What's my "perceived" size?

[itguy123]

I am in a situation where a woman I know is asking for "pictures" of my stuff and my size. I know exactly how big I am. My question is how big am I perceived to be? I haven't played any size cards yet and I have left her wondering.

I am only talking about a fling here and one that could possibly lead up to some flings with her friends as well if it all goes well. In other words, what is the biggest I can say my penis is and still be believable. I am not terribly worried about her pulling out a tape measure on me.

Guys, you are welcome to chime in as well. Granted, I am looking for the opinion of a woman if possible.

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[schlittle]

Lol are you sure you aren't just fishing for compliments?

Just tell her it's a "monster" and when she sees it she'll believe you.

 

[kingpole]

You have nothing to worry about.

 

[itguy123]

Lol are you sure you aren't just fishing for compliments?

Just tell her it's a "monster" and when she sees it she'll believe you.

I am quite average on actual measurements, but for some reason I look bigger in pictures. I want to use that to my advantage and claim as much as I can get away with

 

[schlittle]

I am quite average on actual measurements, but for some reason I look bigger in pictures. I want to use that to my advantage and claim as much as I can get away with

Okay in the first pic you look huge. So tell her your 9 inches she'll believe you.

 

[Messerschmidt]

I think your ratio of girth to length probably gives you more perceived size. Yeah, say it's 8 inches, most girls are terrible at measuring properly so she won't likely call you out on it.

I would say roughly 6 by 4.5

Tink is not one of them, but that's just because she hangs around here.

 

[TTBB]

I would say roughly 6 by 4.5

 

[itguy123]

I think your ratio of girth to length probably gives you more perceived size. Yeah, say it's 8 inches, most girls are terrible at measuring properly so she won't likely call you out on it.

Well, I have a really big fat pad for my weight and gain almost an inch when I bone press compared just sitting around. I am only like 6.5+ BPEL, but less then 6" NBPEL. My girth is only 4.25 and I think you are right about that contributing to my "perceived" bigger size. I think I may try 7.5" at best because of my NBPEL being so much smaller.

 

[itguy123]

I would say roughly 6 by 4.5

Well that's quite close to my actual measurements. So, whether or not I can get away with saying more is my question. You seem to be quite accurate on your guessing outside of the length being a bit shorter then actuality.

 

[TTBB]

I think i can judge roughly with in .5 of most guys measurements... but i also believe most women aren't as good at judging measurements, you have to understand i did four years of life drawing, studying the body and perspectives...I don't believe in lying about measurements because it just adds fuel to the whole she says she's been with huge cock when in reality she has been with a guys who have added imaginary inches and corrupted her perception of what is what.
If men really feel the need to lie then i suggest nothing more then one in on length and a smaller fraction on the girth.. because if you do lie and a girl knows you are lying it can make her lose a little respect ..because you think she is too dumb to know reality.

 

[Messerschmidt]

True, but we also have to operate in that distorted world. If I'm as big as a girl's last boyfriend, but he added 2" to his length, then the perception is going to be that I'm 2" smaller, which is not an ideal foot to start on. I don't think that degree of misinformation is unrealistic either, after viewing so many threads where guys have gotten told that their girlfriends/wives have had multiple 10+" penises.

 

[kingpole]

I would say 7" by 5" at the least. BPEL is not always accurate due to the fact you forcing a blunt instrument into your pubic bone. This causes the penis to wilt, making it smaller.

 

[TTBB]

More then likely if the guy was lying about the size of his cock, and you state your true measurements...she will realize the other cock was not as big as what she was told...it won't make her view your penis as smaller because she can see and feel what she is receiving ..women are not number people.

 

[Messerschmidt]

More then likely if the guy was lying about the size of his cock, and you state your true measurements...she will realize the other cock was not as big as what she was told...it won't make her view your penis as smaller because she can see and feel what she is receiving ..women are not number people.

I was referring more to the OP's situation where he has to lead with a picture rather than having her first exposure to it being during sex. I would be hesitant to provide a picture and especially a number for that reason, but not doing so can look like you've got something to hide.

 

[TTBB]

I think his cock looks a big...he has nothing to worry about.
the side view shows the girth better...the top view shows the length better

 

[itguy123]

I would say 7" by 5" at the least. BPEL is not always accurate due to the fact you forcing a blunt instrument into your pubic bone. This causes the penis to wilt, making it smaller.

Well I think I might just go with that. I think 7" is the number where you go from being average in a girls eyes to at least a bit above average. I may try to just say its 7+ and see where that gets me. I can't lie as much about the girth as I know most women have their "hand test" where they judge guys by how much of their hand they can get around the penis. Being I am not doing all that well in the girth department, I will probably leave that off the table.

@tinkerbell. I am not sure what age group you are in, but women in my age group constantly talk about all the "big" penises they have had or want. I mean, we live in a society today where women seem to be more aggressive and forthcoming of their wants and desires. To be labeled as having a "big dick" these days inherently gets you more women. Regardless of whether they are the type of women you are looking for is another story.

But, my chances of getting "laid" more often in the crowds I run are directly relevant to how I am perceived in the penis size department. I am talking about friends putting friends together. I have numerous girls who are friends who have asked me about my male friends penis size. Any guy labeled as having a larger unit gets around the groups to numerous female prospects solely on those merits.

 

[kingpole]

Well I think I might just go with that. I think 7" is the number where you go from being average in a girls eyes to at least a bit above average. I may try to just say its 7+ and see where that gets me. I can't lie as much about the girth as I know most women have their "hand test" where they judge guys by how much of their hand they can get around the penis. Being I am not doing all that well in the girth department, I will probably leave that off the table.

@tinkerbell. I am not sure what age group you are in, but women in my age group constantly talk about all the "big" penises they have had or want. I mean, we live in a society today where women seem to be more aggressive and forthcoming of their wants and desires. To be labeled as having a "big dick" these days inherently gets you more women. Regardless of whether they are the type of women you are looking for is another story.

But, my chances of getting "laid" more often in the crowds I run are directly relevant to how I am perceived in the penis size department. I am talking about friends putting friends together. I have numerous girls who are friends who have asked me about my male friends penis size. Any guy labeled as having a larger unit gets around the groups to numerous female prospects solely on those merits.

You ought to be more concerned about sexually transmitted diseases and keeping that big shlong in your pants until you marry that special someone.

 

[somebodyelse]

Well, I have a really big fat pad for my weight and gain almost an inch when I bone press compared just sitting around. I am only like 6.5+ BPEL, but less then 6" NBPEL. My girth is only 4.25 and I think you are right about that contributing to my "perceived" bigger size. I think I may try 7.5" at best because of my NBPEL being so much smaller.

I wouldn't even talk about size...

Girls used to immediately assume i was hung like a donky. Then when it came out, I could almost always feel the disappoint run across their faces... it wasn't disappointment it was a very good job of stifling their excitement. LOL!

I never mention size, but when they see pics, they're enamored.

 

[BigO]

send her the pick, nothing more and tell her to guess, if shes close enough youll come over. Ifit looks big in the picand she wants big dickosorass she will let her eyes tll hr brain she wants that spews nozzle

 

[BigO]

tinkerbell, you could make a fortune at the carnival, guess penis size for 2 dollars, step right up, dont be shy, win a stuffed animal, step right up