Should i be concerned?

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So a little back story-

I've been with my current girlfriend for a little over a year and we just moved in together about 2 months ago. Anyway, there was this guy on her facebook who seemed to be showing her a lot of attention and she was replying quite a bit back to him. I asked who he was out of curiosity. She said "oh i dont know, some guy that added me" this was a few weeks ago.

Today she has me log into her email to print her resume for her at work, i logged in and see like 5 messages from this same guy. Well i read them, he's inviting her to his house, he lives in Mexico, saying how much he likes her etc. Her reply was something like "ok thats good." (it was in spanish) Anyway, she calls me a little later and i ask who that guy was again, her reply is "oh i dont know" her tone has changed. I say that they look pretty chummy now and she still says she doesnt really know who he is. I work nights, so i sleep during the day. Earlier this afternoon i seen her typing out a message to him, probably her reply. I told her i seen her sending a message to him and she tells me he invited her to his house and that she told him that she had a boyfriend.

I was a little upset that she didnt tell me this until i told her i saw her sending him a message.

Should i be concerned?

She logs into my email and uses it as her own sometimes which doesnt bother me, and she has me log into hers sometimes and has me delete, read etc.
 

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Yes, I would be VERY concerned. A normal, REASONABLE woman is not going to A. add some strange dude she doesn't know onto her facebook and B. The fact that she claims she doesn't know him and yet is freely conversing with him left and right??? That's fucked up. Also, the fact that she isn't straight up telling about this guy also concerns me. She's playing around and that's messed up. You need to call her out bro.
 

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What MrBigDick said. ^^^

Someone stupid enough to have a long-ass continual conversation with a guy in Mexico she doesn't know anything about on facebook, while she already has a boyfriend, & the "other guy" clearly has sexual ideas in his mind...dude. I'd run real far away from her.

Meanwhile...the guy she's talking to sounds like one of those "sexual predators."
 

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Be very concerned dude... just try to ask her the truth,.. she will explain it to you.. don't just go too rough on her, you might get into a big fight and may lead into something else... take a move now... go!!!!
 

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Well, you already know she's a liar. If she will lie to your face like that, then she will definitely cheat on you. In fact, just watch her you may find out some things.
 

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Be VERYYYYYY Suspicious dude. Dont get your heart broken. She's up to something!
 

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Ok martint, you've been given some very good suggestions and advice here, so update us.......what's the deal? Have you spoken with your gf yet?
 

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Ok martint, you've been given some very good suggestions and advice here, so update us.......what's the deal? Have you spoken with your gf yet?

Thanks for the advice guys.

I spoke with her that morning. Long story short, she wouldn't tell the truth. We're not together anymore.

I'm wasn't going to put up with that.
 

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Thanks for the advice guys.

I spoke with her that morning. Long story short, she wouldn't tell the truth. We're not together anymore.

I'm wasn't going to put up with that.


I'm sorry it happened that way man but honestly, if she wasn't willing to tell you the truth, it's best you walked away. You don't need to be played like that.............that's messed up. Good for you bro.
 

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I'm sorry it happened that way man but honestly, if she wasn't willing to tell you the truth, it's best you walked away. You don't need to be played like that.............that's messed up. Good for you bro.
Thanks dude.