The Official Hard Flaccid Recovery Thread

[ronjohn812]

fatal,

i also weightlift and cant imagine cutting it out of my daily routine. (5 days a week). eveyroen says to carry on with life nornallly, id be depressed if i stopped, sports/lifting...

 

[ronjohn812]

but yeah, muscle/pelvic floor seems to be the issue at hand

 

[moxsum]

does anyone else experience this?

This issue doesnt just effect my flaccid.. also effects my erections, even though i get solid boners.. the thing is, they are like stiffer then before, but not neccesarilly in a good way, its like the shaft feels very hard.. almost like wood.. where as before it felt slightly softer more normal.. i dont really mind this..

However, the issue is, my dick like cant bend AT ALL when its fully hard, and i just fear that it would make me more succesptible to injury, like, you need a little le=way when your going at it with a girl, and it seems a lot of porn stars dicks are like almost soft yet fully erect at the same time?! good news is my dick has actually been feeling softer lately, flaccid and erect.. but now ive gotten so used to it being hard as steel (in a bad way lol) that now its made me anxious feeling like its too soft when in reality its probably going back to normal almost.. aaaahh

 

[fatalbazuka]

If your getting good erections then i dont see what there is to be concerned about, just be happy about having full sexual functioning mate.

 

[Newbert_zero]

does anyone else experience this?

This issue doesnt just effect my flaccid.. also effects my erections, even though i get solid boners.. the thing is, they are like stiffer then before, but not neccesarilly in a good way, its like the shaft feels very hard.. almost like wood.. where as before it felt slightly softer more normal.. i dont really mind this..

However, the issue is, my dick like cant bend AT ALL when its fully hard, and i just fear that it would make me more succesptible to injury, like, you need a little le=way when your going at it with a girl, and it seems a lot of porn stars dicks are like almost soft yet fully erect at the same time?! good news is my dick has actually been feeling softer lately, flaccid and erect.. but now ive gotten so used to it being hard as steel (in a bad way lol) that now its made me anxious feeling like its too soft when in reality its probably going back to normal almost.. aaaahh

I experienced that to does your dick get so uncomfortably hard that it feels like if you did an erect kegel it would explode? It went away after a while too and like you I was weirded out with how flexible it seemed but it's normal.

 

[moxsum]

hey newbert.. yes, a lot of the time, when i do achieve a solid erection, it feels hard as a rock on the outer shaft, and ya when i do a kegel it feels super tight.. sort of like the inside of the shaft is expanding more then the tunica will allow it too or something.

Thats generally how its been.. but occasionally things are just slightly softer, which is probably more normal, but like I said.. after having those granite erections for a few months, any softness feels foreign and triggers my sexual anxiety to think that.. maybe my dicks gotten weaker and im gonna have venous leakage or some crazy sh*t like that.. definitely not the case though.

So that crazy rock hard sensation went away for you? Can you still achieve good erections with your softer/more normal dick?

 

[Newbert_zero]

hey newbert.. yes, a lot of the time, when i do achieve a solid erection, it feels hard as a rock on the outer shaft, and ya when i do a kegel it feels super tight.. sort of like the inside of the shaft is expanding more then the tunica will allow it too or something.

Thats generally how its been.. but occasionally things are just slightly softer, which is probably more normal, but like I said.. after having those granite erections for a few months, any softness feels foreign and triggers my sexual anxiety to think that.. maybe my dicks gotten weaker and im gonna have venous leakage or some crazy sh*t like that.. definitely not the case though.

So that crazy rock hard sensation went away for you? Can you still achieve good erections with your softer/more normal dick?

Ya I think I injured my penis in a couple of weird ways all in one day and I've been having dick problems ever since. I think I pulled a lig after it healed my erections were uncomfortably hard and unflexable. Not to mention turtling problems. I think the super hard super tight erections actually went away after just saying fuck it I'm going to kegel and masturbate through this. I know masturbating and kegeling is usually the last recombination for most injuries but at least for that particular symptom it seemed to help. Then I was dealing with hard flaccid and was using a rice sock to heal it. I was wondering why my dick didn't seem to recover and was infact feeling worse and more turtled up after heating it. My ball sack was always tightened up and wouldn't hang either. Turns out i was slowly burning my dick over time with the rice sock when one day when I was high I noticed my dick was unusually red. The weed opened my awareness and helped my notice that but it also made me paranoid as hell that it was red cause I popped a blood vessel or something. Upon closer inspection I noticed my skin was dry and flakey and suddenly it hit me that most of my problems were self induced. In an attempt to heal faster I was using a rice sock turns out I burning my dick but didn't notice because I burned all the nerves that were supposed to tell me I was burning myself.

