The Benefits of Therapy for Men’s Mental Health

Joe Miragliotta | 3 months ago

This article is a repost which originally appeared on JOE’S DAILY

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Key Points

‧ Men often pressure themselves to neglect healthy methods of coping with health issues.

‧ The above is further compounded by a lack of communication.

‧ Learning stress self-awareness can help men to better manage their maladies.

In today’s fast-paced world, mental health issues are becoming increasingly prevalent. Men, in particular, face unique challenges when it comes to their mental well-being. Societal expectations and traditional gender roles often prevent men from acknowledging their emotions and seeking help. In this blog post, we will discuss the benefits of therapy for men’s mental health and how it can lead to a happier, healthier life. By incorporating the key phrases ‘Men’s Therapy Benefits’, ‘Male Mental Health Support’, and ‘Improving Men’s Emotional Well-being’, we aim to provide valuable insights into the world of men’s mental health.

Men’s Therapy Benefits

#1: Breaking Down Barriers

One of the most significant benefits of therapy for men is that it helps to break down the barriers that have been built up over the years. Men often face societal pressure to be stoic and emotionally resilient, which can lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms and reluctance to seek help. Therapy provides a safe, non-judgmental environment where men can openly discuss their feelings, experiences, and concerns. This process helps to dismantle ingrained beliefs about masculinity and vulnerability, allowing men to develop a healthier relationship with their emotions.

#2: Improved Communication Skills

Therapy can help men improve their communication skills, both in expressing their emotions and in listening to others. By learning to articulate their thoughts and feelings more effectively, men can experience increased emotional intimacy in their relationships and a greater sense of empathy and understanding towards others.

#3: Better Stress Management

Men often face unique stressors, such as job pressure, financial concerns, and societal expectations. Therapy can help men identify the sources of their stress and develop healthy coping strategies to manage it more effectively. This may include learning relaxation techniques, setting realistic goals, and creating a better work-life balance. Improved stress management can lead to enhanced overall well-being and a reduction in the risk of developing mental health disorders such as anxiety and depression.

#4: Enhanced Self-Awareness

Therapy can help men gain a better understanding of themselves, their emotions, and their thought patterns. This self-awareness can lead to improved decision-making, stronger relationships, and a more authentic sense of self. By understanding the root causes of their emotional struggles, men can work towards making positive changes in their lives and develop a stronger sense of self-worth.

Male Mental Health Support

#5: Access to Professional Guidance

Seeking therapy provides men with access to a trained professional who can offer support, guidance, and evidence-based techniques to help them overcome their mental health challenges. Therapists can help men develop personalized treatment plans tailored to their specific needs, ensuring that they receive the most effective care possible.

#6: Normalizing Help-Seeking Behavior

Attending therapy can help to normalize the idea of seeking help for mental health issues among men. By engaging in therapy, men can challenge the stigma surrounding mental health and encourage others to seek support when needed. This can lead to a more supportive and empathetic society where men’s mental health is valued and prioritized.

Improving Men’s Emotional Well-being

#7: Stronger Relationships

Therapy can help men build and maintain healthier relationships with their partners, family members, and friends. By learning how to communicate more effectively, manage conflicts, and express vulnerability, men can forge deeper connections with others and experience greater emotional intimacy.

#8: Increased Resilience

Engaging in therapy can help men develop the skills and tools needed to cope with life’s challenges and bounce back from adversity more effectively. This increased resilience can lead to a greater sense of confidence and self-efficacy in managing future difficulties.

#9: Enhanced Overall Well-Being

Men who participate in therapy often experience improvements in their overall mental and emotional well-being. This can manifest in various ways, such as reduced symptoms of depression and anxiety, increased self-esteem, and a more positive outlook on life. These improvements can lead to a higher quality of life and a greater sense of fulfillment.

#10: Prevention and Early Intervention

By seeking therapy early on, men can address potential mental health issues before they become more severe. This early intervention can be crucial in preventing the development of chronic mental health disorders and promoting long-term emotional health.

Conclusion

The benefits of therapy for men’s mental health are extensive, from breaking down barriers and improving communication skills to enhancing overall well-being and preventing mental health issues. By seeking male mental health support and prioritizing self-care, men can work towards improving their emotional well-being and living a happier, healthier life. If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health concerns, don’t hesitate to reach out to a mental health professional. Remember, seeking help is not a sign of weakness but rather a sign of strength and self-awareness. By taking this important step, you can embark on a journey towards a more fulfilling and emotionally balanced life. Together, we can continue to break down the stigma surrounding men’s mental health and create a world where everyone feels supported and empowered to seek the help they need.

