Ejaculating too often: consequences

[TheSperminator]

I'd like to know as much as possible about all the consequences (and perhaps dangers) of ejaculating too often.
I love masturbating, but I'm curious about what is healthy and what not. I think many men ejaculate way too often wich gives them poor health (because they lose a lot of minerals).

Perhaps also mention what you can do about it .. take supplements what so ever (and yes: masturbate less) ..

-Brainsick

 

[Steve23]

2-3 times a week is healthy.

 

[BigO]

I will just give you my personel experience. The few times I have whacked the weasel too much I had trouble getting it up for a while, I felt tired and lazy and I needed a cigerette. I do know that once a day hasnever been an issue for me but now that i am married and my wife is sweetheart we go like rabbits and I dont feel it has hindered my gains. We average about 4 or 5 times a week.
I know sex and beating off arent quite the same but the end result is. It can lower your testosterone levels breifly.

 

[BigO]

2-3 times a week is healthy.

Huskies never lie, never ever! They do it doggie style!

 

[somebodyelse]

it lowers your testosterone, it brings on chemicals that are relaxers and suppressants, and while it offers a slight boost for a short span of time, the suppressants stay in your system for a day or more (from what I read).

You make yourself less physically capable and less "happy" when you masterbate too often...

And as an ultimate slap in the face, excessive masturbation (and its side effects) makes you less attractive to women! They don't even have to know you masturbate. When you beat it too much, you are just a less confident, less outgoing, less aggressive person in general. LOL!

To Add:

The saddest part is that you also program yourself. You don't feel like you have to work to get sexual satisfaction. If you get rejected by a girl you can go home and beat it. When you feel like, in order to have an orgasm, you HAVE to go out and get it from a woman (or man if that's your flavor) You'll be more motivated to make it happen,and the elevated levels of Testosterone make you more of an Alpha Male than you otherwise would be.

 

[TheSperminator]

Thanks for the replies already appreciate it.
During my puberty i could really bust nuts 6-7 times a day .. I have red cheeks (it could be rosacea, not sure) .. When I don't masturbate I feel my skin getting stronger (it could all be in my head). I've red that you lose important minerals via your semen. ..
When I masturbate often, my skin gets really red (probably bloodflow), but I also feel very tired ..

I actually hate it sometimes, cumming .. It sucks the life energy out of me. But i always have this urge to cum. It's so contradictory. I hate it.
When I don't masturbate a while I feel very strong. I can train hard. After the training however when my muscles begin to grow I just have this constant urge of busting a nut. Just to calm my body. I can't explain it in a different manner ..

grtz

 

[TheSperminator]

Somebodyelse you just hit the nail right on his head. (repped) It has become a sex replacer for me .. I just masturbate when I feel the need and that's it .. I didn't have a girl in like 5 years .. Just because porn is so easy to give you that rush in your head (or just masturbating in general). I'm a good-looking guy, well-fashioned, well-groomed, .. However i'm not very confident .. Like somebodyelse said, your not very dominant. Girls in real-life almost don't interest me anymore. I just don't see the benefits of working for a relationship, I see girls as attractive people who I can have sex with. That's it. Nothing more. I have a lot of male friends. I have girlfriends but I just don't have that urge to have sex with one of them or to work for a girl I find special. I hate it so bad, it makes me feel abnormal.

It's just a vicious circle. I'm not confident because I don't have that hunters mentality in me.. This leads to no sex or affection.. Wich leads to masturbation to fulfill my needs .. Wich leads to less testosterone and relaxing chemicals .. etcetera etcetera ..

I also feel that -when you masturbate a lot- women can sense this .. I think it can already be traced in your smell .. I don't think you give of a very attractive smell when you masturbate a lot, also because the life energy gets drained out of you .. I actually hate it, porn AND masturbation ..

I know masturbation is healthy if done 2-3 times a week like Steve23 said. But I always feel so lazy and lifeless when I do it .. I know, just quit with masturbation .. But then after 2 days I feel that urge again.

I'm really glad i've found this site, I can feel already my dick is becoming healthier/stronger. (the gains are a nice side-effect )

grtz

Note: this is the reason why I ask this question I really want to be afraid to bust nuts you know what I mean .. Just to restore myself .. I'm already quitting porn .. I'm gonna keep a log on that I think it will help.

 

[superpp]

That's oh so very true dudes, before i had a gf i at one point in time used to masturbate up to 3-5 times daily, as each year passes i realised that doing this is starting to weaken me. About the domination thing, that is true, but on the other side i remember girls who was sort of my friend telling me that i acted to 'thirsty'.....so i started masturbating more [it didnt help], i have heard rumors that i move like i am married.... so that means to me NOW that i wanted sex but just not being dominant enough.

