How old a virgin guy must be to be considered weird?
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Ummm....excuse me, i think you're getting me confused with someone else. I NEVER got laid in high school...im 20 and still a virgin...
I lost mine just before I turned 21. Like a few months before. Don't worry... when it happens it will happen.
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I think you are smart if you don't have sex while still in highschool...talk about drama... much better to wait till you are an adult and the people you are sleeping with are a little less immature and little more hormonally stable...lol
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Ummm....excuse me, i think you're getting me confused with someone else. I NEVER got laid in high school...im 20 and still a virgin...
OK, sorry, I thought you had. Either way, it doesn't matter, so you're 20 and a virgin. Big deal......I was a virgin until I was 22.....next?
Its a good idea to fuck at least few girls if only so that you gain some experience and learn the ropes a bit. I'm not just talking about learning about the vagina and how your dick fits in it but also so that you learn how to act with a girl in the sack and afterwords as well. But if this does not happen it does not make you "weird" - just inexperienced.
The problem, like a lot of people are saying, is that teenagers don't know what the hell they are doing. They watch a movie and think that is how sex is. In a perfect world, everybody would wait until they were ready. In this world, teens do what they THINK is expected of them in their lives and what they think their friends are doing (peer pressure).
Teens believe that they know the world around them, yet know very little.
Teens believe that they know the world around them, yet know very little.
That's true. It's just that sex is very complex and most teenagers don't know how to handle it.
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For one, that's not very funny. It's a confidence issue for me that's painful to think about.
For two, i know for a FACT that i won't be losing mine any time soon. Too many shitty things going on in my life.
Three, it DOES matter because it's obviously making me depressed.
No you're making yourself depressed. You want something and right now you can't have it. Let me ask you; does that sound like a grownup responsible adult or a child. There is a reason children can't have sex;physically they can't and emotionally they couldn't handle it.How about acting like a grownup and then see what happens.
Wow thanks that's just what i needed
I guess i shouldn't expect any of you to understand.
No that is exactly what you needed. You want to come here and be coddled and have eveyone tell you it's okay and all that crap. You want sympathy. You think you're the only young man on the planet at your age that hasn't gotten laid yet? You are not the center of the universe ( I am)! Maybe if you start acting your age and go out and enjoy life instead of coming here telling us that you're so depressed you'd be fine. If you want to be depressed then go a head;it's your choice.Most chicks I know don't want to hang around depressing people so you can just reinforce it! No young man; choose your path. Be a baby or man up and enjoy life. It's up to you!
I really don't think it's all about being a virgin and real depression isn't a choice and that's probably the worst approach you could take. CUSP that's the worst post you've ever wrote.
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You should not be depressed over this. Seriously dude. It's not a big deal. It will happen when it happens. Maybe get a girlfriend.
I have a friend who is gonna be 24 and is still a virgin. He has only kissed a girl before, and I NEVER see him talking to one we don't already know. He could have been laid by now be he has literally NO confidence in himself. Women can see that. Biiiiiiiiiig turn off.
I have a friend who is gonna be 24 and is still a virgin. He has only kissed a girl before, and I NEVER see him talking to one we don't already know. He could have been laid by now be he has literally NO confidence in himself. Women can see that. Biiiiiiiiiig turn off.
I think it was one of his better posts, to be honest. Too frequently here we put up with everybody's "woe is me" bullshit and it was good to see a man-up post.
When someone is dealing with real depression(not just feeling down every now and then). That is the most fucked up and cruel thing someone could say. And as some one who's had bad depression for years still taking anti-depressants now even though I'm now over it, CUSP's post is just what you expect to hear all this 'Man up' or just enjoy it talk and have no understanding of how it feels and how something like that can make you feel when every one has the same type of answer like just be happy and enjoy yourself and the 'man up' and no one understands what it feels like, it's not as simple as that.
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Actually, there was a point where I was depressed as hell. I think all the coddling just pissed me off. I don't take medication for stuff like that because I don't believe in it. Either way, one of my friends just punched me in the nose. He said, "I'm sick of your sh*t. Stop being a pussy and get over this." It worked. That in combination with meditation helped me.
I'm happier than ever now.
I'm happier than ever now.
While quite obviously your confusing depression with feeling down. The Man up sh*t will help 0% of people suffering with depression any one who says otherwise is wrong.
