She doesn't want me to PE

[Jakebfs]

Even with those chemical changes in the body, the woman's ability to pass something 7lbs proves that the human vagina can be very elastic. Your Asian chick example isn't even necessary because any guy who has ever nailed a virgin, even with an average sized cock, already knows how much pain a woman can have when she's too small (to start with) for what she is getting penetrated by. Stuffing your junk through an unbroken hymen takes serious work! She's very sore after the first time, sore each subsequent time for a couple weeks, and then her vagina opens up enough over time to where there is no more problem. If you day after day ram a 9 inch length 7 inch girth dick into a woman (who has already had sex dozens of times before), her box will stretch out over time and eventually be able to take a monster cock like that without any problem.

Not to go off topic but this is just ridiculous. The chances of finding a woman who is ok with 'being rammed with a 9x7 day after day for weeks til she stretches' are slim to none. The chances of starting PE and having a woman who is ok with you saying 'I'm going to make my penis much bigger, so big that it will cause you excruciating pain, but its ok cause if I bang your brains out for a month you'll adapt and it'll only be very painful rather than extremely painful' are just 0.

If you are with the one partner and they think you are the perfect size, what possible gain is there in a bigger penis? You would have to care more about what stranger in locker rooms think of your penis than how enjoyable your partner finds sex. All you're doing is making things less enjoyable for her, requiring more lubrication, more foreplay, slower strokes, you're limiting what/how you can both have sex.

As long as we love each other, start slowly, pay attention to the other person's needs, and use plenty of lubricant, I really don't see how another .5" in length and .25" in girth is going to make much of a difference.

It's not like I'm shooting for 9x7 (at least not yet)

.25" is a noticable girth increase, 6" can be very problematic for some. I would definately advise staying away from girth work until you've had sex, you're alread 5.75" girth which is huge. No one can deny that and you should start realising that, but its really, really huge. My girlfriend would not be able to accomodate that, not at all, it simply would not go inside of her and she would not want it to try.

 

[BigO]

Even with those chemical changes in the body, the woman's ability to pass something 7lbs proves that the human vagina can be very elastic. Your Asian chick example isn't even necessary because any guy who has ever nailed a virgin, even with an average sized cock, already knows how much pain a woman can have when she's too small (to start with) for what she is getting penetrated by. Stuffing your junk through an unbroken hymen takes serious work! She's very sore after the first time, sore each subsequent time for a couple weeks, and then her vagina opens up enough over time to where there is no more problem. If you day after day ram a 9 inch length 7 inch girth dick into a woman (who has already had sex dozens of times before), her box will stretch out over time and eventually be able to take a monster cock like that without any problem.

So then you are saying over time a women can take a 7 pound dick, please man. You sound like so many others who think just because a lady can have a baby means that she can eventually take anything in her vagina. You must not get lucky very often. My wife has had 4 babys by me and she still gets sore if we go at it too long, and all of her labors lasted longer than I can.

 

[wurzbach]

Ugh, I hate even thinking about this...but I have to say it simply because this is one of the big reasons why I feel inclined to continue.

She described her experience with one guy in an attempt to get me to stop and it completely backfired.

She said (and I quote) when she first saw his dick she got out of the car and left because it was so huge. She still ended up having sex with him. I know she was with two bigger guys (well I don't know if they were bigger than me, but I am convinced they are...) and she said she enjoyed it some but it ended up hurting.


So...if she really loves me more than anyone (she has said that) and has been with big guys before (one of which she initially was afraid of FFS), why isn't she willing for me to PE? If I am about the same size or bigger...just f'ing say so, but in all honesty she doesn't know. I feel horribly insecure about this and she doesn't understand at all.

She described one guy by showing the length against her forearm (from wrist to x) and when she did I was like either you are easily impressed or have no idea...because I was clearly bigger...but I am still insecure about it...

I will admit I have lingering self conscious issues. Anytime says I am big and muscular I shrug it off and point to someone else who is bigger and more muscular. Same goes with strength.