You have to get it right down to the T because my cousin has been helping me with 'succeeding with girls' and she told me that you cant act like you want sex really bad but cant not act like you dont want it at all.....that is really tough to do especially at my age {26yrs old} men at my age should have that down already. But i dont...confidence matters more

I used to powerlift for years and i wanted to bust a nut everyday, even when i do so everyday my erections were of very high quality and i would cum alot. But not anymore, i dont exercise regularly - im going to change that......, also now that i have started PE'ing my erections are coming back. I had sex with my ex a few days ago and my erection quality was very high to the point that i felt like my penis wanted to explode ....wow...that after cumming 2 times. She also told me that she is enjoying my head {my response to that was..umm ok..what do you mean?} She was like your head got bigger....my reply..WHAT....she repeated YOUR HEAD GOT BIGGER....upon hearing that my erection remained like that for 1 full hour and i didnt cum....i could have seen the positive effect on her face.....Jelqing i realised is pushing alot of blood in my glans and it would change colour for about 1 hour then return to normal....so PE'ing helps with quality with my limited experience..

So dudes if you can sometimes resist the porn and jacking off you will see results.....i am very jumpy at the moment....i am feeling horny, my flaccid seem longer and a bit more consistent since taking the recommended supplements in JP90. I used to take all BUT the L - Arg and L Lysine the protein.....but since i started ALL of the supplements inclusive of the protein WOW....FYI i was on vacation since DEC the recreation, extra rest....haphazard eating....imagine if you did everything right more consistently guys....

Now just like you guys i struggled for years with porn and masturbation girl friend or no girl friend, i still do. The times i was able to get away from it successfully was when i was really busy physically and mentally. Soooooo to help those of you who are still struggling. You occupy your time with work then if you still want to jack off you engage in physical activity [gym, swimming, walking, tennis etc etc] that way you are just generally to tired [not completely exhausted] to 'bust a nut' also rest when you are tired, eat 3 square meals at least and when you want to jack off .........masturbate without porn or thinking about it!!!!....its important you do this....cum with just the feeling not with what is in your mind it will really help you...start practicing jacking off less then aim for 1 or 2 times per week. If you do it like me.....i was able to do what i just said maybe just about 8 times and when i jacked off i felt reallyyyy good and not weak or guilty nothing....so i will continue....actual sex doesnt count in this....good luck everyone

 

[TheSperminator]

Yeah, i'm gonna follow your advice superpp .. I think i'm gonna study some more, when I feel the urge I start working out, when I still feel the urge I just go to friends or sit with my parents or wathever ..

Watching porn can fuck you up mentaly .. When I look at a girl the first thing in my mind is damn doggystyle right away you know .. It's not damn, she looks like a quality girl i'd love to meet ..

And I think girls can sense it .. When you're looking at her and thinking "she can deepthroat me anytime" or when you look at her "I think you're fun" .. Facial expressions, behavior, eyes, .. They can sense it what you're thinking about her..

All of your biggest fantasies in just 2 clicks away, it made me lazy. Porn made me lazy .. To the point where i was to lazy to just go and take a shower .. I'm disgusted about myself .. The way I am now, I don't even deserve a girlfriend .. I just live, that's it .. and when I feel depressed or anything I just pull the dick and that's it ..

I hope a bigger dick will be my starting point to more self-improvement and more confidence ..

I also think all the succesfull guys in the world don't pull their weener that often .. They use that sexual energy to accomplish and improve their lives .. I just choose the easy path: busting a nut..

-Brain

 

[Pegasus]

I'd like to know as much as possible about all the consequences (and perhaps dangers) of ejaculating too often.
I love masturbating, but I'm curious about what is healthy and what not. I think many men ejaculate way too often wich gives them poor health (because they lose a lot of minerals).

Perhaps also mention what you can do about it .. take supplements what so ever (and yes: masturbate less) ..

-Brainsick

I ejaculated multi times a day for many years with no problem ,I suspect this ejaculate less thing is based in religion. If you are worried about minerals supplement.

 

[TheSperminator]

@Pegasus: Multiple times a day? and did you still have the sexual energy to go out and meet girls? .. Did you ejaculate through masturbating or through intercourse? .. I'm referring to masturbating, to much ejaculating through masturbating is bad imo.

grtz

 

[PEaton]

I Got some wise words on this once dont remmember who told me but il share it on

Use it or loose it, but everything is best done with moderation. There is such a thing as too much good!

i just felt theese would fit

 

[Pegasus]

@Pegasus: Multiple times a day? and did you still have the sexual energy to go out and meet girls? .. Did you ejaculate through masturbating or through intercourse? .. I'm referring to masturbating, to much ejaculating through masturbating is bad imo.

grtz

Yes through masturbation mostly, though I did chase girls, do a physical job and a lot of sport.
Again this stuff seems to have come from religon.

 

[TheSperminator]

I'm gonna be short about this cause I think it can be a very sensitive subject for some people .. I'm not really a religious person .. I do believe in something but not the whole package .. I'm more of a "I want proof-person" ..

Pegasus, could you perhaps explain it a bit more why it would be a religious problem?

I love masturbating, but I do feel that it takes a lot of energy out of my body .. I become lazy like a mentioned before. My body feels tired .. I'm so relaxed than that I don't feel like going out and meet women ..

