I've seen this question alot but never saw or heard a clear answer. If there is a 5in in length and a 7in in length whats the difference in feel for a woman with the girth being the same 5.5 or something. Also what the difference in feel for same size in length lets say 6in but girth is different a skinny one maybe 4.5in girth or whatever is considered skinny and a more girthy one about 5.5in? i'm not saying there isn't a difference in feeling just asking what it is.
Whats the difference in feeling for different sizes?
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Basically girth plays more of a difference during sexual intercourse than length .... So i feel a 5.5" girth compared to a 4.5" girth will have more of an effect than a 7" length compared to a 6" length.Women prefer girthier penises to length(Atleast by pleasure if not by sight).
I have been told by women that an inch or even two of length (girth being equal) doesn't make that much difference sensation-wise, unless the longer penis is long enough to bottom out and stretch the vaginal vault, or rub the cervix. In that event, the longer cock may be better, or it may be worse. I've been told by a fair number of women that they don't care for that sensation at all. For some women with shallow vaginas, a length of 7" may prevent complete insertion, which might reduce pelvic contact and diminish the pleasurable sensations. I've also been told by some women that they really get off on the sensation of a guy's scrotum banging against their vulva and perineum when going at it face-to-face, or against their clit when doing it doggy style, and that won't happen if the guy is too long.
I think most women would notice a big difference between a girth of 4.5" and one of 5.5". In my experience, a girth of 5.5" is on the borderline of being to thick for a small percentage of women, but I rather expect most would prefer 5.5" to 4.5" if they had a choice.
An extra inch or two of length can open up the door to a few more positions in which close pelvic contact isn't possible. It reduces the lilkihood of the guy repeatedly slipping out, and allows for longer strokes, which some gals enjoy. On the other hand, at around 7 inches insertable length I have been told by a couple of women that I was too long for comfortable doggy style (a massive dissapointment) or missionary with her legs up on my shoulders.
I think most women would notice a big difference between a girth of 4.5" and one of 5.5". In my experience, a girth of 5.5" is on the borderline of being to thick for a small percentage of women, but I rather expect most would prefer 5.5" to 4.5" if they had a choice.
An extra inch or two of length can open up the door to a few more positions in which close pelvic contact isn't possible. It reduces the lilkihood of the guy repeatedly slipping out, and allows for longer strokes, which some gals enjoy. On the other hand, at around 7 inches insertable length I have been told by a couple of women that I was too long for comfortable doggy style (a massive dissapointment) or missionary with her legs up on my shoulders.
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redbear is completely correct, I agree on all aspects of what he said.
The main thing to remember is that a lot of the sensations for women come from the stretching of the skin and tissues around the vaginal opening -- so girth increases change the sensations for her a lot more than similar length increases.
As for length increases, redbear spelled out the pluses and minuses quite nicely.
I like his observations about feeling a guys balls slap against me -- I do love that. If being extra-long prevents full insertion and thus would preclude feeling that ball slap, I would really miss it.
The main thing to remember is that a lot of the sensations for women come from the stretching of the skin and tissues around the vaginal opening -- so girth increases change the sensations for her a lot more than similar length increases.
As for length increases, redbear spelled out the pluses and minuses quite nicely.
I like his observations about feeling a guys balls slap against me -- I do love that. If being extra-long prevents full insertion and thus would preclude feeling that ball slap, I would really miss it.
Just wondering:
To measure the number of inches insertable, you would just lay the ruler on your pubic area?
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Hmm, some girls are definately into a long penis.
I have been 7.75"bpel plus for some time and full insertion is rearely a problem ,though some positions and the vigor I like to use can be. So for instance, had one girl no problem in missonary etc, but would put her hand around the base of my dick ,when I got in doggy to prevent too deep insertion.
Would have to say the extra length over my orginal 6.75"bpel has had a positive effect in general and a noticable one. A small difference in girth seems to have a noticible effect. When I went from 4,75" to 5.25" it was well recieved ,however going from 5.5" girth to 6" bpeg has been more a mixed bag.
