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Well i don't want to kill mine, it's illegal. However if she got hit by a truck ,the world would be a better place.
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Well i don't want to kill mine, it's illegal. However if she got hit by a truck ,the world would be a better place.
I'm in a pretty hard situation right now. The sister of a good friend of mine likes me I guess. And I know I can't do anything cause its a bit weird. We constantly have eyecontant, which makes it so akward. She is constantly checking me out and I can't help myself checking her out as well now.
This is a great situation for a guy to be in ( a guy having a girl to like him compared to a guy liking a girl but not knowing if she likes him or not). My suggestion is to just hang around both your friend and his sister. Go over to their house whenever you can and watch a movie or just to talk. If she really likes you, she will find a way to be in the same room as you and your friend. Just go slow and be respectful so your friend doesn't think all you want to do is screw his sister. Don't ask her out at first. Just be in the same room that she is in. Make small talk. Try to show EVERYONE, not just the girl, that you are a great guy. If you do this for a little while, the girl is going to start telling her brother what a great guy you are. Unless he is a jerk, he is going to want his sister to go out with someone nice, so he will tell you that his sister really likes you. The key is to just be patient. If you can do this, you will eventually be able to go out with her! Good luck.
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Funny, just the other day I was wishing the a big black whole would open up and swallow mine and she'd never been seen or heard from again. I feel badly for my kids because she is their mother but I'd be dancing a jig inside. I'm so going to rot for saying this.........
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Funny. I'm in a similar situation. There's this chick at work that apparently has a thing for me. Ever since she found out that I went on a date last week with this one girl and another date this past Friday night with the same girl, she's been doing ALOT to get my attention. For instance, after I told her about my first date, I get a text from her (out of the blue mind you) asking me if I had my kids that evening. When I told her I didn't but asked her why she wanted to know, she sent me back a text asking me if I'd be interested in having dinner with her.
So, I did. The next day, she sent me another text asking me "I forgot to ask you, did my eyes twinkle last night at dinner??" I thought to myself "oh man, here we go....."
I take Christie to a movie Friday night (we saw Copout.......VERY funny!!) After the movie, Christie goes into the lady's room and my phone goes off (keep in mind it's now almost 10pm). It's Cindy asking me "So, am I interrupting anything??lol".
Fast forward to last night and I have not only Christie texting me, but then I get Cindy texting me and now I've got a lady by the name of Marianne interested in me. All I can say is "holy hell!!!" LOL
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This is great advice. When you are interested in the sister of a friend (or anyone related to someone you care about), it's critical to make a good impression on all involved. Do NOT sneak around -- that never ends well. Be up front with everyone and act well, and who knows -- maybe you'll end up in a great situation! But don't be sneaky. Just take it slow and everything should be fine. Everyone wants their brothers and sisters to end up with good partners, so the fact he's your friend doesn't have to be a problem (unless you make it one!)
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Nobody rots for thinking things like this, you only rot if you act on it! Just always take the high road around your ex (especially when your kids are around) and don't talk her down around them -- what you think on your own time in your own head is your own business. (And trust me, EVERYONE has thoughts that they know are not the best.... the key is to keep them in their place!)
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Well, I got Marianne's number this morning so I'll call her later today. In the conversation I had with Cindy last night, I was explaining that I'm very happy internally and very happy where I am in my life and don't need a woman in my life. I'd like one, but it's not a requirement for my happiness. Cindy point blank told me "that's why you have so many women interested in you.........your happy and it shows....."
And last night, Christie sent me a pic of herself at this engagement party. She looked HOT, with her cranberry and vodka in her hand.
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I'd NEVER act on my thoughts. I don't possess that bone (thank God!). I'm just tired of dealing with my kids' mother and wish she would just simply go away.
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All you guys out there asking about how to attract women -- listen and learn from Mr.BD!!!
I was there yesterday at his lil brothers bday party. I know how to act in such a situation, making a good impression, of course no sneaking around and stuff. The only thing I am concerned with in this situation is, do I want to date his sister? Cause I just met his sister a few months back. And we've all been hanging out more often and there's this tension between me and her. And we're all part of this groups of friends and we've been friends since highschool.
