I have noticed a little better performance with thinner condoms but what ends up happening is that the condom gets so tight that it starts to hinder all things down there which is why I wear the Magnum XLs to keep that from happening. I guess since I've got a fuck buddy and I don't need to use a condom it is keeping me to desensitized.
Penis Length vs. Penis Endurance
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No and mainly because regular size condoms have been fitting too tightly, even magnums. However, magnum xls give me the room I need to not have circulation cut off but I still get numbed down. Im betting if I had to use a condom with my fuck buddy I wouldnt have this problem. I will have to try these feather lites you speak of though.
oh man.. my last relationship which was dysfunctional.. we fucked like rabbits... 6... 7 times a day.. for an hour or more... each time. g-d i miss that. she made me so hot
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I must be different from you guys. I don't LIKE to fuck for an hour. It gets boring, sore, dry, tiring, etc. I have fucked 21 times over 4 days once when I was taking DHEA but not over an hour of straight intercourse. Going a long time like 20 minutes is fine, and multiple times over several hours is absolutely great. But routinely over an hour of solid banging? I have slept with about 50 women and there were not too many who were into going for that long.
Wow, Nikki,
You and your husband must really love each other! I agree with other people who posted, mind over matter. What helps too is not to focus on cumming. If you focus on how long you last, you worry and end up coming fast. Keeping in shape is great too. When my girlfriend and I first met, we were both virgins. We were so in love with each other that we sexed for 10 hours straight, not including foreplay. I was in great shape back then
, but not now . If I wasn't so passionate for her, I could not have done that.I realized after doing kegels and masturbating a lot that holding off an orgasm is not what's important. I learned to recover quickly after I cum without losing my erection or drive. When me and my girl have sex, I usualy cum 6-7 times before my dick can't even move and goes into "repair mode" as I call it. I developed it by continuing to thrust while I cum and even after. After a while, my body learned that orgasm was not the end of the sex. So, even if I cum fast (30 secs or so), it doesn't matter, I just keep going. My GF likes that I cum fast though, boosts her ego and gives her something exciting to feel and watch.
So, I think that if you can't be superman like your husband (amazing guy), then we will just have to try and reduce our refractory period. Can anyone else elaborate more for me?
Wow, Nikki,
You and your husband must really love each other! I agree with other people who posted, mind over matter. What helps too is not to focus on cumming. If you focus on how long you last, you worry and end up coming fast. Keeping in shape is great too. When my girlfriend and I first met, we were both virgins. We were so in love with each other that we sexed for 10 hours straight, not including foreplay. I was in great shape back then
I realized after doing kegels and masturbating a lot that holding off an orgasm is not what's important. I learned to recover quickly after I cum without losing my erection or drive. When me and my girl have sex, I usualy cum 6-7 times before my dick can't even move and goes into "repair mode" as I call it. I developed it by continuing to thrust while I cum and even after. After a while, my body learned that orgasm was not the end of the sex. So, even if I cum fast (30 secs or so), it doesn't matter, I just keep going. My GF likes that I cum fast though, boosts her ego and gives her something exciting to feel and watch.
So, I think that if you can't be superman like your husband (amazing guy), then we will just have to try and reduce our refractory period. Can anyone else elaborate more for me?
Yes, I am lucky that he is in great shape. That is why I have been trying to pass this tidbit of information on to you guys because I have seen firsthand what being in shape can accomplish!
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I agree with Nikki -- I think being in good physical shape is hugely important to being able to accomplish what you want to in bed (and in life in general). I think is more important in sex than most people realize.
Nikki, Batwoman,
Thanks for the inspiration! Time for me to get back in shape.
Just a few quick questions,
1. Assuming that all of your man's body parts are in great shape, which body part turns you on the most? For example, my girlfriend loves to grab my butt.
2. What type of endurance are you referring too? How long he takes too cum, or how long can he thrust for as long as he can?
3. Are large muscles a huge turn on for a woman during sex? I know some women don't like hulky men in general; some prefer tall lanky guys.
Answer if you wish!
Thanks for the inspiration! Time for me to get back in shape.
