poontang and you lick it off each other?
Why not also get some really kinky ass sex toys involved?
I think ALL of that combined would make for an AMAZING sex session and a really fun ass weekend. I know it would for me.
Why not get some whipped cream? Maybe some chocolate sauce?? Put it on your dick and she on her poontang and you lick it off each other?
Why not also get some really kinky ass sex toys involved?
I think ALL of that combined would make for an AMAZING sex session and a really fun ass weekend. I know it would for me.
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Sex toys are fun. Perhaps a little vibrator? Great big insertable vibrators may be a bit intimidating if you and she are new to sex toys..... but a little buzzing bullet that you can tease her with and press to her clit at the right moment could be great fun!
i presume ye'll be going out at some stage over the weekend? be it for drinks or dinner or what not. well, get her to wear this!!
a remote controled bullet vibrator, and you my friend, have control of the remote
i HAVE TO get one, looks like sooo much fun haha. imagine her ordering drinks
it would make the night so worked up
a remote controled bullet vibrator, and you my friend, have control of the remote
i HAVE TO get one, looks like sooo much fun haha. imagine her ordering drinks
it would make the night so worked up
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It's funny, I've never really been into toys in the bedoom. Not simple dildos and vibrators anyway. Whenever I try it never feels erotic to me.
On the other hand, something like one of those remote control vibrators she could wear while we're out, maybe somewhere *really* inappropriate like at her parents, one with a speed control... now you're talking.
I know what the difference is as to why I like one, but not the other, but I can't really find the words.
On the other hand, something like one of those remote control vibrators she could wear while we're out, maybe somewhere *really* inappropriate like at her parents, one with a speed control... now you're talking.
I know what the difference is as to why I like one, but not the other, but I can't really find the words.
i presume ye'll be going out at some stage over the weekend? be it for drinks or dinner or what not. well, get her to wear this!!
a remote controled bullet vibrator, and you my friend, have control of the remote
i HAVE TO get one, looks like sooo much fun haha. imagine her ordering drinks
it would make the night so worked up
Haha how's that for timing - a man after my own heart :biggrin1:
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heres a guide i wrote on giving a woman oral. it drives them wild every time....guarenteed....
There is no woman who gets pleasure of a quick lick and a flick before you get down to business.
If your gong to do it then do it right. In my experience its always better to "not" just go straight in for the kill. Kiss and caress her entire body, tease her before you please her. Kiss the inner thighs and her hips. her buttocks and her stomach. Be sure to make her think your heading that way but don’t.
Making love is not a sprint! its a marathon! Take your time and never ever rush things. A lot of men due to lack of knowledge find cunnilingus a chore. You have to be comfortable with as a man before you will ever be able to perform at maximum potential.
To reach maximum potential doesn’t need practice, all it takes is knowledge.
So what knowledge does one need? Well not a great deal. The main barrier a guy has to overcome is actually going down and getting in there in the first place.
What you have to realise is, if you are nervous as a man about not being able to satisfy your woman orally, you need to loose that thought, or you will never satisfy your woman.
If you really want to satisfy your woman then you need to be confident.
Now in my personal opinion confidence is in my own words is, "to get amongst it". I don’t care where or what it is I lick. We all hear the same regular statements about, lick the clitoris more or suck on the labia...well I think that’s a whole load of crap!
When I go down on my woman I kiss and caress all around the area before even thinking about going for any sensitive parts.
Make her wait and more importantly make her want it. Once you’ve spent a good 10 mins down there your woman should be very much ready for what you have to offer. These 10 mins do not include clitoral or vaginal stimulation, but should be used as a build up to drive your woman crazy.
Once you get started I say its best to lick with long slow strokes from the bottom of the anus to the top or the vagina. yes! that’s what I said, anus!
If you really want to be a hit in the oral department then you have to be both brave and dirty. Licking in this way in my experience makes a woman not only want more, but it also makes her respect you in the bedroom and gives her the added confidence to trust you. Trusting a partner in the bedroom is often a barrier for a lot of women.