Intellectually knowing you are above average and believing it are two very different things for me.

 

[LilNudeDude]

To Wurzbach:
Ultimately it is YOUR body to do with as you please. However, when going into ANY relationship:

1) NEVER Lie or Deceive. Trust is the toughest thing to establish. It is the hardest thing to re-build. Depending on the person, once trust is broken, no amount of love will save the relationship.

2) A true relationship requires compromise, understanding, and growing TOGETHER.

If she is worried about you being too big, if you truly LOVE her, you will stop until you have had sex and KNOW what she can handle.

I have to ask. Please don't take this wrong. I by no means wish to be insulting. I believe anything is possible with due time and effort. On the long distance relationship issue:

Have you two met face to face?
How do you communicate?
How long distance are we talking?

I've been through good and bad in the same situation. You might want to consider taking one step at a time.

And to BCC: Seriously? Just because she can pass a baby, she can handle anything? My brother was 9 lbs 8.5 Oz at birth. My mother was all of 5ft 1in tall and not asian. EVERY woman is built different. But, I guarantee that experience IS NOT something my mother would care to go through on a daily basis. Do you know what an episiotomy is? Look it up. No offense intended. Take it as you will. But, your knowledge of the female anatomy is seriously lacking. You need to go do some reading. Sorry, but your statement is completely ridiculous.

 

[wurzbach]

It started at college, she is just away for the summer. We've done basically everything short of having sex, we both agreed it was too early to get that physical.

We communicate via texting and video chat.

 

[namsokiek]

Ugh, I hate even thinking about this...but I have to say it simply because this is one of the big reasons why I feel inclined to continue.

She described her experience with one guy in an attempt to get me to stop and it completely backfired.

She said (and I quote) when she first saw his dick she got out of the car and left because it was so huge. She still ended up having sex with him. I know she was with two bigger guys (well I don't know if they were bigger than me, but I am convinced they are...) and she said she enjoyed it some but it ended up hurting.


So...if she really loves me more than anyone (she has said that) and has been with big guys before (one of which she initially was afraid of FFS), why isn't she willing for me to PE? If I am about the same size or bigger...just f'ing say so, but in all honesty she doesn't know. I feel horribly insecure about this and she doesn't understand at all.

She described one guy by showing the length against her forearm (from wrist to x) and when she did I was like either you are easily impressed or have no idea...because I was clearly bigger...but I am still insecure about it...

I will admit I have lingering self conscious issues. Anytime says I am big and muscular I shrug it off and point to someone else who is bigger and more muscular. Same goes with strength.

Intellectually knowing you are above average and believing it are two very different things for me.

Dude, she's not with your for your dick. She's with you for your other qualities. (CAUTION: I'm about to be very blunt!) I doubt, however, that insecure whiner is one of those qualities. I'm almost 100% sure that her fondest memories of you are not of you sitting catatonic in the bathroom, staring at your dick, worrying if it is really, really big enough for her. I'll bet it is a time that you were out having fun with her and making her laugh.

I suggest you develop the qualities she finds most attractive about you and drop the insecure whiner. You'll both be happier for it.

 

[LilNudeDude]

It started at college, she is just away for the summer. We've done basically everything short of having sex, we both agreed it was too early to get that physical. We communicate via texting and video chat.

So you both are well aware of each others bodies and proportions. Don't you think you should trust her to know her own body and what she can handle?

Glad to hear you Video Chat. She obviously enjoys the face time. She cares about who you are now. Looking at you stats, you are WELL above the REAL average male size that MOST women are used to.

If want the relationship continue. You need to take her concerns seriously. You know now that you can make improvements, if necessary. If you are that in love with her, stop torturing yourself, and stop PE for now. Are willing to risk losing her?

Consider it carefully. if grow even bigger and it turns to be too uncomfortable for her, What will you do then? Once it is bigger you are stuck with.

Consider the results and/or potential consequences before proceeding further.

 

[Andros]

How small is this girl?