I actually think this is sometimes why Pre-E becomes an issue. So my wife is like this , I start and after a few mins I reach ponr - I try slow it down etc but she gets frustrated and tells me to just enjoy it and come. Now here’s where the problem begins. She never wants a 2nd round. Yes I’ve come but I’m not really satisfied sometimes as it’s last thing at night and there was no real foreplay etc and the next time we have sex could be the next week!!! Yes libidos are mismatched in my case. But if I came first time and then had a 2nd round I know I’m going to last and enjoy it more. I think as a result of what I said above subconsciously I feel pressure as I want to feel fulfilled/satisfied but I won’t if I come quickly ( hence begins pre-e circle!!)
Incidentally whilst on holidays recently we actually had a 2nd round (1st time in donkey years!!) and I came initially after a few minutes. But she allowed me and enjoyed me pleasuring her - I then got hard after 10-15 mins and was able to bring her to piv orgasm. I was able to keep going and stay hard for as long as she needed. I didn’t come the 2nd time but I didn’t care as I felt fulfilled/ connected etc. I’m just not sure how long it’ll be till we do this again
So. You would think for her a second round would be standard practice now. No?
You like this. So after an hour of vibes, dildos with tongue, multiple orgasms , it’s my turn. Her favorite she claims. Bull sh*t. So. I’m about to enter her and, “oh look, I got cloudy outside.” Ya. My cock is relevant. I should have stopped right then and there. Ya. She loves my pathetic, and a weather report.
