Just struck me

[MrB8]

You are still 24, you are still young, and have plenty of time and many opportunities to meet your special someone or do whatever you want to be happy, listen to the wonderful advice above, and have no fears, ladies are also human (the good kind of human ), don't fear rejection.

 

[lclutchl]

Im 24 too and i didn't lose mine virginity until 20. Its not a big deal at all. Just go for it

 

[Steneo]

Im 24 too and i didn't lose mine virginity until 20. Its not a big deal at all. Just go for it

And this guy right here ^^^^^^ is a model with a big dick and he didn't have sex until he was 20!!!!!!!!! :becky::becky:

 

[mcpecker]

Here's a tip: treat women like human beings. If you put everyone on equal footing, it's easier not to be intimidated.

Even the prettiest girls in the world:

- Poop
- Pee
- Snore
- Get scared
- Have insecurities
- Wonder what others think of them
- Pick their noses
- Have hair in weird places

Just remember that everyone has similar thoughts, dreams, fears, and insecurities. Everyone is like you - human. Go live, have fun, no pressure.

 

[trepan]

I just talked to an 11 at the gym today!! I'm freakin' stoked!!:common001:

 

[Knoblin]

it is important that you get one that you actually could see yourself staying with.there is no point in just banging one and then showing no interest after.her feelings will get hurt,so make sure you get a good one and dont get all wrapped up in her,cause when she dumps you its best to protect your own feelings too.i guess what im saying is be faithful to her but keep in mind-no one OWNS anyone.hope that helps..best of luck!-peace-:bolt:

 

[milfdestroyer]

Exactly what I was saying, no one understands. That just shows how weird and uncommon my situation is. The things you are talking about are orders of magnitude above the level I'm at. If you want to give some advice, then write something you would say to a 12 year old about relationships with the opposite sex. That's basically the level I'm at.

 

[CUSP82]

You are making way too much out of this. The problem is in your head and if you don't fix it then it will carry over into your relationships.

 

[milfdestroyer]

Of course were else could it be. I'm like a 12 year old mentally. Or maybe even less, because I started watching sex pics at 9 or so.

 

[CUSP82]

So the reason you are this way is because you were looking at sex pictures when you were 9?

 

[milfdestroyer]

Well obviously. I trained my brain to become sexually attracted to screen, pictures and masturbating. That's the reason I had no interest in girls as a teenager and was OK with just seeing them, so I could masturbate later. It will probably take a looong time to rewire my brain, like a year or so. But after that I will still have no idea what to do.

 

[Steneo]

It almost seems like you want it to be weird and uncommon. Are you a bit behind at 24 years old....maybe...I don't feel the need to lie. BUT, I think you are assuming it is orders of magnitude worse than it really is! You are really still quite young. I know you probably won't agree but it's true. So instead of sitting and burying yourself in self pity about how far behind mentally you think you are, why don't you just try?

I've suggested online dating to you as a relatively safe, low-anxiety route to begin. Why not try it? You don't have to go anywhere (yet), you don't have to approach anybody really (perhaps "virtually"). There is nothing to lose. It's also been said, and maybe needs saying again, that women are also humans...I assume you can converse with other (male) humans? If so, then you can talk to women too. You really can and I know it's hard, remember, when I was your age, and older than you, I didn't know what to do either. I figured it out and so can you.

 

[Rasputine]

Because it is rare.

Come on now!:bangin:

 

[mcpecker]

Exactly what I was saying, no one understands. That just shows how weird and uncommon my situation is. The things you are talking about are orders of magnitude above the level I'm at. If you want to give some advice, then write something you would say to a 12 year old about relationships with the opposite sex. That's basically the level I'm at.

Okay, then. What I was trying to say was: everybody poops.

 

[heretohelp]

Cusp, cover your ears.

I started masturbating at 9 too. There's no correlation between that and social inexperience. Not knowing what to do during sex and not knowing how to date are two separate things. I know a 30 year old virgin that gets more girlfriends than I've had hot dinners.

Take it one step at a time and stop rushing. It's not a race to the finish line. We continue learning new things all throughout our lives. I couldn't tie my shoe laces until I was 13. No matter who showed me or how often I just couldn't do it. I'd watch the other kids in the locker room tying up their shoes and feel like some kind of mentally-challenged alien from a planet made only of velcro. Then, one day, sat at my computer, I was playing absent mindedly with my shoelaces whilst doing my work. I looked down and BAM, the prettiest darn bow you ever did see.

These things sneak up on us. Everyone develops at a different pace. Don't be afraid to be unique.

 

[milfdestroyer]

Again. I know how to talk with a dude or a woman, but what should be done and said differently if there are sexual intentions?
At this point there is no point in me doing anything, I have no libido, I'm flatlining and will continue to for at least several months. At least that's what I read from other peoples experience. Some dudes needed 9 months to rewire their brain and they weren't even as bad as me.

 

[CUSP82]

9 at night or 9 years old. Something told me I shouldn't come here. Oh it wasn't something; it was you and you're right! Oh my where is my heart medicine when I need it!

 

[mcpecker]

And forgive me, because it's in my nature to extrapolate things into the "big picture", as I am and have always been a holistic thinker. It drives my wife crazy sometimes, because I can start on a specific subject, but always end up talking about how it affects society, or even the universe, writ large.

Simply put, and I don't mean to sound harsh, but you're not special. You're not. The worst thing we can tell children is that they are special. And we do it all the time. The truth is, we are all unique and have skills and talents that we can either use or not use, or use wisely for the betterment of society or squander and use for selfish gain. We need to teach kids that, not that they are special or are princesses or future POTUS.

So get over yourself. Then you can actually start appreciating others and enjoying your life and interactions on a human level.

Not sure if any of that will get through, but I feel better. :rant:

 

[milfdestroyer]

Cusp, cover your ears.

I started masturbating at 9 too. There's no correlation between that and social inexperience. Not knowing what to do during sex and not knowing how to date are two separate things. I know a 30 year old virgin that gets more girlfriends than I've had hot dinners.

Take it one step at a time and stop rushing. It's not a race to the finish line. We continue learning new things all throughout our lives. I couldn't tie my shoe laces until I was 13. No matter who showed me or how often I just couldn't do it. I'd watch the other kids in the locker room tying up their shoes and feel like some kind of mentally-challenged alien from a planet made only of velcro. Then, one day, sat at my computer, I was playing absent mindedly with my shoelaces whilst doing my work. I looked down and BAM, the prettiest darn bow you ever did see.

These things sneak up on us. Everyone develops at a different pace. Don't be afraid to be unique.

Masturbation is not the reason, the reason is porn. Young kids and porn, especially shy kids like I was, are a bad mix.

 

[arkham]

You say you stopped at 12yo development? What should you do? Act like a 12yo. Start looking shyly at the girls. Later be more bold. Surprise! You can even add a smile. When the time comes and you get around age 16 you can go and initiate a convo.