We guys are pretty stupid

[wanthis]

Why do we need to know how big the the guys our girls/Exes/FWBs have been with are?

I am already not over my ex and on top of that I decided to ask her if the guy she's kind of has a thing with right now has a big dick. I asked her the same question when she had a fling with this other guy too. What the fuck is wrong with me? lol.
But I feel like a lot of guys are like me. why do we torment ourselves like this?

 

[aidan784]

Well, in short, I believe all your questions are answered by the title. LOL

Been there though!

 

[Batwoman]

Misplaced hope in being the biggest and best at everything in the world?
Sometimes I think it must just be a flaw on the Y chromosome.....

 

[irheretogrow]

Don't think its called stupidity but its that wanna-be-better/bigger thingy.

 

[NP97]

No idea.
I tend to never ask that. Don't really care...

You want to be her biggest and best forever. Something she'll remember. If you're not that to start you may think she'll always have the thought of that 'other cock' in her head.
Afterwords it's more of an ego thing. As in after a relationship is over.

 

[closeed258]

i think every man wnats to think he is superior to the next, and the way men do it is through cock size

 

[TTBB]

By asking that question esp to an ex.. you are handing power over to her.. it saying " i am insecure about my penis" its something you don't need your ex knowing.

 

[GaryTruman]

Why do we need to know how big the the guys our girls/Exes/FWBs have been with are?

I am already not over my ex and on top of that I decided to ask her if the guy she's kind of has a thing with right now has a big dick. I asked her the same question when she had a fling with this other guy too. What the fuck is wrong with me? lol.
But I feel like a lot of guys are like me. why do we torment ourselves like this?

its normal. you are just trying to see where things went wrong. honestly, the first thing i do when i stop talking to a chick im trying to get serious with is go on the hunt asap. i forget about her completely. works for me. you are in the phase where you still care for her. you need some "FUCK IT" in your life.

 

[wanthis]

Yea it definitely has to do with the male ego. The need to be always superior. I really wish I didn't care lol. But can't help it.

 

[wanthis]

By asking that question esp to an ex.. you are handing power over to her.. it saying " i am insecure about my penis" its something you don't need your ex knowing.

Wow I should be coming to you for advice more often lol.

 

[GaryTruman]

honestly. the next time you start feeling bad about anything regarding an ex. just up and leave the house asap and take a walk anywhere. walking always lifts my spirit no matter whats wrong.

 

[wanthis]

honestly. the next time you start feeling bad about anything regarding an ex. just up and leave the house asap and take a walk anywhere. walking always lifts my spirit no matter whats wrong.

Thanks man. Will definitely give that a try. I wish I had posted about this right after the breakup. I Probably would have recovered a lot more by now. Only about 5 months late lol

 

[TTBB]

I asked her the same question when she had a fling with this other guy too.

The minute she had a fling is the minute her opinion of you stopped mattering.. she has no respect for you, there for you should not respect to her opinions of your penis...because you can't trust her intention or perspective

 

[CUSP82]

Like you said wanthis; we guys are pretty stupid but yet we guys control the world. What does that say about those that have two x chromosomes instead of an x and y? Okay, I'll go to my room now.

 

[islander]

Well my marriage counselor told "us" it's because a man needs a factual reason for not being wanted anymore. Not based on emotion or personal decision.
It needs to be, for the man, something he can not change. Then he can assign the reason and move on.

Some assign it to penis size. Some are "sure" it's another man. Most of the reasons seem to boil down to sex.

I in no way left my ex because of penis size or sex.

Hope that helped!

 

[GaryTruman]

honestly though, have you had sex or talked to another girl since ur ex?

 

[spanky]

So here's the thing.. It's always nice to think you're someone's biggest or best, but hell, second or third in a list of however many is still just as cool, and way less pressure

 

[islander]

I'm female

Spanky
I have to admit I was insecure with my current partner initially. Along the same lines.
He has had probably 75+ partners. All hot chics. Many I know.
I'm a sexy smart bitch but my dd's are real if u know what I mean. He is in his 50's and I'm the oldest lover by 7 years he's ever had ( in my 40's). It took me a few months to shake it. But I did and I've only just now thought of it since. So yes it's normal. Cuz I'm normal lol

 

[GaryTruman]

So here's the thing.. It's always nice to think you're someone's biggest or best, but hell, second or third in a list of however many is still just as cool, and way less pressure

who cares what the girl thinks. was she the tightest and most in shape? or was she a complete bitch to you? did she love you back? its not about physical attributes UNTIL u break up. thats never a good thing. if she gave a sh*t about u ever she would never mention things.

 

[Hanma]

Well, in short,

D: What are you implying here?