I was at his lil brothers bday party yesterday, talked to her a few times, even their mom. Her mom likes me too I guess (not in a sexual way of course lol, just really friendly). Her mom even made a comment about marrying a guy like me, which made me embarrased and her too I guess. Her dad is pretty cool as well, he acts like one of us haha. Last wednesday, we went paintballing and I shot her in the crotch. Which was so embarrasing...for me. She thought it was funny though.
I know how to deal with it. But thanks for the advice Nikki and Batwoman !
The only thing that got me thinking is, is this the right thing to do? Dating her? It's not like i'm a bad guy, even though I have the bad boy appearence but a good guy inside. I'm not gonna treat her bad or anything, so thats not the problem. Argh, I've never been in a situation where i'm dating a sister of one my best friends. She seems like a cool girl to be with. The brother is cool too, we hang out a lot, but I think he thinks i'm a player. We've gone out a few times, and some random girls approached me. So I think he THINKS i'm a player, cuz once he asked me to invite a few of my random flings because he thought it would be funny. I never actually flirted directly with a girl in front of him, only that some random girls start flirting with me. So yeah, the situation is actually quite complicated hehe.I just need to think about it and right now I'm avoiding all the flirting with his sister. Well, semi-avoiding haha, its weird when you're checking each other out. I cath her doing it, and she sometimes catches me doing it.
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Why not? If things evolve and you two really like each other, there is no reason not to date her. How old are you and this girl? Perhaps we can give a bit more advice if we know a little more about you and her. According to your most recent post, it seems that the entire family likes you, so if you take your time and treat her well, I think it will work out for you!
Haha, she's actually 3 years older than me. I'm 23 now and she's 26, her brother is my age. She actually sent me a message on twitter, but I didn't reply back right away. So she sent me an email on why I didn't sent her anything back (jokingly). She can't publicly tweet me back because her brothers are a bit suspicious...Dunno why though, it's not like we are saying anything weird to each other. Thats why she's sending me private messages all the time right now. I don't understand it myself...Now I kinda know what their brothers are thinking of me...
Well, it's better for you than I thought! If she were 16 instead of 26, then you might need to proceed with caution. However, if she is 26, then she is old enough for you to ask her out without feeling uncomfortable. That is, of course, if it doesn't bother you that she is older than you. I still think you should go slow, be respectful and let your friendship with her carry over to asking her out.
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Well, if you are that worried there is one obvious solution -- ask your friend. Tell him you like his sister and she seems to like you, and is it OK if you ask her out? It is kind of old-fashioned but it would kill two birds with one stone since you'd be showing your friend that you don't want to mess up your friendship, plus if he says "fine!" then you'd feel comfortable doing it. However, if you do decide to ask first, keep in mind that he may either say "no" (which sounds highly unlikely given what you describe about your relationships with everyone in the family) or tease you unmercifully. But still, it might be better than worrying about it the way you are now!
Anyway, I think it sounds like she (and her family) are a good fit for you. Since she clearly wants you to, I think you should go for it.
Anyway, I think it sounds like she (and her family) are a good fit for you. Since she clearly wants you to, I think you should go for it.
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The statement above is the reason they should make condoms a simple and private thing to buy...also they should be way cheaper! Hell condoms should be free!!!
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I buy them and I flat out don't give a sh*t who sees me putting the box in the shopping cart. And I LOVE to plop them Magnums down on the conveyor belt at the check out (especially if it's a female cashier ;-)
It's totally normal, because human beings always try to avoid uncomfortable or painfull situations and try to repeat as much as possible comfortable and enjoyable situations. The problem is that in many cases you normally start with the wrong foot when you are young, most of your approaches don't turn out well, so you associate approaching women to something negative.
What happens is that you see a pretty girl and you immediately get the idea that if you approach her and don't have anything good to say you are going to be in an awkward situation, best avoided. Most men would go for it if they had a clue about what to say, but they generally stay there staring at the girl thinking what would be appropriate to say, and the more they do so the voice inside their head that tells them that they are going to fail gets louder.
I know because I totally fall into this category of men, and I'm trying to get out of it. I went to a party at a club on Saturday night, I approached several groups of girls trying not to think too much about it, not even trying to say anything special, just 'Hola, como va?' ('Hi, how are you doing?'). I had a great time even having not picked any girl, although I think I could have but realized to late. Most of them didn't shove me of, I had a few good conversations. In a few cases they started talking before I could say hello!. This is useful even if I got no action because it helps me to associate 'approaching women' to 'having fun'.
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