What's my "perceived" size?

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Well I think I might just go with that. I think 7" is the number where you go from being average in a girls eyes to at least a bit above average. I may try to just say its 7+ and see where that gets me. I can't lie as much about the girth as I know most women have their "hand test" where they judge guys by how much of their hand they can get around the penis. Being I am not doing all that well in the girth department, I will probably leave that off the table.

@tinkerbell. I am not sure what age group you are in, but women in my age group constantly talk about all the "big" penises they have had or want. I mean, we live in a society today where women seem to be more aggressive and forthcoming of their wants and desires. To be labeled as having a "big dick" these days inherently gets you more women. Regardless of whether they are the type of women you are looking for is another story.

But, my chances of getting "laid" more often in the crowds I run are directly relevant to how I am perceived in the penis size department. I am talking about friends putting friends together. I have numerous girls who are friends who have asked me about my male friends penis size. Any guy labeled as having a larger unit gets around the groups to numerous female prospects solely on those merits.


more expressive about perceived wants and desires and the need to fit into what is social norm within the media... girls also want to be anorexic thin because that is what they are told is hot and desirable.
Saying you have and want big cock does one thing it sells the notion that said girl is sexually confident and sexually hungry...it panders to the need of men wanting females to be nymphos and sex fueled lust bunnies...a girl says she loves huge cock and wants huge cock and men subconscious mind goes oh yeah she's a horny bitch...it works the same way that seeing two girls kissing does, men relate to it on a porn level..Women sometimes kiss and make out with other women to sell sexuality and to tease men, it helps them hook up with cock.
 

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tinkerbell, you could make a fortune at the carnival, guess penis size for 2 dollars, step right up, dont be shy, win a stuffed animal, step right up


hehe... i generally avoid the guessing game because i know that with some men their is no right answer..today i bent my rule a little, and i am happy that my answer hasn't sent the OP spiraling :)
 

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You ought to be more concerned about sexually transmitted diseases and keeping that big shlong in your pants until you marry that special someone.

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hehe... i generally avoid the guessing game because i know that with some men their is no right answer..today i bent my rule a little, and i am happy that my answer hasn't sent the OP spiraling :)

You could have said it looked like 3 inches and it wouldn't have bothered me :). I asked for truthful opinions and that's what I got. I appreciate the candidness.

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Did you just quote yourself? Lol.
 

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You could have said it looked like 3 inches and it wouldn't have bothered me :). I asked for truthful opinions and that's what I got. I appreciate the candidness.



Did you just quote yourself? Lol.

Yes, i did, my advice should be taken seriously if you plan on having multible partners. STD's are on the rise.
 

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Actually condoms are more fun than abstaining in my experience. Why not semd her the photo, ask her to guess and just agree with her answer?
 

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Uhhhhh, why not just be honest with her about your size? She won't care what size you are if you know how to use it. I second the warning!!
 

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My penis is 6 NBPEL and 7 BPEl. It's about 4.75 on average in girth. And your penis looks like mine does when I look in one of those mirrors that magnify. lol How can that be about my size? My girth gets to be just over 4.5 near the bass and it looks like it could snap.
 
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Uhhhhh, why not just be honest with her about your size? She won't care what size you are if you know how to use it. I second the warning!!


Having tried to talk sense about penis size to the general public for decades ,I have 1 piece of advice ; don't. It is usually a painfull and fruitless experience.
 
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Okay in the first pic you look huge. :eek: So tell her your 9 inches she'll believe you. ;)
Actually i've changed my mind and i tend to agree with the other guys who said you shouldn't tell her your size. I changed my mind because if you decide to show her your first pic she will think it's huge (because it looks huge in that pic) so their is no need to tell her anything. :)
 

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Actually i've changed my mind and i tend to agree with the other guys who said you shouldn't tell her your size. I changed my mind because if you decide to show her your first pic she will think it's huge (because it looks huge in that pic) so their is no need to tell her anything. :)

Sounds good :). I actually agree with that idea as well now that I have thought it over a bit more.

My penis is 6 NBPEL and 7 BPEl. It's about 4.75 on average in girth. And your penis looks like mine does when I look in one of those mirrors that magnify. lol How can that be about my size? My girth gets to be just over 4.5 near the bass and it looks like it could snap.

Well, I took maybe 10 pictures. That is the one that made it look the biggest. Also, I played with the orientation. Tall skinnier pictures tend to make things look skinnier. Short fatter pictures make things look fatter. I choose the first picture because it makes my penis look longer. I choose the second one because it makes it look fatter :)

Also, I am pushing my rather large fat pat back in those pictures to get that extra length look. Also, I am a shorter person (5"7ish) and I have smaller then average hands for man.

I have two separate tape measures. Both of them put me at best 6.5 BPEL and 4.25 MEG. I am only about 4" at the base. I have an extremely skinny penis (man's worst nightmare). I am not pulling especially hard on the tape during the girth measurements either.
 
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having tried to talk sense about penis size to the general public for decades ,I have 1 piece of advice ; don't. It is usually a painfull and fruitless experience.

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having tried to talk sense about penis size to the general public for decades ,I have 1 piece of advice ; don't. It is usually a painfull and fruitless experience.

There is a difference between someone arguing whether penis size matters or not. I get that whole discussion. A lot of what people worry and deal with today is the very real notion that Women (those in the younger age groups) do ridicule men because of their penis size. They are very open about talking about sex and very open about ridiculing or praising a man because of his endowment.

I have literally been in social situations where extremely young women just walk up to me and grab my crotch and tell me that are just trying to figure out if "I'm worth it or not". Granted, I realize all these things are because of immaturity and sexual ignorance. But, it doesn't make them any less real. If you are a younger person, you are bombarded with this type of crap. You cannot avoid it and either have to look to another age group or just hope you get lucky and find someone who isn't so immature.
 

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So, can we just use this as a "how big do you think I am?" thread now? I imagine I'll be a bit disappointed with the responses, but against my better judgment I'll throw my di...hat in the ring.

Voting has ended.
 
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So, can we just use this as a "how big do you think I am?" thread now? I imagine I'll be a bit disappointed with the responses, but against my better judgment I'll throw my di...hat in the ring.

Well yours points up. I am no good at guessing at those. I would say maybe 6.25 by 4.75?

EDIT: That is my tentative guess. If tinkerbell guesses, I am going with her guess :)
 

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Well yours points up. I am no good at guessing at those. I would say maybe 6.25 by 4.75?

Yeah, kind of an awkward angle, but I tried a lot of different angles and this was one of the only angles that I could get a decent shot of.

EDIT: That is my tentative guess. If tinkerbell guesses, I am going with her guess :)

Probably a safe bet.
 

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So, can we just use this as a "how big do you think I am?" thread now? I imagine I'll be a bit disappointed with the responses, but against my better judgment I'll throw my di...hat in the ring.
Whenever there is a dick pic around i can't resist having a guess. :D I would say 7.28 BPEL x 5.3.