What Your Hips Can Tell You About Your Emotions

The Powerful Connection Between Your Hips and Your Emotions

Medically reviewed by Joslyn Jelinek, LCSW — Written by Julianne Ishler on June 17, 2021

This article is a repost which originally appeared on Healthline

Edited for content

Our Takeaways:

· Hip tightness can lead to pelvic floor disorders

· The core muscle often implicated in hip misalignment is the psoas group deep within the core

· Poor posture can lead to emotional stress and fatigue

Perhaps you’ve heard your yoga teacher refer to the hips as the body’s emotional junk drawer.

While folded over in pigeon pose, you may have wondered if there’s any truth to this statement.

It turns out, the answer is pretty incredible.

To get the link between the hips and emotions, understanding the mind-body connection is key.

When you’re stressed, your emotional and physical health can both suffer. People with trauma or other mental health conditions like anxiety and depression often experience physical symptoms as well.

Through it all, there may just be a common link: the hips.

Of course, each body is different. Where one person holds stress in their body may not be exactly the same for another.

However, neuroscience and somatics point to the hips as a potential storage vessel of emotions. They also offer a window into emotional healing. Here’s how.

Getting to know your hips

To look at how the hips can store emotions, it’s important to first understand their function and anatomy.

The hip is the area on each side of the pelvis. The joint itself is one of the largest and most unique joints in the human body, responsible for bearing weight, stabilizing the core, and moving the upper leg.

The tighter your hips are, the less mobility your body has. This can result in pain and hinder daily activities like walking and climbing stairs. Tight hips can also cause an anterior tilt of the pelvis which results in poor posture and misalignment of the head and neck.

This goes to show how important the hips are when it comes to how the entire body functions.

The big story within the hips revolves around the iliopsoas muscle— a deep muscle group located toward the front of the inner hip.

The psoas is the deepest support of our core, according to Martha Eddy, a leading somatic educator, author, and founder of Dynamic Embodiment.

“The pelvis is full of our creative, reproductive organs and contains the centrally located psoas muscle that connects the upper and lower body (the breath and diaphragm to the legs) making the core of our body important both physically and emotionally,” Eddy says.

Many types of pain can be linked to a dormant or tight psoas muscle, especially because it stabilizes the spine and affects posture. In this case, your lumbar spine may lose its natural arch by becoming overly flattened or overly curved.

According to a 2021 study, prolonged sitting is one of the main causes of limited hip extension and the associated pain and discomfort.

In fact, poor posture is linked to depression, fatigue, stress, and headaches.

Stress and the body

Here’s the interesting part: Nestled into the psoas are the kidneys, responsible for filtering toxins in the body, as well as the adrenal glands, which control the fight, flight, or freeze response.

This is how we begin to understand where emotions come into the picture.

The fight, flight, or freeze response is your body’s natural reaction to perceived danger. When you’re under any kind of mental or emotional stress, your psoas muscle responds by tightening.

Eddy notes that even after the stress is gone, the tension may still linger in the body and hip area, contributing to things like headaches and lower back pain.

“When someone is really traumatized, certainly the hips are an area that’s holding it,” Eddy says. “That gut pain and fear make you curl up and hide, so you’re going to be contracted.”

How emotions get stored

Neuroscience also offers a look at how emotions become stored in the body.

In 1985, neuroscientist Candace Pert found Source that small proteins known as neuropeptides activate the circuits linked to emotions.

She famously stated that “your body is your subconscious mind,” and that the physical body can change depending on what we’re feeling.

Pert’s research suggests that emotions are electrochemical signals that carry emotional messages throughout the body. They are then expressed, experienced, and stored within the body and mind.

This can influence activity in the brain and change the cell to either have a positive or negative effect on the body.

Pert’s work proposes that each cell carries a kind of consciousness that stores memories and emotional states.

Current research supports this as well.

A 2021 study noted that cell consciousness can be explained by the presence of nano brains and that cells are “highly sensitive” and respond to sensory stimuli as well as internal and extracellular electromagnetic fields.

The researchers concluded that eukaryotic cells, or the cells that make up plants, animals, fungi, and single-celled organisms, are “cognitive and intentional.”

The link between the emotions and the hips

Because of this research, we can begin to understand the relationship between the emotions and the body.

