Odd that my GF wants/loves her cervix pounded??

[Tamora]

Is there even the remotest possibility that she sussed the "fake" survey and is playing the same mind games with you just as you are with her?

Regardless...agree with the above...totally unhealthy relationship. Waste of time and oxygen!

 

[spanky]

ItIt is not strange Spanky. PEOPLE WILL DO THINGS FOR PEOPLE THEY WANT TO DO THINGS FOR. It is not freaky, but some women will subject themselves to things they don't even like. For me it is more important to ascertain hat they actually like/desire rather than what they will tolerate. That is my little freak.

No no,a lot of women I've been with did genuinely like me spanking them, pulling their hair, treating them like a worthless slut. Some have asked me for all the above first too. It'd be a problem for her if I did those things all the time, in public, on the train. Probably.

 

[Pegasus]

Yes some women like deep penetration and a long dick .
The bigger dick ex is such a boring female head game because it is so common .

 

[Party]

Yes some women like deep penetration and a long dick .
The bigger dick ex is such a boring female head game because it is so common .

Wow, back to topic. My two cents worth, being only 6.25 by4.5 there could be no way I could hit my wife's cervix, yes??? So, What is that hard two sided hard thing my head hits that sends her thru the roof with orgasmS? I'm either blessed with a gal withman small vagina to match my size, OR as I believe , she is capable moving her cervix down to me. Possible?

 

[SolomonSeal]

Party, I seriously doubt that she can control her cervix/move it down. More than likely you're already hitting her cervix (the average vagina isn't very long, so being 6.25 doesn't mean you won't hit her cervix). What position do you find this happens most? Doggystyle tends to allow deepest penetration at least for me.

About the OP - My girlfriend doesn't mind me smashing her cervix at all, but my ex did to the point where I couldn't even really fuck her doggystyle because I would always be smashing into it and she would flinch and push away in what seemed like a lot of pain.

Everyone is different

 

[closed224]

I used to massage my wife's cervix with my finger. Which was way smaller than my penis even at 4.9 x 4.6. Yes Party her cervix loves you.

 

[Party]

IDK. I think she can move it. When I first enter her, it's no where to be found, then after her first couple, as she gets even more worked up there "it" is, what ever "it" is. Not even sure if it's her cervix. Sometimes, I'm only half way in because there is a big vibe on her clit at the same time I'm pounding away, and then, there "it" is.

 

[chuck89gt5.0]

Statistical fact from the surveys I have seen. I think they average like 0.75" longer? Something like that.


pretty sure that isn't true....

 

[DickerSchwanz]

The cervix moves during arousal opening more space and possibility to hit spots that werent available prior.
The arousal that moves the cervix is possible through clitoral stimulation.

To reach the arousing orgasmic spots that open up through the cervix movement one needs to get deeper.

Early on in intercourse the cervix is nearer to the entrance. Most dont like it touched then and the deep spots are hidden. The deepest spot only gets available through arousal.

A natural progression.

Any studies about vagina length are more or less thus useless for the lovers.

 

[closed224]

Every vagina is different. Every penis is different. Finding a penis vagina combo that fits together and responds together like Party and his wife is awesome, and priceless. I could massage my wife's cervix and A spot and deep spot with my finger(index) all the way through orgasm. There are no rules to this, only ideas to practice. Oh what fun practice it is.
Match your love making to what your partner likes. That is the only rule.

 

[BigO]

I don't think it's odd. The cervix and surrounding areas can be a huge pleasure zone for a lot of women, so long as the style preferred is known. I believe most would say they don't like it being jabbed, pounded, or "punched" with anything. But a bump, rub, graze, push/pressure, etc...And of course, the spots around the cervix are known to give pleasure.

This is where an upward curve can help, naturally contouring away from directly "stabbing" the cervix. The cervix pulls back and up during high arousal. So if one with an upward curve feels it after, it may be moving into a reachable angle. Angles, positions, and thrusting technique can help. Pushing all the way in, kegeling and pivoting the head up (missionary) while slowly grinding.

As for the surveys...well, like most open surveys, results may be skewed by those who are more confident in showing, or whom the stereotype favors. In other words, with race, guys who didn't fit the rumor would be less inclined to show. Take those with a grain of salt. More here confirm their untruth than not.

 

[texastravis]

The cervix moves during arousal opening more space and possibility to hit spots that werent available prior.
The arousal that moves the cervix is possible through clitoral stimulation.

To reach the arousing orgasmic spots that open up through the cervix movement one needs to get deeper.

Early on in intercourse the cervix is nearer to the entrance. Most dont like it touched then and the deep spots are hidden. The deepest spot only gets available through arousal.

A natural progression.

Any studies about vagina length are more or less thus useless for the lovers

This is exactly how I have understood the mechanics of the vagina. What others are saying in this thread makes me thing their woman's vaginas are pretty shallow or perhaps my woman's is pretty deep. I am telling yall right now, my 6.5" insertion length will not touch any of her back wall or cervix and my 4.7" girth definitely leaves some wiggle room :/

My longest finger is shorter than 4" long... how some of you guys are touching the cervix with your finger I dont know? As for the average woman's depth, I think that may be un-aroused? I believe the average depth may truly be 5-6" un-aroused but when she gets in the mood and the cervix raises, I think most woman can actually take about a 9 inch penis? This 9inch measurement I got from Dr. OZ... (not sure on it validity). Dr. Oz says that the averaged aroused woman can take 9".

Every vagina is different. Every penis is different. Finding a penis vagina combo that fits together and responds together like Party and his wife is awesome, and priceless. I could massage my wife's cervix and A spot and deep spot with my finger(index) all the way through orgasm. There are no rules to this, only ideas to practice. Oh what fun practice it is.
Match your love making to what your partner likes. That is the only rule.