I have been 7.75"bpel plus for some time and full insertion is rearely a problem ,though some positions and the vigor I like to use can be. So for instance, had one girl no problem in missonary etc, but would put her hand around the base of my dick ,when I got in doggy to prevent too deep insertion.
Would have to say the extra length over my orginal 6.75"bpel has had a positive effect in general and a noticable one. A small difference in girth seems to have a noticible effect. When I went from 4,75" to 5.25" it was well recieved ,however going from 5.5" girth to 6" bpeg has been more a mixed bag.
From everything I've read, it seems like 7.5BPEL x 5.5msg(mid shaft girth right?) would be perfect for almost everything. That's why this is my goal.
Any bigger than this (like redbear, pegasus, and batwoman on this and other threads have said) for either length or girth seems to present problems for some women.
Of course there are always the size queens though........
Any bigger than this (like redbear, pegasus, and batwoman on this and other threads have said) for either length or girth seems to present problems for some women.
Of course there are always the size queens though........
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Pegasus - could you expand on this mixed bag, girth wise? Do the pluses out way the minuses ingoing from 5.5>6bpeg?
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Yeh - very interested in hearing about this .... I read that as just a half-inch and I wouldn't think that would be THAT big of a deal ... I know my lady has noticed an increase but I'm not expecting it to be that much (I measure tomorrow ...)
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My experience with this is somewhat limited as it is only in recent years I have gone over 5.5" girth.
My ex wife said I was too big and would not be specific re length ,girth ,volume. I had gone to 5.75"girth over a long period.
While married I stoped pe girth went back to 5.625". On leaving the marriage I had several partners who were mostly ok with it.
However here is an interesting thing. I met my current partner and she loved my size ,which was in the 5.625" to 5.75" girth range, but a small change to 6" girth over a considerable time went over poorly.
My ex wife said I was too big and would not be specific re length ,girth ,volume. I had gone to 5.75"girth over a long period.
While married I stoped pe girth went back to 5.625". On leaving the marriage I had several partners who were mostly ok with it.
However here is an interesting thing. I met my current partner and she loved my size ,which was in the 5.625" to 5.75" girth range, but a small change to 6" girth over a considerable time went over poorly.
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Small changes in girth are very noticeable to us females.
Small changes in length, not so much.
For length, it is not so much that it feels different in general, more that you can hit different parts (G-spot, etc.) a bit differently. But that is quite position-dependent and depends on how you use what you have, I think.
Small changes in length, not so much.
For length, it is not so much that it feels different in general, more that you can hit different parts (G-spot, etc.) a bit differently. But that is quite position-dependent and depends on how you use what you have, I think.
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Yes ,I seem to have made unconcious technique changes due to length. Total volume might come into this also. I can imagine that an 8 by 6 ,would cause more stretch even girth wise than 6 by 6.
Just a quick query, does a thicker girth (especially under the glans) have any desensitizing effect on the penis?? (im assuming that a thicker girth would cover more of the underside of the glans and thus decrease sensitivity)
EQKing,
Your and other members' comments on this and other threads helped me come to that long term goal
I'm currently 6.6x5.1
Hope to get there by this time next year! (Not in a hurry)
I would estimate my "insertable length" to be right around 7.5" (BPEL is a bit more) and I am just over 5.5" at midshaft (about 6" right at the base) and based on prior life experiences I would say it is a great size to have. I am shooting for a little more right now, but my wife did get bigger after having 2 kids.
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Like I've said before, I enjoy oral and anal as well as vaginal sex, and I think 7.5" x 5.5" sounds just about perfect as a size that would be enjoyable for all of those things.
redbear, did you ever talk to your wife about kegelling?
redbear, did you ever talk to your wife about kegelling?
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Ye redbear, it is a good size to have ,similar to mine. My partner has had 2 kids also, but has the tightest little pussy. She doesn't kegal ,just lucky I guess.