Just a few quick questions,
1. Assuming that all of your man's body parts are in great shape, which body part turns you on the most? For example, my girlfriend loves to grab my butt.
2. What type of endurance are you referring too? How long he takes too cum, or how long can he thrust for as long as he can?
3. Are large muscles a huge turn on for a woman during sex? I know some women don't like hulky men in general; some prefer tall lanky guys.
Answer if you wish!
Yeah Nikki I was thinking about this too. I'm in really good shape, but I bet I can't last more than 5 minutes during intercourse. I mean hell, 4 minutes max usually on a blowjob nowadays. How does your man do it?!
1) I love my husband's broad shoulders!
2) Both, I think they go together. A guy has to be in great physical shape to be able to last 30+ minutes in the first place. Then, of course, he has to have the ability to not cum until he gets physically tired.
3) When I am in my zone, I am not thinking about muscles at this time!
When you say you are in good shape, do you mean as far as lifting weights or cardio? There's a huge difference. To be able to last a really long time in bed, a guy has to be in great cardiovascular shape, i.e. running, riding the exercycle, stair stepping, etc. As far as cumming in about 5 minutes, have you thought about masturbating maybe 30 minutes or so before you engage in sexual activity? I know my husband can last much longer after he cums once.
Well, I'm in football shape. I don't do a lot of cardio; my running consists of short bursts sprints and agility work to build up fast-twitch muscle fibers. If I did more long distance running (for cardio purposes), my body would accumulate more slow-twitch fibers and would actually make me less conditioned on the football field. I can run sprints, pro-shuttles, etc. until the night comes...I mean I can run a mile in under 7 minutes, probably 6:30, but that's not that impressive. I'd probably pass out afterwards too haha
I have tried masturbating before sexually activity; the result (for me) is a much weaker erection? Very weird. In fact, my whole body is weird. Oh well!
I have tried masturbating before sexually activity; the result (for me) is a much weaker erection? Very weird. In fact, my whole body is weird. Oh well!
Usually the more pussy a man gets, the less quickly he will come. Go get more pussy and you will shoot later.
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Ya have to agree with bert here.Dont forget he had a few.So a full bladder will always hold it off.Plus he is probably not too excited,the same old same old..Sorry but thats how it is.An empty bladder with something different and 10 min tops sweety.He was just doin his job...
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Ya have to agree with bert here.Dont forget he had a few.So a full bladder will always hold it off.Plus he is probably not too excited,the same old same old..Sorry but thats how it is.An empty bladder with something different and 10 min tops sweety.He was just doin his job...
having a bladder full of drink does decrease sensitivity hence the longer lasting times, and i agree with Nikki, once youve cum once you last longer the time after, been there, done that got the t-shirt etc.. and dave, it doesnt matter who your with, ive been married for almost 10 years now and its never a case of "same old, same old" so i dont think its fair saying nikkis husband wouldnt last as long if he was banging somebody else instead. fitness is an important part of it, nobody wants somebody gasping for air and having an asthma attack after 5 mins in the sack and if it was entirly drink related would he be able to get "hard"? i know a few lasses who've complained about meeting lads on a night out and they've been too pi**ed to get it up.
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"He is probably not too excited, the same old same old..."
I'm sorry man but that's really insulting to Nikki. When you're in love, it doesn't get old.
Actually, I take that back, I'm not sorry. It's getting worse and worse on here; people need to think sh*t through before they post it or we're gonna start to lose great posters like Nikki and baybabe.
I second that, RIB like i said in the post above and its disrespectful and there's no place for it on this site. I personnally don't know Nikki but she's put some damn good stuff on here. Its a shame that a minority ruin the site for the majority of us users
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Your story was inspirational, Nikki. I wish you and your guy many more love-making sessions like the one you described. Dave strikes me as the "slam, bam, thank you ma'am," type. He probably never heard of the word called "intimacy."
While I know that you can work on controlling your stamina, I have done and continue to do it myself. Anyone that can fuck nonstop for an hour or more has to have some sort of physical or genetic gift. I havent been able to find any real data on male stamina, but from what I have read and heard from the average person, males and females included, any man that can hold off his orgasm for 15 minutes, no matter how he does it, has great stamina.
