So, I recently quit porn and went through all these trials such as letting myself masturbate to pictures if i'm not going to watch porn, urges of just typing it in when I am bored, and finally realized that I shouldn't try to reason with myself and just quit cold turkey. I feel closer to God and have been starting to approach girls almost everyday when I can. I am successful and catch a few numbers more often than not, but I just don't feel a drive to be horny? I met a really good girl that I think might be my girlfriend but I am a virgin so I feel ashamed that I lack experience. However I will not turn down sex ever again in my life (ive turned down a few) just so that I can move on from feeling like this. My flaccid is embarrassing but my fully erect is proud. But I rarely get fully erect anymore! I just want the reliability of a healthy penis that will work when I want it to at its best. I am using bathmate 20 min every other day and using a tennis ball to loosen my pelvic floor. Any tips and advice?
Quitting porn ED
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When you finally find yourself in a healthy and mutually respectful real sexual relationship 98% of all these issues will automatically self-correct. Nurture that relationship with the girl you think might be your girlfriend. Let things evolve naturally.
Always feel free to turn down sex. It's healthy that you don't just leap at every opportunity - guys who do that are out of control and have other problems
Always feel free to turn down sex. It's healthy that you don't just leap at every opportunity - guys who do that are out of control and have other problems
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When you finally find yourself in a healthy and mutually respectful real sexual relationship 98% of all these issues will automatically self-correct. Nurture that relationship with the girl you think might be your girlfriend. Let things evolve naturally.
Always feel free to turn down sex. It's healthy that you don't just leap at every opportunity - guys who do that are out of control and have other problems
Always feel free to turn down sex. It's healthy that you don't just leap at every opportunity - guys who do that are out of control and have other problems
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That's very wise. I think everyone comes around to that insight many times in life.
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