I suck @ Relationships thread

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"live well is the best revenge" or something to that effect.

That's just silly talk.

The best revenge is drinking from your enemy's gilded skull, while feasting on the spoils of his/her distruction.
 

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I recently had a break up myself. There is a lot of good advicr here. Thank you all so much. I was stuck in a rut but feel better now.
 

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Btw my girl was also 5 years younger than me and i realize now why she wasn't a good match for me.
 

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Dante, it's time for some tough love.

First off, read the title of the thread you started: right off the back you're off on the wrong foot. You've created a self-fulfilling prophecy: your relationships suck because that's how you've envisioned them and in-effect, subconsciously or otherwise, made that your goal. This thread has been one continuous pity-party: you've received some great advice which could empower you to turn things around, yet you choose to emotionally 'stew in your own juices' and stay in this dysfunctional loop.

MAN UP!! Being a man is more than climbing on top of a woman, its about making choices and owning them. Its about taking charge of all aspects of your life, of sometimes having to make tough decisions and take a stand that might not be the most comfortable at the moment, and YES, it might sting a little for a while, but will be best for you on the long-run.

Before a woman can love you, you have to love yourself, believe in yourself and demand no less than the best for yourself: good relationships and good women, and DON'T SETTLE FOR LESS UNTIL YOU GET THEM. That means having the moral courage and discipline to reject that which or those who aren't good for you.. . . . .or you can continue to suck at relationships. Its up to you.

This is golden. I love you man
 

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Don't give up Dante.
I've been in a similar situation.

Spent 4 years with my first love, she got pregnant by one of her friend while still with me.
2nd love lasted 8-9 months. Bitch left me in the beginning of December and on Christmas eve night she called me for a fuck.
Told her Merry Xmas and to go fuck herself with the pink dildo she used to have.

Now pretty much all my ex-girfriends call me from time to time for a quick fuck.
As I did read earlier on this post, girls don't like to be ''over-loved'', they rather likes to
be treated like bitches years long and like a princess on specials dates. Or after a good fuck.

Life's a bitch but I do think that in 2012, relationships between mens and girls are not what is was years ago.
I mean, my grand-ma lasted over 50 fucking years with her husband, my mom and dad lasted like 15 years together.
Which may explains the frequent short-terms relationships we have today.

Humans are made to meet, fuck, and go along.
 

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Man, sorry to hear about that.

Truth is if she ''wants to take it slow'', ''not much talking or hanging out'',
I wouldn't hope for a come back to a relationship.

As you said earlier you can't give her the cakes and let her eat it too,
or as we says here ''you can't keep both the butter and the money''.

You better seek for another girl, or you will only hurts yourself more.
 

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Man, sorry to hear about that.

Truth is if she ''wants to take it slow'', ''not much talking or hanging out'',
I wouldn't hope for a come back to a relationship.

As you said earlier you can't give her the cakes and let her eat it too,
or as we says here ''you can't keep both the butter and the money''.

You better seek for another girl, or you will only hurts yourself more.


Yeah I hear that. Instead of her, what I believed, attempt at holding on to me... I feel this is her means of appeasing any guilt.
 

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For some stupid reason I gave my ex the friendship, but she wants to take it slow.... Ie not much talking or hanging out

Wait, is this the same chick you said you couldn't be friends with and now am I reading that you did befriend her anyway????
 

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its not immature.. if its to hard for you to have her on there,then its too hard.


I'm not miserable anymore, I'm just aggravated at how selfish she is.

On the plus side... I have 2 girls I'm hanging out as "just friends".. they want more, but know I dont' yet. fun
 

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I'm not miserable anymore, I'm just aggravated at how selfish she is.

On the plus side... I have 2 girls I'm hanging out as "just friends".. they want more, but know I dont' yet. fun


This is something you're going to have simply learn to let go of Dante. I understand EXACTLY how you feel. I've spent many times feeling that SAME exact way over my ex wife and my psycho ex gf. .........and you have to learn to get over it and move on otherwise it's going to eat at you inside.