Question for guys

[sekeris]

Have a girl or woman showed you any attention? For example, started talking with you or smiled at you or anything like that.

 

[GTO]

LOL! All the time! What's the gist of your question?

 

[NP97]

Yes. Is there a follow up question to that?

 

[sekeris]

Just asking. I was thinking and couldn't recall any time in my life when something like that happened.

 

[frb3]

Happens to me all the time. To the point that my wife sometimes hits me up long side the head, due to the attention of some woman.

 

[MrBigDick]

Have a girl or woman showed you any attention? For example, started talking with you or smiled at you or anything like that.

Yep.

 

[sekeris]

How often does that happen to you?

 

[NP97]

It happens to me when I talk to women. I'm a good dude and am just myself. Silly and a bit outrageous, but myself. I'm happy, they can see it... they smile back. I get mucho hugs from girls I don't even know well. It's just a matter of giving off a vibe... which I hadn't done until fairly recently. I found a girl I liked, she dumped my ass. I did a lot of thinking and figured out I would be myself... nothing more or less.
Makes you more confident... women like that.

 

[eternia]

Yeah women and men. It is my job to make people smile and talk to them. ^_^

 

[sekeris]

When I am myself, people seem to dislike me or even fear me.

 

[RockstarParkingDude]

it's definitely happened to you before, you just probably didn't notice cause you were thinking too much about your own self consciousness. it may have been from a girl you didn't find attractive - in fact thats more often the case as disinterest is very attractive. keep your chin up and start trying more often, women really are like fish - they are difficult to catch, but the more lines in the water the better your chances. also, you can't catch fish if you never get near the water.

 

[sssssteve]

you want to be assertive and confident but not intimidating and arrogant... slightly cocky but aware and respectful of boundaries. some people label me as an asshole, but others see me as being very decisive... but my true friends (dudes and chicks) know that there are not many limits as to how far I am willing to go out of the way for them.

I can be intimidating at first and/or possibly come off as a complete ass depending on the situation... I could end up having a conversation for an extended period of time. I am myself though... thats the key.

 

[sekeris]

it's definitely happened to you before, you just probably didn't notice cause you were thinking too much about your own self consciousness. it may have been from a girl you didn't find attractive - in fact thats more often the case as disinterest is very attractive. keep your chin up and start trying more often, women really are like fish - they are difficult to catch, but the more lines in the water the better your chances. also, you can't catch fish if you never get near the water.

Trying what? I don't want to annoy some girl that doesn't like me. If I was a girl I wouldn't like to be approached by a guy I don't like.

 

[MrBigDick]

It happens to me when I talk to women. I'm a good dude and am just myself. Silly and a bit outrageous, but myself. I'm happy, they can see it... they smile back. I get mucho hugs from girls I don't even know well. It's just a matter of giving off a vibe... which I hadn't done until fairly recently. I found a girl I liked, she dumped my ass. I did a lot of thinking and figured out I would be myself... nothing more or less.
Makes you more confident... women like that.

Exactly. If you're happy and positive, women sense that and are driven towards that.

 

[sekeris]

Exactly. If you're happy and positive, women sense that and are driven towards that.

No they don't. It must be something else.

 

[captainsaveaho]

No they don't. It must be something else.

Hahaha really?? You're absolutely wrong. How about next time you're out at a bar or any other social setting you try smiling at every girl you see...see how many smile back or come up to you and say something. Try to see it from a girl's point of view..would you rather talk to the sad lookin creepy dude in the corner by himself or the guy that looks like he's having a good time and smiling all night?

 

[TTBB]

Exactly. If you're happy and positive, women sense that and are driven towards that.

This is true.. its also true of what attracts men to women
if a person is a negative energy pit it pushes people away..
Even when you don't think you are giving off energy you are..so how you feel about yourself and the world does reflect out through your body language, expressions and eyes.
If you see a person who you are physically attracted too and they have hostility or a defeatist attitude or play complete victims it will make people step away(unless they can relate to the view point the person has of the world).

Ultimately people are looking for happiness, someone that will bring them up not down, someone who makes them feel good about themselves and the world they live in.

 

[sekeris]

Hahaha really?? You're absolutely wrong. How about next time you're out at a bar or any other social setting you try smiling at every girl you see...see how many smile back or come up to you and say something. Try to see it from a girl's point of view..would you rather talk to the sad lookin creepy dude in the corner by himself or the guy that looks like he's having a good time and smiling all night?

This is true.. its also true of what attracts men to women
if a person is a negative energy pit it pushes people away..
Even when you don't think you are giving off energy you are..so how you feel about yourself and the world does reflect out through your body language, expressions and eyes.
If you see a person who you are physically attracted too and they have hostility or a defeatist attitude or play complete victims it will make people step away(unless they can relate to the view point the person has of the world).

Ultimately people are looking for happiness, someone that will bring them up not down, someone who makes them feel good about themselves and the world they live in.

Wrong. I don't go around sad or angry or anyhting. I am acutally most of the day happy and in a good mood, I don't care about this stuff unless I'm here. But girls don't like me, maybe even the opposite, so it must be something else.

 

[Pirate]

When I am myself, people seem to dislike me or even fear me.

Why?

 

[Pirate]

And yes, women usually respond positively to me and frequently initiate contact.