Yeah sounds right. I never thought I was sexually advanced but, reading this information makes me think otherwise. I was gettin it done at an early age, then when I was of age...I was gettin it done with my boyfriend. Maybe I just had a really good example of first sexual experiences because of him. My first real sexual relationship (with someone other than myself) was a long term affair with a sexually advanced guy that was a couple years older. He helped me form my view of what sex was suppose to be so I landed straight into tantric sex, eatable oils, lingerie and what not.
Trouble making my gf cum
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Yeah sounds right. I never thought I was sexually advanced but, reading this information makes me think otherwise. I was gettin it done at an early age, then when I was of age...I was gettin it done with my boyfriend. Maybe I just had a really good example of first sexual experiences because of him. My first real sexual relationship (with someone other than myself) was a long term affair with a sexually advanced guy that was a couple years older. He helped me form my view of what sex was suppose to be so I landed straight into tantric sex, eatable oils, lingerie and what not.
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You lucked out, Baybabe. I think that some women don't realize that they have the right to pleasure themselves until later in life.
you should ask her what she likes while giving oral. From my personal experience oral is by far the easiest way to make a girl cum.
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One last thing. If you include foreplay, do some nipple sucking while rubbing/fingering her, then go down on her it will help. Also, when she says 'fuck me' or something of the sort... don't. Keep up whatever your doing for a bit longer. Does wonders, believe me.
I had a former fuck buddy who had never had an orgasm....with herself or anybody. We were very, very open with each other, we were bothing fucking others and talked freely about it. I suggested she learn how to masturbate first with a silver bullet on her clit. Well, finally after all these years this worked for her and she became addicted to her new feelings. In fact, she's on her 4th bullet now. She still thanks me to this day for this.
My friend always loved sex, but never got to the "peak". My friend was 30 when she had her first orgasm.
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Haha! Believe me, I practice what I preach.
Seriously though dude (or anyone), need any tips on how to please a woman orally... send me a PM... I'll tell you exactly what you need to do to get your woman gushing before you even put your penis in and go pelvis to pelvis with her. All women are different, so it's not exact. I was working with a girl with a very small clit. Now as to the actually act of sex... I'm good at that... I just consider myself a master at the art of pussy eating.
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Put her on your lap in a sitting position and provide her with the up and down with your arms lifting from just below her rib cage let Her decide where to move it.Or from the lying down position slide her forward and backward.Accenting the forward pull...The out pull is what they like,unlike us we like the push...Try it..the lying down position works well because the clit is rubbing too.Hope this helps?
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You have to be an achilles greek god or something to get her from the missionary.The Missionary is just what it suggests.A purely male position...Dont do it.Doggy much the same...you will cum faster she wont.
You have to be an achilles greek god or something to get her from the missionary.The Missionary is just what it suggests.A purely male position...Dont do it.Doggy much the same...you will cum faster she wont.
yeah NP97,
I do the "don't give in when she asks for it" but she just grabs my dick or jump on top of me.
Rubbing your dick across the clit and labia works wonders too. Sometimes I put just the head in and slowly insert about an inch. Then I pull out. Doing this can get a girl more anxious for when you put it in.
Another thing to do is put her in a position where she can watch you putting your dick in. Slowly move you dick towards the hole. Watching you will make her more anxious, wet, and open. Or you could do the same thing, just make sure she can't see when you put it in. The suspense will make her pulse.
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I've always felt that I can last a lot longer and have much more control when I haven't ejaculated in a couple days.
Whenever I edge, the longer its been since I ejaculated, the more dry orgasms I can have before I start to lose control.
Maybe the emotional sensations for her to cum are not there. Maybe you need a longer stronger build up, or different rhythm. Maybe you need to eat healthier or eat more spicy passion giving foods. Maybe she subconsciously doesn't want to come, so all the little details that would push her over the edge she chooses not to do. But if you make her conscious of those things by demonstrating them in foreplay she will utilize those sensations to bring her over the edge.
Well here is a thought.Some of my past girlfriends would cum easily then again some I wonder if they ever did?! So some Women need different things for it to happen I think.The one that always seemed to work was on your lap on the couch one.Try that I think then see.It hits the right spot on Her and not too crazy on your little buddy at the same time.Also lift Her and move Her so She just has to be there instead of having to think about it or do anything then She can just let it happen instaed of make it happen.Also more round and round with less up and down.okay hope helps..?
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Women have to learn how their bodies work, and I think it takes some girls longer than others. Orgasms are not as automatic for females as for males. Orgasms often have to cultivated and shepherded along, and that takes experience on the part of the lady. And, as others have said above, what works for one woman may not work for another. It really helps if a guy is thoughtful, pays attention, and sometimes simply asks if something is working or not working for her. If a girl is inexperienced, try lots of different things and that will increase your chances of finding just the right way to set her off.
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I knew a girl had this problemm, I told her to masturbate and learn her body. Umm also to take some responsibilty for her own sexual pleasure. This worked very well.
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Funny you should mention that Peg -- I was thinking the same thing. I think masturbation is a great way for females to learn what they like, and makes it easier to cum when having duo sex. Too bad it is such a forbidden topic for most girls.
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It took me years to convince her Bw. What was akward was, she had no girlfriends, so soon after she started masturbating she calls me up and says, I think I had an orgasm what do they feel like? Then later ,I think I had a multiple orgasm ,what do they feel like.
Then later (she knew me very well) how do I make my man mmo. Man that was a funny time.
Then later (she knew me very well) how do I make my man mmo. Man that was a funny time.
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Her new man was jealous of our relationship, though we had never been lovers amd she blew me off. I had known her over 20 years. Allways thought, your enemies can't hurt you, because who cares what they think or say. You make yourself vunerable to your friends and they can hurt you.
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I don't really blame her man -- it's hard to not be jealous of a close relationship like that -- but there is no excuse for her treating you that way. My condolences.
It sure is true: it's only the people you let inside the walls that can really hurt you. Still, if you never take that risk, life would be a cold and lonely place.
It sure is true: it's only the people you let inside the walls that can really hurt you. Still, if you never take that risk, life would be a cold and lonely place.