I'm searching for ways to restore my libido, I want to become crazy when I see a girl, and then hit on her .. Get the confidence you know .. Because mostly all I do in the weekends is just having fun with my friends, not picking up women or even talking to them .. I'm a fun confident person, IF YOU KNOW ME.. If you don't know me, I'm a pro in making akward-moments .. I think if I masturbate less I'll get the confidence naturally ..

I don't think masturbating is a bad thing (that it would make you blind and stuff ), but I do believe that we men masturbate too much, If you look at animals they never masturbate themselves (some do, but most not) .. When you look at a male horse for example, they don't have the ability to masturbate and feel the pleasure from making themselves cum .. When they have the chance to impregnate a female horse they get crazy .. I want to be the male horse so Pegasus since you are a horse tell me what to do please

-Brain

 

[ninja_42]

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I actually hate it sometimes, cumming .. It sucks the life energy out of me. But i always have this urge to cum. It's so contradictory. I hate it.
When I don't masturbate a while I feel very strong. I can train hard. After the training however when my muscles begin to grow I just have this constant urge of busting a nut. Just to calm my body. I can't explain it in a different manner ..

I hear ya on the 'it sucks the life energy out of me' part. Semen is widely believed to contain some of your spirit &/or energy. I'm a big martial arts enthusiast, and in some of the more internal arts (energy-based) such as T'ai chi ch'uan they believe either in celibacy, or not having sex very often. This is usually due to them not wanting to lose their 'chi'. It's because of this that I try to be wary when cumming. _ A kung fu master that I want to train under (I believe) often recommends (to American students) to try to refrain from ejaculating for a month when first beginning training!

I used to masturbate a lot, and it's almost always to completion. I'm slowly trying to change that. I'm not sure to what extent though. I feel as though my ideal would be ballooning. I still kind of want to 'masturbate', I just don't want to ejaculate. (The urge is still there to cum, I just want to fight it) I think that is basically my new goal. I'm going to try to cum less / balloon more.


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but damn... cumming just feels so good!

 

[Nola-rise]

The lazy and tiredness could strongly be related to simply depression, that is totally irrelevant to masturbation. Sexual drive is an energy booster in its self, so when people assume that they are energetic up an until they masturbate, might be confusing the fact that the drive to masturbate was what was giving them energy in the first place. And if you find yourself doing this multiable times a day, it is inevitable to confuse the lesser of two evils.

Guess the only way for you to determine whats real and whats not, is to lose sexual desires all together, and see if you fall back to having the same effects claimed to have had after masturbation.

 

[SeemsLegit]

I'd say I ejaculate 2 times per day 4 times per week (so on average more than once per day). Never had an issue from it but if I don't jerk it for 3-7 days my orgasm is exponentially better in terms of feeling and how far it shoots out. I like to jerk a lot because 1) It's fun and 2) it seems to help with turtling, but I don't think you lose a considerable amount of minerals or proteins from it.

 

[TheSperminator]

Thanks for the responses guys!

 

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

Somebodyelse you just hit the nail right on his head. (repped) It has become a sex replacer for me .. I just masturbate when I feel the need and that's it .. I didn't have a girl in like 5 years .. Just because porn is so easy to give you that rush in your head (or just masturbating in general). I'm a good-looking guy, well-fashioned, well-groomed, .. However i'm not very confident .. Like somebodyelse said, your not very dominant. Girls in real-life almost don't interest me anymore. I just don't see the benefits of working for a relationship, I see girls as attractive people who I can have sex with. That's it. Nothing more. I have a lot of male friends. I have girlfriends but I just don't have that urge to have sex with one of them or to work for a girl I find special. I hate it so bad, it makes me feel abnormal.

It's just a vicious circle. I'm not confident because I don't have that hunters mentality in me.. This leads to no sex or affection.. Wich leads to masturbation to fulfill my needs .. Wich leads to less testosterone and relaxing chemicals .. etcetera etcetera ..

I also feel that -when you masturbate a lot- women can sense this .. I think it can already be traced in your smell .. I don't think you give of a very attractive smell when you masturbate a lot, also because the life energy gets drained out of you .. I actually hate it, porn AND masturbation ..

I know masturbation is healthy if done 2-3 times a week like Steve23 said. But I always feel so lazy and lifeless when I do it .. I know, just quit with masturbation .. But then after 2 days I feel that urge again.

I'm really glad i've found this site, I can feel already my dick is becoming healthier/stronger. (the gains are a nice side-effect )

grtz

Note: this is the reason why I ask this question I really want to be afraid to bust nuts you know what I mean .. Just to restore myself .. I'm already quitting porn .. I'm gonna keep a log on that I think it will help.

Exactly what I'm going through. I've MBd so much in my life and It's done nothing but fuck me up! lol.....

 

[longrodten]

Too much ejaculation from masterbation ties your mental connection of the sex act, with masterbation. It's not good.

It's better to have the real thing. Also, busting nuts too often will lower your erection power. But if your in pussy
and doing it, your building up your confidence in your cock as you have sex - and it adds to your erection power. So
I think busting nuts with pussy too often may be an impossibility.

But jagging off too often and not having sex CAN be a problem.