Lick, kiss and suck every part of the lower areas, and I mean everything.
Some useful hints is to make sure you get your tongue in to he vaginal opening, suck and lick the clitoris at the same time. Work your tongue in every direction and use a large variation of speed and pressure, keep on with as much as you can think of. If you’ve already licked everything, then lick it again. Never ever create a routine for how you work it but change it up as much as possible.
Always remember, your a man! men are meant to get dirty... get your face in and get yourself covered in juices. Any real man who wants to make sure his woman respects him in the bedroom will go down even when their woman is on a period. Going down on your woman even when she’s on he period is guaranteed to get you bedroom respect.
Now I must say that not all women are into allowing their men to do such things but most of them just melt when you do show you’re raw animosity in the bedroom. Several women I have had the pleasure to perform on, even though they disagreed with some aspects of my oral giving, have been turned into a quivering mess with the excitement of being pleasured in ways they never thought was possible for a man to enjoy.
Personally I love to go down on my women and will quite happily work it for anywhere up to 2 hours sometimes more.
Oral should never be looked at as just foreplay. Giving a woman oral sex without penetration is a really good thing and all men should do this for their woman.
Sex doesn’t always have to be about penetration. Oral often leads to penetrative sex, but sometimes you have to just say no.
I’m not sure about everyone else’s experiences, but in mine some women will even try to pull you by the ears to get you to penetrate her. If this does happen I find kissing your woman with your mouth dripping in vaginal juice is usually enough to have them leave go so you can go back about your business.
When your performing oral, that’s exactly what you have to do, "perform". Don’t stick with one position, move around work it from the sides, from the front, bend her over and get behind her. Pull her up to sit on your face and show her you know more than jut one technique or position.
As mentioned in the beginning experience is not necessary if you have knowledge. There is no right or wrong way of performing oral on a woman. There is only the best way. The best way can vary depending on the woman, but what you have to remember is this "if you do everything, you have minimal chance of doing it wrong".
In a nutshell, make her want it and always leave her wanting more. Perform everything you can think of and perform it with confidence.
One of the most important things is to perform as an athlete, go the distance, make it last.
Most importantly of all and I cant stress this enough, "enjoy what your doing". If you cant enjoy it then more than likely your woman wont either and you should probably not do it at all.
Enjoy life, enjoy sex and respect your women always.. Go down, get dirty and drive her wild. Stop playing about with all the nonsense of trying to do “what’s best” and just get stuck in. Use your brain and think about what your doing. Will your woman be pleased if you stick to the prudish form of working oral? No, so use your brain and use everything you can think of to satisfy her and show her just how much she means to you.
PERFORMING ORAL ON A WOMAN 101
If you want to pleasure a woman with oral sex, I personally believe you got to stay down for a long time. There is no woman who gets pleasure of a quick lick and a flick before you get down to business.
If your gong to do it then do it right. In my experience its always better to "not" just go straight in for the kill. Kiss and caress her entire body, tease her before you please her. Kiss the inner thighs and her hips. her buttocks and her stomach. Be sure to make her think your heading that way but don’t.
Making love is not a sprint! its a marathon! Take your time and never ever rush things. A lot of men due to lack of knowledge find cunnilingus a chore. You have to be comfortable with as a man before you will ever be able to perform at maximum potential.
To reach maximum potential doesn’t need practice, all it takes is knowledge.
So what knowledge does one need? Well not a great deal. The main barrier a guy has to overcome is actually going down and getting in there in the first place.
What you have to realise is, if you are nervous as a man about not being able to satisfy your woman orally, you need to loose that thought, or you will never satisfy your woman.
If you really want to satisfy your woman then you need to be confident.
Now in my personal opinion confidence is in my own words is, "to get amongst it". I don’t care where or what it is I lick. We all hear the same regular statements about, lick the clitoris more or suck on the labia...well I think that’s a whole load of crap!