So I had a lig pull with minor hard flaccid and a burned dick that had the nerves burned off. Because my nerves were burned it was harder to tell if I was unconsiouly flexing my Pc muscles. This probably made my hard flaccid worse. And with burned skin doesn't expand easily so my dick and ball sack looked smaller.

I bought 70 dollars of supplements pretty much forgot about my dick. After a couple of days everything pretty much returned to normal and my skin was starting to healing.
I still occasionally had minor hard flaccid though so I decided to heat it up again to try and heal it. Big mistake although this time I used a much lower temperature it still was to hot and I noticed my dick was turtling up again in response to the heat. Well about a day later I went to the bar and ended up telling a girl I was a virgin. I guess it really turned her on cuz she was all over me. Took her home and couldn't get it up cuz of my skin being burnt again and in an attempt to get it up she started grinding on my really hard which must have scared my poor burnt nervous virgin dick cuz it started going into hard flaccid mode again. Talk about embarrassing. Not only did I have a dick that wouldn't go up I had a turtled up hard flaccid burnt dick with shriveled up burnt balls. she probably thought I have the smallest dick in the world. She was real nice about it though and told me not to be embarrassed that I couldn't get it up but I couldn't help being embarrassed.

So now I'm just going to wait for my skin to heal then I'm going to find her and give her the best fuck my virgin ass can manage. I think I'm going to finally heal and I'm going to finally lose my virginity too. Don't know why I just shared my life story lol. Moral of the story is to take pe very slowly and if you do injure yourself don't burn your dick in an attempt to heal. Also don't panic and go online reading the whole injuries and anomalies subforum. It will just scare the sh*t out of you and cause you stress. Our thoughts create reality so if your always thinking negative thoughts negative things are going to happen.

combination of all this was causing a sh*t ton of stress and what would have probably just been minor hard flaccid that would have went away in a week turned into a big problem.

 

[TTBB]

This sounds very positive Newbert!
don't let what happened with the girl throw you off track .. things like that do happen, even to men who do not have injured penises.. when you are with the next female keep your head in the game .. play the choo choo train.. "i think i can, i think i can, i think i can, i know i can, i know i can ...I can... I saw, i came, i conquered "

 

[Newbert_zero]

So as a virgin am I going to get very attached to the first girl I lose it to? Not to sound like a heartless monster but I don't really want to get attatched to this girl who still wants to fuck me despite my not being able to get it up. The next day when I sobered up she didn't even look that attractive to me and her personality is kinda annoying. I just kinda wanna get it over with so I can have more confidence to approach other girls. I know alot of people say you should save your Virginity for someone special but with all my personality disorders and social anxiety I really don't see myself getting in a relationship anytime soon. And if I was to wait for the right one I would be waiting till im literally a 40 year old virgin and no longer attractive.

 

[TTBB]

Not everyone gets attached to the girl they lose it too.. it depends on the context of the situation.
Its your prerogative to want to go out and fuck lots of hotties...its your fear that is making you not want attachment and i worry you don't view yourself as worthy of having a relationship and someone who cares for you.
The comment about her not being very attractive when you woke up the next morning annoys me a little .. but thats my problem
i do wonder if its partly a protective mechanism to say that.

Its good that you put yourself out there and tried to get past a few hurdles ..you have to put it out there to get what you are after.. try, try again

 

[fatalbazuka]

That sounds a bit stupid 'burning your dick'

When i first take my rice sock out of the microwave it's too hot to put onto my unit and i immediately take it off untill its cooled down abit.
You must have already had some nerve damage if you couldn't even feel your dick getting too hot !

It sounds like you just need some rest. However i'm no doctor, have you had any scans yet ?

 

[Newbert_zero]

No I havent gotten any scans as we all know doctors and scans are pretty much useless when it comes to pe related injuries. I know for a fact I burned my dick though. I really hope I don't have other nerve damage. I just want my burned dick to heal and have everything be normal again without having to worry about nerve damage.

What do you mean by I just need rest?

 

[CUSP82]

Burns take time to heal! Let it heal for 2 weeks.A burn will not cause nerve damage; you need a hammer for that! Newbert you're getting more and more positves with your posts.Keep the good vibes going!

 

[Newbert_zero]

Burns take time to heal! Let it heal for 2 weeks.A burn will not cause nerve damage; you need a hammer for that! Newbert you're getting more and more positves with your posts.Keep the good vibes going!

