Larger is now better for my wife!!!
Larger is now better for my wife!!!
I used to think that I was small due to comparing flaccid size of guys and mine in high school. I used to appear like the smallest of all! But my erect size used to be around average and at one time a girl commented, "How does all this penis get inside me, its big..." She was kinda small girl and at times I used to hurt her and we could stop. So I relaxed a bit but after I broke up with her, I got a lady who was by all dimensions bigger than me and after going for about 8 ejaculations in 24 hours in a row, she openly told me, "Yours is not big as to cause pain, I love your size". With that she went ahead and told me she has had sex with bigger penis but sex was just painful.
With that I kinda began asking girls after having sex what was the size of their previous partners. It just seems that most girls would settle for average as long as the sex is awesome. But I did not stop there.
When I hooked up with my current partner, it happened that she was rather too vocal with size and she described almost everything about her previous partner and despite her telling me that she used to hate sex with him due to his size, it pushed my insecurity over the roof and thus I began to actively search for penis enlargement information. It is a long story but it just made me think, "My size is not sufficient for her...." But I came to learn later, to my disappointment, that the whole issue of "Shower" and "Grower" used to be most contributing factor towards size issues. For one, my wife whose previous partner was a total shower does not even begin to understand how a 2.5 to 3 inches penis can grow to 6.5 inches when erect compared to a penis that is 5.5 to 6 inches soft growing to almost same size of around 6.5 or around there? Since when she did her own estimate she thought I would only attain 4 or utmost 5 inches
***Poof!!***
[[Showers may make growers appear smaller by the virtue of flaccid size if someone lacks the right knowledge]]
So I personally used to think all penis are growers and was thinking, If her previous partner flaccid was 5 inches then it would grow to 9 or 10 inches, since my flaccid of 3 inches grows to 6 inches!! (I was wrong, and we were wrong). So I used to think if a 9 inches penis used to go inside of her, then my 6 inches feels like nothing!! So after seeing this forum and going through the info, I started my journey to at least the famed 8 X 6 or more....But Since am normally a very observant person, I just vowed to observe my wife's reactions with my progress. Sure things started working positively, it is like she could feel every mm added to my penis and sex began to be more pleasurable to an extent I would get complements like, "I have never felt like that, you have fucked me very hard....I felt like you have totally filled me up inside there, like it was swollen in me....darl, be careful with your penis you might hurt me if you get stronger than that...it never used to be that hard am getting afraid...." etc etc
One day we were just having sex as usual and to my surprise, I could feel my glans touching something deep inside her and somehow with every touch of whatever it was, she went wild to almost speaking incomprehensible language. She even at times would hold me and press me into her, but it felt like my penis was reaching some end or something like that. Within another around 2 to 3 weeks, we had sex and was constantly hitting something deep inside her to an extent after that she told me, "My dear I feel sore deep inside me, I don't know why..." After searching this forum, it dawned upon me that a vagina is not an endless tunnel, but at some point we encounter something called, "Cervix" which when hit too hard, it could as well mean end the sex act due to pain. And just to try and experiment, I continued searching for more length and one time while having sex, I forgot and plunged in full speed and the next thing I knew I was being pushed out by my almost crying sweetheart, due to pain though.
We later had a long discussion and she told me that when I touch her cervix with my penis lightly, it gives her pleasure beyond description and at times triggers instant orgasm but more force and it makes sex painful. I am not even 8 inches, perhaps around 7 or 6.8 BP long depending on EQ! It seems my lady can't take an 8 inches since when she is not really aroused and she wishes to have sex all the same, she openly tells me, "Don't push it all in"....but when she is at her top arousal, she takes the whole length comfortably..like she can do with an extra 0.5 or 1 inch if at all I can manage to slide past the cervix as I see in some of the articles in this forum. She even told me, "You are the first guy to reach my cervix...."So I still wonder whether her estimate of her first bf were accurate or random estimate.
****I later told her that I did PE to try to get bigger to satisfy her more, and guess what...she was very happy about it I got the tightest hug I have ever gotten from a lady!! The thought of her having sex with a bigger penis than the previous one that I had aroused her so much she seemed to even lose self control over her desire for sex, she become wetter than usual and craved for it instantly. I got all manners of complements, sweet expressions, countless "I love you"...she would look at me and ask,"You went into all that trouble just to make me happy and love sex, you surely are the most wonderful guy on earth!!" She literally worshiped me! The whole idea that a penis can be enlarged was stranger than fiction to her, but comparing her previous sex with me and current sex life, she does produce so loud moans during sex especially when I push it into screwing her cervix, she literally cries out of pleasure to at times after sex she feels a bit embarrassed and avoids looking at me, but I reassure her, "Its ok, you are mine!!". She even began worrying if our neighbors hears her or not!! (But I have been told not to add too much length since even at my current length, there are times when she have trouble with it when I go ball deep....so guys who has the experience of sliding past the cervix to cul - de - sac, I would love to know...."
PE has literally transformed our sex life and made it more enjoyable. I later came to learn that if a guy has a large penis and keeps on causing pain to women, it is either because he does not know how to use it, or he just derives pleasure from hurting women. (Like my wife's previous guy used to insist on dry sex every time, thus easily making her sore even merely after first round of sex she even thought perhaps sex is meant to be like that, always painful for a woman and since she told me he was her first guy, she thought that if sex was ever to be done dry then that penis is simply too big for her. But after my PE and attaining almost an equal size by now, she has confidence that a larger penis if used properly is more pleasurable for sex especially when she is highly aroused and wants some real hard fucking!!***She even at times tell me.....Fuck me until I get a bit sore .... , personally I have had sex with my wife to an extent she broke out of lub after marathon sex and she literally told me to stop to avoid hurting her!!!) Even before PE I did hurt some girls, one to an extent of seeking medication due to pain that lasted for almost a week, but I later came to know it was due to lack of some knowledge in sex life. (Though women are different and I do know that some penis are way too large for normal women, but I think and I stand to be corrected, any penis that is 7 X 5.5 or less is not supposed to hurt any woman unless she is a virgin, provided that the women is both physically and psychologically aroused to her maximum).
For my wife, a penis that is able to both inflict some pain but used for pleasure seems very desirable, she even tells me, "I want to have some little fear for it, the kind associated with deep respect...." ..And that is where I am now, when she is not really aroused, she does wish that we go slow but when she is wildly aroused, she wants some real hard-core sex like I am tearing her vagina apart....women are funny and this is a mystery to me but I have been told so by several women. Does that imply a man with a large penis as long as he knows how to use it well stands to earn more respect from his woman? Guys I wish to know.
With that rather long story, I nullify the saying, "Size does not matter". To me and my lady it does. After all I am here to get bigger, stronger and healthier penis. Size matters as long as you use your size correctly.
I have had to scale down my goals a bit and use my wife as the measure of how much I should grow, since I do not plan to substitute her with another even if that means stopping adding more when she openly says, "That is more than enough!!". As of now, I am still willing to grow!!
Without even adding any size, anyone who is insecure about his size would benefit a lot from the information around this forum. To me, The whole realization that "Showers" and "Growers" exist was pretty enough to solve my initial insecurity. In fact, I no longer desire to be a shower anymore. I am content with being a grower.
Long live PE.