When I go down on my woman I kiss and caress all around the area before even thinking about going for any sensitive parts.
Make her wait and more importantly make her want it. Once you’ve spent a good 10 mins down there your woman should be very much ready for what you have to offer. These 10 mins do not include clitoral or vaginal stimulation, but should be used as a build up to drive your woman crazy.
Once you get started I say its best to lick with long slow strokes from the bottom of the anus to the top or the vagina. yes! that’s what I said, anus!
If you really want to be a hit in the oral department then you have to be both brave and dirty. Licking in this way in my experience makes a woman not only want more, but it also makes her respect you in the bedroom and gives her the added confidence to trust you. Trusting a partner in the bedroom is often a barrier for a lot of women.
Lick, kiss and suck every part of the lower areas, and I mean everything.
Some useful hints is to make sure you get your tongue in to he vaginal opening, suck and lick the clitoris at the same time. Work your tongue in every direction and use a large variation of speed and pressure, keep on with as much as you can think of. If you’ve already licked everything, then lick it again. Never ever create a routine for how you work it but change it up as much as possible.
Always remember, your a man! men are meant to get dirty... get your face in and get yourself covered in juices. Any real man who wants to make sure his woman respects him in the bedroom will go down even when their woman is on a period. Going down on your woman even when she’s on he period is guaranteed to get you bedroom respect.
Now I must say that not all women are into allowing their men to do such things but most of them just melt when you do show you’re raw animosity in the bedroom. Several women I have had the pleasure to perform on, even though they disagreed with some aspects of my oral giving, have been turned into a quivering mess with the excitement of being pleasured in ways they never thought was possible for a man to enjoy.
Personally I love to go down on my women and will quite happily work it for anywhere up to 2 hours sometimes more.
Oral should never be looked at as just foreplay. Giving a woman oral sex without penetration is a really good thing and all men should do this for their woman.
Sex doesn’t always have to be about penetration. Oral often leads to penetrative sex, but sometimes you have to just say no.
I’m not sure about everyone else’s experiences, but in mine some women will even try to pull you by the ears to get you to penetrate her. If this does happen I find kissing your woman with your mouth dripping in vaginal juice is usually enough to have them leave go so you can go back about your business.
When your performing oral, that’s exactly what you have to do, "perform". Don’t stick with one position, move around work it from the sides, from the front, bend her over and get behind her. Pull her up to sit on your face and show her you know more than jut one technique or position.
As mentioned in the beginning experience is not necessary if you have knowledge. There is no right or wrong way of performing oral on a woman. There is only the best way. The best way can vary depending on the woman, but what you have to remember is this "if you do everything, you have minimal chance of doing it wrong".
In a nutshell, make her want it and always leave her wanting more. Perform everything you can think of and perform it with confidence.
One of the most important things is to perform as an athlete, go the distance, make it last.
Most importantly of all and I cant stress this enough, "enjoy what your doing". If you cant enjoy it then more than likely your woman wont either and you should probably not do it at all.
Enjoy life, enjoy sex and respect your women always.. Go down, get dirty and drive her wild. Stop playing about with all the nonsense of trying to do “what’s best” and just get stuck in. Use your brain and think about what your doing. Will your woman be pleased if you stick to the prudish form of working oral? No, so use your brain and use everything you can think of to satisfy her and show her just how much she means to you.
once you drove her wild with oral, the next thing is to throw her into every positon you can possibly think of and give her a right good seeing too. if your gonna cum whip it out and spray all over her ..then get straight back to work.
ive turned some of the most prudish girls into whores in just one night..
work the g spot while your working oral too. this drives them crazy....take her from behind an pull her up so you are both kind of on your knees, kiss her neck play with her clit and even choke her a little...give her everything you got and give her it with pride and confidence. when you have her bent over grab her hair and pull her head back while you f**k her hard. theres a million and one ways to make her never forget you..