According to a 2019 study, certain emotions are associated with specific areas of the body. Interestingly, these correlations are universal across cultures and sex assigned at birth.

A 2017 study noted that emotions are associated with specific organs in East Asian medicine. The study also noted that East Asian medicine uses “somatic” language when referring to emotional disorders, while Western medicine prefers “neural” language.

This implies that both lenses may be useful in understanding emotional health.

Considering the psoas link to the fight or flight response, it’s understandable that stress might get “trapped” there.

Furthermore, the hip region is associated with the sacral chakra, an energetic center believed by some to house creative energy and sexuality. It’s also linked to how you relate to your emotions and the emotions of others.

A blocked sacral chakra is said to lead to emotional instability as well as reductions in pleasure. When the hips are tight and contracted, it’s possible that sacral energy that’s not expressed remains stuck.

“Your body is your subconscious mind.”

— Candace Pert, neuroscientist

Ways to release old emotions in the hips

There are several ways to release fear, trauma, and stress associated with tight hips. These include:

  • somatic exercises
  • yoga
  • stretching
  • mind-body practices
  • massage
  • somatic experiencing therapy

Somatic exercises

Somatics offer a way to enhance the mind and body connection.

These body-awareness practices involve focusing on your inner experience as you perform intentional exercises.

Somatic exercises include:

  • rolfing
  • shaking
  • Body-Mind Centering
  • Alexander Technique
  • Feldenkrais Method
  • Laban Movement Analysis

Eddy notes the importance of movement for releasing held emotions. By expanding your internal awareness, you can listen to the cues your body sends about where you may be storing stress or imbalance.

In her work through Dynamic Embodiment, Eddy also focuses on movement as a way to activate the lymphatic system to aid the transit of white blood cells throughout the body.

When it comes to the hips specifically, Eddy says the key is to get the spine moving.

“You want to contract and lengthen [the psoas] and get it moving like an accordion,” Eddy says, emphasizing full body involvement. “Not just with the leg but with the whole spine.”

Eddy notes that African dance is a wonderful way to create fluidity as it involves the movement of the entire spine. She also recommends sideward movements like twists and rotating the body to activate the psoas.

Yoga, stretching, and mind-body practices

Practicing yoga is another way to release tension in the hips and get the full body moving.

Some good options include:

  • sun salutations
  • pelvic stretches
  • hip flexor stretches

The flowing postures and synchronistic breathing of sun salutations help move the spine and open up hip flexors.

In addition, pelvic stretches like a ground bridge with pelvic tilt can be therapeutic if you’re experiencing psoas pain.

There are also plenty of hip flexor stretches and exercises you can add into your daily routine, such as lunges and seated butterfly stretches.

Other practices that can aid releasing tension and increasing the mind-body connection include:

  • qi gong
  • tai chi
  • aikido
  • dance
  • Pilates

Massage the arch of the foot

Eddy notes that the arch of the foot correlates to the psoas muscle in reflexology. You can tell the state of your psoas by observing the arch alone, she says.

“If you’re massaging your foot and this arch in the foot is collapsed, then you might have an overstretched psoas, or if it’s really held tight, you might have a tight psoas,” Eddy says. “Working this lateral arch of the foot in reflexology means you’re going to be working with the lower back or down [in the hips].”

By applying pressure to the arch of the foot, which is where the psoas and adrenal glands spots are located, you can also release some of the tension in your hip area.

Listening to your body

Through somatic experiencing, a type of therapy that emphasizes the mind-body connection, you can learn to notice and make peace with bodily sensations.

Working through the pain and physical symptoms can help you get in touch with their underlying psychological causes.

“That work is embodiment work, it’s where you sense it, you feel it, you then also move from it,” Eddy says. “And then either embracing it, working with it, or negotiating with it to make changes…whatever the cause, it will reveal itself in its deepest level.”

Takeaway

If you experience stress and anxiety regularly, get acquainted with how it feels and where it may be held in your body.

While you might notice and talk about your experience with a mental health professional, it’s another thing to use movement to release stored tension.

The hips are an important storage vessel of emotional stress because of the psoas’ link to the adrenal glands and the location of the sacral chakra.

Next time you’re in yoga class doing hip-opening postures, you might just notice that there’s a lot more going on than just a simple stretch.

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Medically reviewed by Joslyn Jelinek, LCSW — Written by Julianne Ishler on June 17, 2021