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New guy here, have been lurking for many months. I am not new to PE, learned about jelqing many years ago and started, but never continued with it. Was in a pretty emotionally abusive relationship at the time and my ex had a habit of cheating on me, but that is the past and I have been happily married to my best friend for over 7 years. I found this site at the beginning of this year because my wife works long hours and because of that, I have had some time to work on me. I go the gym every other day and run when I dont go the the gym, so I have lost some weight, and thus lost a lot of the fat pad. I only have 10 more pounds to lose before I reach my goal of 180 pounds.
I started working with the routines I found on this site in February and have been pretty consistent, variation of the beginner routine because I didnt want to hurt myself. Also, I did not measure before I started, but with all guys I have measured in the past and around March I did measure because I was curious as to how I compared to some of you on the site. I am pretty sure I started with 6x5.25 and was happy with that, my wife and I have great sex and with both of us having high libido's, we are pretty regular with our love making. I did this in privacy and my wife never knew, but I starting finding that it was alot like going to the gym, I couldnt wait to get home to work out. A couple of months ago, she went down on me one night and she noticed something. She asked me, are you getting bigger? My hand doesnt fit around it like it used to and it is larger in my mouth than I can remember. I didnt say anything that night, but a few days later I had to tell her what I was doing. Up to that point, our love making became more passionate and it was easier to make her orgasm, I was hitting places that mattered and with renewed control thanks to edging, I found it was easier to last longer and do what I had always wanted to do, be a better lover for my wife. So I has to fess up because of the changes she noticed. Once I explained that I was doing exercises, and why I was doing them, she understood and is very supportive. She has always like my penis and is never shy to play with it, give me a bj out of the blue, etc, but now she checks me out more and likes the way I look in some of my pants, she started buying a different cut to show me off more.
Anyway, I know this has been long, but I measured this week following the directions to be sure, and I am just a touch over 7x5.5. I am extremely excited and happy I am seeing results. I love the way my penis feels and look. It has renewed my confidence and our love making continues to improve, she stated a couple of weekends ago how we have never had that good of sex, she came multiple times in a few different positions and was sore afterwards. I was too by the way, it was a great weekend. So, thank you PEgym, I am glad I found this site and will continue on this journey of my overall improvement, getting into shape, at the gym, running, and doing my PE. Keep it up guys, it works and it has profound impacts.
 
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And, she will ask me every now and then, are you still doing your exercises, and I just smile and say, of course.
 

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Great post, and congratulations on all of your success! Telling your wife about your PE was a wise thing to do (obviously). It's easier not to hide, and is much more enjoyable with your loving spouse's support.

Keep up the good work!
 

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Welcome to the gym

Great story, and excellent gains. It's definitely nice to have the support of a loving wife!

Keep up the excellent work
 

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Fantastic second post. You have overcome a lot and you still have a good attitude. Congrats on your gains and I agree with workin that it is wise to tell your partner because it makes it that much easier. Great stuff and good luck!
 

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Thanks for sharing!
 

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Welcome aboard boss and congrats on your progress!! :) Being consistent and patient will serve you well in this PE journey.
 

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Thank you guys, appreciate the warm welcomes.
 

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What a inspiring story...thank you for sharing. And welcome to the Gym! :)
 

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Welcome. Nice story... Sounds like a healthy relationship. :)
 

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Welcome tot he Gym gettingintoshape! Nice story and very inspirational, keep up the good work. I love watching my husband PE is hot as heck.
 

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I might also mention I am 41, and with the use of PE I have also increased my EQ, waking up with morning wood is awesome! We as men dont usually like to admit we are getting older, and thus maybe need to start taking care of ourselves..I have committed to a lifestyle change....and its working.
 

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I might also mention I am 41, and with the use of PE I have also increased my EQ, waking up with morning wood is awesome! We as men dont usually like to admit we are getting older, and thus maybe need to start taking care of ourselves..I have committed to a lifestyle change....and its working.
EQ and Flaccid gains are my favorite gains from my husband Pe'ing. I love to rock that morning wood and checking him out on his jeans with that nice bulge. Darn he is so hot!
 

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Welcome to the Gym GIS. Glad to have you with us.
Your experience sounds very close to mine. Way to go brother!
 

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Thanks guys. I just had to post up and say thank you, I am really glad I found this site!