"live well is the best revenge" or something to that effect.
That's just silly talk.
The best revenge is drinking from your enemy's gilded skull, while feasting on the spoils of his/her distruction.
"live well is the best revenge" or something to that effect.
Dante, it's time for some tough love.
First off, read the title of the thread you started: right off the back you're off on the wrong foot. You've created a self-fulfilling prophecy: your relationships suck because that's how you've envisioned them and in-effect, subconsciously or otherwise, made that your goal. This thread has been one continuous pity-party: you've received some great advice which could empower you to turn things around, yet you choose to emotionally 'stew in your own juices' and stay in this dysfunctional loop.
MAN UP!! Being a man is more than climbing on top of a woman, its about making choices and owning them. Its about taking charge of all aspects of your life, of sometimes having to make tough decisions and take a stand that might not be the most comfortable at the moment, and YES, it might sting a little for a while, but will be best for you on the long-run.
Before a woman can love you, you have to love yourself, believe in yourself and demand no less than the best for yourself: good relationships and good women, and DON'T SETTLE FOR LESS UNTIL YOU GET THEM. That means having the moral courage and discipline to reject that which or those who aren't good for you.. . . . .or you can continue to suck at relationships. Its up to you.
Man, sorry to hear about that.
Truth is if she ''wants to take it slow'', ''not much talking or hanging out'',
I wouldn't hope for a come back to a relationship.
As you said earlier you can't give her the cakes and let her eat it too,
or as we says here ''you can't keep both the butter and the money''.
You better seek for another girl, or you will only hurts yourself more.
For some stupid reason I gave my ex the friendship, but she wants to take it slow.... Ie not much talking or hanging out
Wait, is this the same chick you said you couldn't be friends with and now am I reading that you did befriend her anyway????
its not immature.. if its to hard for you to have her on there,then its too hard.
I'm not miserable anymore, I'm just aggravated at how selfish she is.
On the plus side... I have 2 girls I'm hanging out as "just friends".. they want more, but know I dont' yet. fun

