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I was wondering what the womens' opinions are on the physical appearance of a man's penis. Do you find the penis sexually attractive? Have you ever been with a guy and thought he had an ugly penis and were immediately turned off by it? Are you indifferent about it and don't care either way?
 

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Every woman is different
 

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What happened to this sticky .....
What a BUMMER IT'S not up
 

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When there were more women on this site the usual answer was a rock hard one. Of course size , length and girth matter but firmness was essential.
I think that’s one of the reasons when I pound her with a good vein popping clamp on. I suffer length loss but girth and hardness are MAXED out
 

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What happened to this sticky .....
What a BUMMER IT'S not up

Let me see if I can guess. You were looking for the thread title:

ByggD's Guide to Controlling Your Ejaculation Response

It's here:


The reason you ended up here is because the link to the proper thread is broken. Long story.
 

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When there were more women on this site the usual answer was a rock hard one. Of course size , length and girth matter but firmness was essential.
I think that’s one of the reasons when I pound her with a good vein popping clamp on. I suffer length loss but girth and hardness are MAXED out
The primary physical complaint is a lack of hardness.
 
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Let me see if I can guess. You were looking for the thread title:

ByggD's Guide to Controlling Your Ejaculation Response

It's here:


The reason you ended up here is because the link to the proper thread is broken. Long story.
Thanks for posting this!
 
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I text my wife other guys cock pics all the time, I throw a few in of my if I think it’s a worthy pic. All rock hard, big and veiny, she looks and deletes them she claims, “I don’t want dick pics on my phone.” Of course I don’t know her password to open up her phone so who knows. It‘d be nice if a few of me where on it.
 

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So. I googled what size cock do women find most desirable.
According to bad ladies? Not sure I remember right. 7.13 by 4.8. Kinda surprised by the smaller girth preference. How many women measure?
 

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The actual question is about whether or not there are attractive vs unattractive penises. I'd bet that as long as it is clean, the vast majority of women could give a rat's ass. Practically the only people who care about size are us guys. You can comb your hair or get it cut, put on nice clothes or go casual, etc., not sure what we can do to make our dick "look" better.
 

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Actually, according to the article I read women are very much interested in size, both length and girth were of equal importance but an attractive penis must be proportional in both. You could have an 8 inch dick for instance but if it were to thin then not attractive. Also a clean penis is important the vast majority of the women questioned preferred a manscaped penis and balls. With a slight edge to being shaved clean. I know when I went bare she gave it a lot more attention orally than when I had the forest down there.
 

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From the feedback received, the greatest concern from women regarding penises is hardness.

While as men we tend to focus on the performative aspects of things, the biggest complaint from woemn overall is the lack of emotional engagement. I once heard a woman describe it as follows (paraphrasing): "A man can be big and hard and go for as long as he likes, but if he's not there in the moment fully enjoying the experience it make me feel like I'm more of an object being used than someone he cares about."
 

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From the feedback received, the greatest concern from women regarding penises is hardness.

While as men we tend to focus on the performative aspects of things, the biggest complaint from woemn overall is the lack of emotional engagement. I once heard a woman describe it as follows (paraphrasing): "A man can be big and hard and go for as long as he likes, but if he's not there in the moment fully enjoying the experience it make me feel like I'm more of an object being used than someone he cares about."
“Use me, Abuse me, but when you wake up, you’ll lose me.”
 

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The issue with men who try to last longer, is that the 'trying' can be disengaging and is VERY apparent. It's quite unattractive when a guy slows down or stops moving as fast abruptly or closes his eyes, or starts heavy breathing.

I prefer a guy to just blow it, be funny and confident about it, and try again.
 
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Are the forums still broken? Lol
 

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We would not get on Crazy. I do MMo and orgasm repeatedly while doing all sorts of stops starts speed changes breathing changes etc . Course i think duo sex is a team sport and a girl should be able to work with me in the team . But some girls find it a spin meh , or can't handle it, or it is too much work .
 

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The issue with men who try to last longer, is that the 'trying' can be disengaging and is VERY apparent. It's quite unattractive when a guy slows down or stops moving as fast abruptly or closes his eyes, or starts heavy breathing.

I prefer a guy to just blow it, be funny and confident about it, and try again.
I tend to agree with you…as nice as it is to “endure” it is also a bit of a chore…and I often wonder for what pay off? I’d prefer to go multiple rounds and bust when it’s naturally coming (pun intended lol).
 

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Doing Dry Orgasms you can orgasm without ejaculating and without losing erection level or arousal. With practice you can do these during intercourse without stoping your motion or slowing down your thrusting, which I have found with my lady to give essentially infinite stamina and to be very effective for pushing her into even her most stubborn of orgasms. Earlier on while you’re training for that you will need to be able to practice DOs by slowing or stopping thrusting for a few seconds while you hold your kegel or you’ll lose your grip, and I would have to agree with Pegasus that intercourse is a two way pleasure ride, with gives and takes on each side. So while the “trying” aspect does indeed take that practice time to get there in which there may be start and stops or slowed thrusting at first, it can be dramatically minimized with practice for uninterrupted thrusting for building your partners orgasms.
 
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