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Hi brothers, like any guy - I guess - I was severely addicted to porn and i stopped once i reached 20 years old, that was the best decision i made it changed me dramatically for good.
- Now that i'm 22 years old, there's something that is bothering me - 2 actually - in the last 2 years of no porn:
-First, sometimes once a month or two months and for 3days to a week or even more my penis become pale and dark my testicules become tight and dark and the line that separates my balls become very dark, my libido drops a little and when i get an erection at that stage it's like a forced one not a girthy nice erection i usually get in the normal days once i pass that phase I have z dick of a pornstar
- so what do you think the problem is? Personally I think it might be bad circulation, i've made once a testosterone test and the resulst were good. I have two potential issues for the main problem : I have iron deficiency and I have bad posture, hyperlodosis to be specific but i don't have apt though my bell stick out even if I train regularly I hate it because it makes my penis small even if I'm 7inchesBPEL
-Second problem, I am a guy who believe in sex after marriage, i met with a lovely cute most beautiful girl i've ever me i confessed my love to her and she has the same mindset as me she also wants sex after marriage but that didn't stop us from kissing each other - she is my first kiss by the way don't know if I am her first but she seems so she was inexperienced as i am - so anyway the problem is me who never had sexual experience beside bad one -porn- when i was making out it felt so good but i didn't get an erection and my heart was beating so fast I think my brain is used to solo sessions with a screen to release my sexual tension and now with a real girl that I love it was too much for me you can call me a noob no problem because I'm really a virgin
- Finally brothers, i'm sorry for writing a long post I wanted to explain my situation so please as i said in the title treat me as your young brother and give me an advice because it's bothering me that i have big size but not using its potential
I'm willing to commit myself to fix or reduce my problems, i'll be grateful forever for any help
 

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Sounds like a contraction of blood flow to the body which is first seen in the extremities.
Reason could be the nervous system, like fear. Or it could be low movement due to low engagement of muscles.
Cold temperature maybe too but a good working and relaxed body can counter that.
Generally, expansion in any meaning, like breathing outward through the dick into an expanded pelvic floor or stretching your legs and arms out in movements, will probably benefit you. If it makes sense
 

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Sounds like a contraction of blood flow to the body which is first seen in the extremities.
Reason could be the nervous system, like fear. Or it could be low movement due to low engagement of muscles.
Cold temperature maybe too but a good working and relaxed body can counter that.
Generally, expansion in any meaning, like breathing outward through the dick into an expanded pelvic floor or stretching your legs and arms out in movements, will probably benefit you. If it makes sense

Thank you for response, yes I do have sometimes cold hands and feet, and I read that iron deficiency can do that
So do tou think relaxation and meditation might be a solution?
 

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It could be just blue balls setting in. If I make a sudden change in my masturbation habits sometimes my libido drops and things downstairs seems like they are protesting. There's even been times where I couldn't get an erection even if I wanted. My body just wasn't having it. I'd say if things were fine before you made your changes I wouldn't stress too much.
 

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It could be just blue balls setting in. If I make a sudden change in my masturbation habits sometimes my libido drops and things downstairs seems like they are protesting. There's even been times where I couldn't get an erection even if I wanted. My body just wasn't having it. I'd say if things were fine before you made your changes I wouldn't stress too much.
Thank you ultimate burrito - by the way you have the best pseudo name in this forum -
- Yes my masturbation habits are heavily changed i used to fap 3x every day in my porn addiction, now once or twice a week and usually long sessions, how much time after chnaging your habits that you became better will it become better eventually or the body is used to the old habits and it won't change for better
- I'm not stressed I guess , i just want to be better in my sexual life
Thank you so much
 

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