Wishful. You can get her deep spots with your index finger? That seems crazy shallow. I also remember browsing your log and remember you being pretty big at like 8.5" inches or something with a goal of 10". Does your cock not already fit into your woman? Can she take your current length or is some left out? I dont see how she could take your length if you can get her deep spots off with your short fingesr?



I appreciate all the responses and advice, this has turned into a pretty interesting thread. I do think I will take another look at this relationship, I fear that yes it is unhealthy and unnatural and will be coming to an end soon, time will tell.

 

[texastravis]

I don't think it's odd. The cervix and surrounding areas can be a huge pleasure zone for a lot of women, so long as the style preferred is known. I believe most would say they don't like it being jabbed, pounded, or "punched" with anything. But a bump, rub, graze, push/pressure, etc...And of course, the spots around the cervix are known to give pleasure.


This is where an upward curve can help, naturally contouring away from directly "stabbing" the cervix. The cervix pulls back and up during high arousal. So if one with an upward curve feels it after, it may be moving into a reachable angle. Angles, positions, and thrusting technique can help. Pushing all the way in, kegeling and pivoting the head up (missionary) while slowly grinding.


As for the surveys...well, like most open surveys, results may be skewed by those who are more confident in showing, or whom the stereotype favors. In other words, with race, guys who didn't fit the rumor would be less inclined to show. Take those with a grain of salt. More here confirm their untruth than not.

Thats a good response. I think I will agree with you.

My penis is strait as an arrow, literally. No slight curves, bends, or angles and a consistent girth across the entire penis. I almost added to my routine trying to make my cock bend slightly upwards but have abandoned the thought. I think a strait penis allows you to hit wherever in whatever position, I could even hit the G-spot in standard dog if I wanted AND hit it in missionary. I think upward curve allows for definite advantages in some positions while being a disadvantage in other positions. This is just my opinion and probably a bit biased since my cock is super strait!

 

[closed224]

Have you attempted to find her cervix with your finger? The cervix moves UP not so much back. The vagina will expand sort of like an accordion. So it will expand in such a manner that the cervix will be above your penis during "normal" missionary position. If, however you tilt her pelvis by lifting her legs up, or putting pillows under her ass you can replicate what our curved foxy friend accomplishes naturally. And the cervix will be reachable with 6.5 BPEL almost for sure. Even with my finger, which is right at 4 inches long.
I have grown a lot, and I am bumping 8" BPEL and no there is none left in the air. I think we are growing together. My girth has grown a lot also. I can still do hula hoops, and figure eights, and side to sides and all the strokes I can think of. I have to go a little slow at first but she accommodates me soon enough. Finding the positions your partner and you like the best is key. Explore with your finger while licking. Just be gentle. It is not that deep, but it might be that high.

 

[texastravis]

Thanks for the tips wishful. Mannnn I cant wait for an 8 incher!

 

[Party]

Every vagina is different. Every penis is different. Finding a penis vagina combo that fits together and responds together like Party and his wife is awesome, and priceless. I could massage my wife's cervix and A spot and deep spot with my finger(index) all the way through orgasm. There are no rules to this, only ideas to practice. Oh what fun practice it is.
Match your love making to what your partner likes. That is the only rule.

Thank you for your kind words sir. I do feel like my wife is a rare jewel, in bed she is a Goddess , outside I'm her door mat. For all the fun in bed I don't think I can take much more. As far as a her movable cervix, I often use a penis extention of about two inches, taking me to 8.25 BPEL. I can go balls deep with it, usually using an external clit vibe so subtract an inch of penetration. It's the same vibe when I go it alone. Her vagina adjusts to the difference, bringing the cervix along for the "ride"! IDK, there is so much going on, different spots and different depths and angles of penetration, it's crazy, and she loves ALL of it. I'm quite baffled, and yet she can treat me like crap the next day. Ugh !

 

[Tamora]

...in bed she is a Goddess , outside I'm her door mat...

...and yet she can treat me like crap the next day. Ugh !

It obviously bothers you a lot...otherwise you wouldn't post it.

 

[Party]

It obviously bothers you a lot...otherwise you wouldn't post it.

Of course it bothers me, who puts up with being disrespected by anyone, let alone the one who claims she loves you above anyone else. If I leave it won't be because I fell out of love with her, it will be because I can't allow the negative power my love allows her to have. Sometimes I wonder if I'd be happier alone, no sex ever again. Afterall once you've had her, there is no reason to settle for less.

 

[Tamora]

Of course it bothers me, who puts up with being disrespected by anyone, let alone the one who claims she loves you above anyone else. If I leave it won't be because I fell out of love with her, it will be because I can't allow the negative power my love allows her to have. Sometimes I wonder if I'd be happier alone, no sex ever again. Afterall once you've had her, there is no reason to settle for less.

I apologize for any offence I've caused...that was not my intention. There are a lot of "wise heads" here as you already know...maybe a subject for a new thread? A person only has one life and it is up to that person to live their life as they choose...but the choice must be theirs. I hope that makes sense.

 

[Party]

I apologize for any offence I've caused...that was not my intention. There are a lot of "wise heads" here as you already know...maybe a subject for a new thread? A person only has one life and it is up to that person to live their life as they choose...but the choice must be theirs. I hope that makes sense.

Makes perfect sense and I took no offense what so ever. Just disappointed in my self that she can't respect me as a man, but she has her own issues too. She's very insecure and full of self doubt and has to put me down to build herself up. She's got me so full of self doubt about myself and manhood, I doubt myself. Oh well

ok please get this back to topic