and for fook sake dont do what some idiot suggested on another page "DO NOT BUY HER A PS3" that guy must be a virgin...
ive turned some of the most prudish girls into whores in just one night..
work the g spot while your working oral too. this drives them crazy....take her from behind an pull her up so you are both kind of on your knees, kiss her neck play with her clit and even choke her a little...give her everything you got and give her it with pride and confidence. when you have her bent over grab her hair and pull her head back while you f**k her hard. theres a million and one ways to make her never forget you..
and for fook sake dont do what some idiot suggested on another page "DO NOT BUY HER A PS3" that guy must be a virgin...
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I think he was joking about the PS3
Thanks for all that! I find women are different in what they like. I don't agree it's a performance, I think that puts way too much pressure on guys. Sex is a conversation. You can still be dominant or submissive in conversation, but it has to be a two way street or someone's gonna crash. So the skill I think is not so much to pressure yourself to become a walking sex manual with all these techniques, it's about paying attention and responding to her. I mean I'd far rather have ten ways to gauge if she's enjoying something and experiment to find out what it is than have ten ways to perform that you just run through every time. Like it's good to get a finger in her so you can *feel* her response rather than stopping every few seconds to to go "how about there?... is that good? or there?" lol.
And I don't know if you do want to change it up *that* much really, it could get frustrating - when you hit a sweet spot, I reckon most women would say "keep doing that!" At least for a bit anyway. I mean think about getting sucked off right, when she licks or sucks it *just right* which again AFAIK, we're all slightly different with, I want her to keep at it, not keep changing. I've been there loads of times where she did something that felt *really* nice but changed so quickly when I try to say "do that thing you were doing a moment ago" I can't describe which thing she was doing and she doesn't quite hit it the same way again. That's *really* frustrating when that happens.
Teasing never fails though - which is ironic really, since that's all about what you're *not* doing rather than what you are.
Thanks for all that! I find women are different in what they like. I don't agree it's a performance, I think that puts way too much pressure on guys. Sex is a conversation. You can still be dominant or submissive in conversation, but it has to be a two way street or someone's gonna crash. So the skill I think is not so much to pressure yourself to become a walking sex manual with all these techniques, it's about paying attention and responding to her. I mean I'd far rather have ten ways to gauge if she's enjoying something and experiment to find out what it is than have ten ways to perform that you just run through every time. Like it's good to get a finger in her so you can *feel* her response rather than stopping every few seconds to to go "how about there?... is that good? or there?" lol.
And I don't know if you do want to change it up *that* much really, it could get frustrating - when you hit a sweet spot, I reckon most women would say "keep doing that!" At least for a bit anyway. I mean think about getting sucked off right, when she licks or sucks it *just right* which again AFAIK, we're all slightly different with, I want her to keep at it, not keep changing. I've been there loads of times where she did something that felt *really* nice but changed so quickly when I try to say "do that thing you were doing a moment ago" I can't describe which thing she was doing and she doesn't quite hit it the same way again. That's *really* frustrating when that happens.
Teasing never fails though - which is ironic really, since that's all about what you're *not* doing rather than what you are.
i most definitly agree that all women are different in what they like, thats why i just do "EVERYTHING"...if you use every technique, skill and position you can think of theres not much chance of you not satisfying her.
We'll agree to disagree on that. I think skill in the bedroom is identifying the things she *really* likes, and then just doing those. I'm not saying you don't have to try lots of things out, just that if you don't pick up on the things she likes you're gonna spend an awful lot of time doing things she doesn't care too much for.
(edit) plus, to go back to what I was saying about girls changing what they're doing up there, I noticed with a couple of girls like that when you get them to go back to something they were doing before, they seemed to get bored with it, even though I would be loving every second.
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I'm all about this post..............except the choking bit, not really into that but for the rest of it it's "game on".
