Well today I told my girlfriend that I joined a "male health community" online. I told her that it could possibly help with my insecurities =)
Your partner knows for PEP??
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PEP means Penis Enlargement Program. I joined 10 years ago to Morepenis (a commercial site) that's why I use much this expression.
What she said??
Same question for you.
Hey thanks for answering. PEP, I might try it on for size.
My wife just said okay, at first. Actually, after I explained that it takes time and dedication, she said that I have the perfect personality for it. She was a bit sceptical about it, even when I showed her some comparison photos. For a while after starting she was rather uncomfortable about it. She kept saying that I don't need to be bigger and this and that, and I had to explain that I was doing it for myself, and that I didn't feel my body matched how I feel on the inside. She was also worried it was going to get too big, and I reminded her that it's a very slow process. She is much cooler with it now, because she sees my commitment to it, and that it appears to be working, and is making me happy. And although you'd have to torture her before she'd admit it, I know she likes the increasing size.
My wife just said okay, at first. Actually, after I explained that it takes time and dedication, she said that I have the perfect personality for it. She was a bit sceptical about it, even when I showed her some comparison photos. For a while after starting she was rather uncomfortable about it. She kept saying that I don't need to be bigger and this and that, and I had to explain that I was doing it for myself, and that I didn't feel my body matched how I feel on the inside. She was also worried it was going to get too big, and I reminded her that it's a very slow process. She is much cooler with it now, because she sees my commitment to it, and that it appears to be working, and is making me happy. And although you'd have to torture her before she'd admit it, I know she likes the increasing size.
No need to hide man because here I describe my current progress. Anna those days understood that my flaccid length is longer and asked my what's up. Thus I said anything for my activities.
She became very nervous in the beginning; she called my insane LOL....
But I tried to explained her as you did that is a slow progress and I do it mainly for better/longer erections - premature ejaculation control.
I promised to her that I will stop when I reach 20 cm (8 inches) in BPEL. But she still calls me insane!!!
She became very nervous in the beginning; she called my insane LOL....
But I tried to explained her as you did that is a slow progress and I do it mainly for better/longer erections - premature ejaculation control.
I promised to her that I will stop when I reach 20 cm (8 inches) in BPEL. But she still calls me insane!!!
Well she hopes it helps. I might add that I didn't tell her about the enlagrement aspect yet. She is very happy with my current size and before she even knew of my insecurities she told me that I am the only one to ever bring her to orgasm through penetration. Now this should be a great comfort to all us guys out there because I am NOT the biggest she has ever had. Recently while I was in one of my more insecure moods I got her talking and asked her how she would describe my penis. She said AVERAGE. I am still trying to deal with this and that is what brougtme to tell her that I joined a community online.
:agree: cos 7+ is above average.
Have you asked her?
Me and Anna have not discussed about our past (just few things).
She said the truth. Anything like you are huge like King Kong etc is lie.
I am sure that your girl is satisfied from you.
Yes it is above average. Yes I have asked her. Yes she is satisfied =). As far as her average comment goes I was hoping she would say something like its pretty long or something like that. I have always felt tha it is but I guess that in her experience its average. It was a blow to how I have always percieved myself and it will take some time for me to work through. PLEASE don't talk about past partners with your girlfriend. It only leads to misery. You seem to love this girl with all your heart so keep it on that level. You are here for yourself to be the best man you can be for her and that is what matters.
I have posted this many times around the forum: The male ego... what a fragile thing!!!
I think women don't care to measure penises like us. They estimate seeing them. For example if an Anna's ex was 5" then in her eyes I am longer or the opposite if an ex was 8".
:agree:
A discussion for example:
- Yiagos my first relation was 11 years ago and...
- Darling please stop talking here. I don't care for your past. I am here to be your final man. Love conquers all; therefore trust me and forget anything (especially bad happenings). I have also done relations like you. Is it a problem OK?
- Of course not!
Expert and serious women have done relations and decide someday what they look for: A man for marriage. So simple.
Thus our girls compare us with their previous partners in many things (character, romance, honesty, sensitivity, care, goodness) regardless of penis size.
Anna requires romance every day, I am 99.99% that the others did not give her much love and would to screw her mainly.
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I told my wife about it when premature ejaculation became to much for me to barre.she always says the same thing, "have you heard me complain?" That's like a slap in the face when you know its a problem & they won't admit it. she is all for it as long as it helps me last longer than her. So far it has she's been having 3-4 orgasms before me & actually got a squirting orgasm out of her once so for my opinion kegels, knowing when ponr is had worked now just increase my size especially my girth & everything will be fine as wine. Thanx PEGYM
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My only caution about telling your partner about your interest in PE is that it is very easy to imagine that information being used as a weapon in an ugly breakup.
^^ This. Although I'm not currently dating anyone, I wouldn't even consider telling a potential GF unless it was serious and long-term.
Nice progress stiffnights. Kegels help for improving EQ and premature ejaculation.
Induce your wife to perform Kegels; help women for stronger orgasms also.
Induce your wife to perform Kegels; help women for stronger orgasms also.
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I did, I would think, just saying no, I don't see no need in telling, would be more practical... but alright.
I voted other. I told her about my pumping because I have ED and I wanted to show her how I can generate an erection with the vacuum pump and maintain it with tight constriction. I think she was impressed, but also cautioned me not to hurt myself. Since she was concerned that pumping could leed to injury, I don't want her to get overly concerned over my extender and stretching exercises. However, if she comments on my increased size, I think I will bring her up-to-date on everything I am doing. It has now been two years and I am still waiting for the magic words.