Maybe not nerve damage but burned skin is definatly desensitized right? maybe if I let it partially heal it will be better for my first time cause it won't overload my senses and cause me to bust a nut instantly. I think I burned my balls so bad I could fuck her without a condom cause my sperm is dead lol. Not gonna take that chance though.

 

[Newbert_zero]

Burns take time to heal! Let it heal for 2 weeks.A burn will not cause nerve damage; you need a hammer for that! Newbert you're getting more and more positves with your posts.Keep the good vibes going!

Well I'm in my manic state and almost sprinted a whole mile so my brain just released a sh*t ton of endorphins. So we'll see how long this positive me lasts.

 

[Mr.Friend]

Well I'm in my manic state and almost sprinted a whole mile so my brain just released a sh*t ton of endorphins. So we'll see how long this positive me lasts.

you have to chill out man, as hard as that sounds. don't become self destructive, for that will cause alot of bad things and set you in the opposite direction of healing. I wouldn't worry too much. My guess is you damaged your nerves permanently, but not enough to make a significant significatn, DIFFICULTy in sex. Hell, maybe use it as a blessing. A way to last longer, because your orgasms can still be extremely good, just need to build them up. I'm seeing a pelvic floor therapist pretty soon though, but I have not chosen one, because I don't know who would be good. I live in the new jersey area. I feel I have a pelvic floor issue AND possibly tissue damage or scar tissue in my penis, because the penis itself, the back of it, when flaccid, will be tender to the touch (or more accurtaely, to small pressure put to it, or helicopters.)

 

[Newbert_zero]

you have to chill out man, as hard as that sounds. don't become self destructive, for that will cause alot of bad things and set you in the opposite direction of healing. I wouldn't worry too much. My guess is you damaged your nerves permanently, but not enough to make a significant significatn, DIFFICULTy in sex. Hell, maybe use it as a blessing. A way to last longer, because your orgasms can still be extremely good, just need to build them up. I'm seeing a pelvic floor therapist pretty soon though, but I have not chosen one, because I don't know who would be good. I live in the new jersey area. I feel I have a pelvic floor issue AND possibly tissue damage or scar tissue in my penis, because the penis itself, the back of it, when flaccid, will be tender to the touch (or more accurtaely, to small pressure put to it, or helicopters.)

I thought ginko can heal minor nerve damage though? Btw I think my hard flaccid problem is pretty much gone completely exept for when I exercise alot or right after ejaculating. Is it normal for the penis to be stiffened and have that hourglass shape to it after ejaculating? I'm at the point where I can ejaculate and it will return to a completely lose flaccid after about 20 minutes where it relaxes enough to actually rest against my ball sack like it's supposed to. My dick has been messed up for so long I forgot how a normal dick even functions. Im Trying to figure out when it's safe to start jelging and stretching again. I'm to scared that my dick will just go straight back into hard flaccid. Btw what do you mean self destructive? I'm not self destructive and don't remember saying anything that implied that.

 

[moxsum]

Hey guys.. got a little update.

So I tried something. I bought some Castor Oil.. which is renowned for its healing properties.. one of which being the ability to soothe and soften tissue. I rubbed a generous amount onto the shaft of my penis a few mornings in a row, let it soak in for 20 minutes, then washed it off..

Ive definitely noticed a softening of the penis both in flaccid and while erect.. at first it sort of freaked me out.. cuz im so used to the super stiff shaft etc.. It absolutely had an effect..

I suggest you guys experiment with it and tell me how it goes. Try what I did, in the morning, before you shower, rub some into your shaft but not onto your glans or testicles. Let it soak in for 20-30 minutes, then get in the shower and wash off.. Do this every morning for a week, and come back and report. You can order castor oil here: Amazon.com: Castor Oil Liquid 32 Ounces: Beauty that is the one I used.

 

[magnusb]

i went to the dr, he told me all my issues with erections and urine and bowel movements are due to anxiety.
i do suffer from immense hyprocodiac anxiety ( if thats how its spelt).
i aslo asked him if its normal for my pc muslce and pelvic muslces to be quite hard, he said that was normal as well.
he says that if i can get erections at night when iam asleep but not in the day its mental.
he also said the consistancy of the hardness of your flaccid penis changes all the time which is also normal....
just letting you guys know what he said i somewhat agree with him and somewhat dont.

 

[fatalbazuka]

Sounds interesting with the castor oil. I will try that out.