The AP90 (Anti-Porn)

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Gotta resist guys. And if you have give in, dont feel like you have to start over completely. The daunting thought of staying clean for 3 months might be too intimidating to complete on your first try. Instead, try to chunk it up. go 5 days first, then 2 weeks, then go for a month, and before you know it, 3 months will have passed and you only gave in 3 or 4 times. By then your body and mind will be more prepared to handle the long period of not obsessing.

Remember, this is like a drug addiction, a lot of people have ot hit rock bottom before they can come back up. If you are experience ED, then maybe you felt you've already hit the bottom. Pick your heads up, if your worried about not getting laid, dont blame yourself. The reason its happening is because of the porn and self satisfaction. Break the habit for a long period of time, and you'll find your body and mind will natural know what to do to get you in those panties.
 

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i'm not going to use porn or any adult content stimuli anymore. that's the first priority for me. i am masturbating once every other day to begin with. if i don't need to and i go two days without, even better. that will be a sign to change the allowance to once every 3 days instead of two.
 

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Day 27 over with, will feel so good once I get laid, whenever that may be.
 
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wow fair play koh just starting back myself, I am on day 3 if i am not mistaken must check my calendar :) looks like you got the habit beat
 

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Yea man, I hardly feel the urge to watch porn now. As long as I keep myself away from beautiful agony or booty shaking videos, I'm good. Also not trying to look at the naked pics that girls have sent me; however, just the teasing bra and panties one they've sent me.

Day 29 is about to be conquered.

Plus I truly do keep myself busy with studying, reading books, and other things.

Word of advice, use the site chains.cc and make an account, easiest way to keep track of habits building.

Here's mine for example.

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I went over three months, then hit bottom again, this time I will go longer and I will not fail!
 

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Day 3
 

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Oh man Congrats Koh. How are the urges? have the mostly subsided?
 

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I still have thoughts about watching porn, albeit minor thoughts, but they're slowly diminishing. Would be able to take my mind off porn if I had a lady around.

Best advice I could give is keep yourself busy, like I posted earlier. Outside of PE, I read, study, meditate, workout, and creatively write in my free time; when the urge comes up, I become busy.

Try not to fall into temptations, mine are booty shaking videos, and beautiful agony videos, so I try to avoid them now. Not to mention, I blocked myself from porn on my computer using K9 web protection.

I'd encourage you to set up a chains.cc account, easy way to keep track of habit building.

Here's what mine looks like, I customized mine accordingly.

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I still have thoughts about watching porn, albeit minor thoughts, but they're slowly diminishing. Would be able to take my mind off porn if I had a lady around.

Best advice I could give is keep yourself busy, like I posted earlier. Outside of PE, I read, study, meditate, workout, and creatively write in my free time; when the urge comes up, I become busy.

Try not to fall into temptations, mine are booty shaking videos, and beautiful agony videos, so I try to avoid them now. Not to mention, I blocked myself from porn on my computer using K9 web protection.

I'd encourage you to set up a chains.cc account, easy way to keep track of habit building.

Here's what mine looks like, I customized mine accordingly.

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Good post Koh, I am thinking of starting something new alright, to help me stay off porn
 

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I saw that video posted a couple pages back and began to think about me and porn, not me being in it of course, no one wants to see that right now.

As I thought back to the last few times I have stopped looking at it over the last year and a half. During my first relationship while I wasn't watching porn it was pretty simple, seeing as though I had the attention of a girl. I tried it a couple more times later on. I noticed that during these times that I was probably at my happiest. I don't know if it was coincidence that I had a girlfriend, a job, and happy during some of these times that I wasn't looking at it or simply because my depression wasn't as.......full throttle (yeah sure, that's the term I will use this time). It is also possible I wasn't depressed during my no porn times as well, although even more coincidental.

So anyways I thought that the 20th was a good day to start and right now I am 2 days with no porn. Time to see if my little theory of porn being tied to my depression is true. So here we go again.
 
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Day 3 over. Definitely got some urges to look at it.
 

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Ok this time I am serious day 1 begins and I plan on keeping off it this time. wish me luck
 

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Day 33, conquered.

Ok this time I am serious day 1 begins and I plan on keeping off it this time. wish me luck
Got to resist man...

Day 4 over.
I'd say your theory may be correct, I had no need to watch porn when I had a girlfriend, I had a real girl to get attention from. I could see how depression would cause one to take the "easy way out" I suppose.
 

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Day 33, conquered.


Got to resist man...


I'd say your theory may be correct, I had no need to watch porn when I had a girlfriend, I had a real girl to get attention from. I could see how depression would cause one to take the "easy way out" I suppose.


Fair play to you Koh just going onto day 2 now, how you feeling being off for over a month. Do you still ejaculate etc
 

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These last couple of days have been real hard, Ive looked at some porn clips but never let myself masturbate. This would be 24 days into it. Doesnt really feel like a true 24 because of my times where i cant resist and watch a clip even if i dont masturbate.
 

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Thank you for this post man, I am some what similar in the fact that I always use porn to masturbate and sometimes find myself spending an hour plus on it!

I'd even watch it while I had a girlfriend and sometimes I would go limp on her and have to make up excuses, looking back porn definetly played a major role in that.

I am not a porn addict yet, but see it slows becoming a problem for me in my life and would love to join you in your journey. Some days when I am bored or get off work early and have nothing to do I catch myself looking through porn and my excuse is, being so new to PE that I should masturbate first so I can have a good jelq session, because I get really hard most the time during my sessions and often have to take breaks!

Stay strong and stay positive bud and know that your not alone! It's almost depressing to see how now a days sex sells this far and causes real problems!