Hi everyone, been lurking the forums for the past few weeks and figured that I may aswell register and ask a few questions. 
Not so much on the physical aspect of PE, but more on the psychological side of things. Hopefully I can find someone who can relate to me on my problems.
I'm just another one of the many men who's suffering from this awful problem. I do have a healthy love life when it comes to getting with women, my only issue is actually doing the deed itself. I can last for a pretty long time when it comes to foreplay (after a few beers!), however, actually having sex is a huge psychological issue to me. My first sexual experience was spectacularly bad, cumming before entry - and since then i've became so worked up with the whole thing, that I repeat the same mistake over and over again. Unfortunately, I've now gotten to the point where I tend to avoid sex altogether. It's all a bit depressing, really!
How do you guys deal with it mentally? The thing is, I think my issue is almost hard wired into my brain now. I tend to get worked up too quick, leading to me blowing my load way too soon.
I suppose being open about it with a partner would have a good effect, although it's just so hard to talk about!
In your personal experiences, would you normally tell your partner (even one night stands) about your issue - before having sex? I haven't ever really had the guts to tell anyone about it, and afterwards I definitely look like a bit of a fool. - It all seems like going around in a vicious circle really...
Edit: - I was also wondering, has anyone ever overcome PE (Psychologically) through using viagra? I can imagine it would give you a bit of a confidence boost?
Cheers in advance for any input.
Not so much on the physical aspect of PE, but more on the psychological side of things. Hopefully I can find someone who can relate to me on my problems.I'm just another one of the many men who's suffering from this awful problem. I do have a healthy love life when it comes to getting with women, my only issue is actually doing the deed itself. I can last for a pretty long time when it comes to foreplay (after a few beers!), however, actually having sex is a huge psychological issue to me. My first sexual experience was spectacularly bad, cumming before entry - and since then i've became so worked up with the whole thing, that I repeat the same mistake over and over again. Unfortunately, I've now gotten to the point where I tend to avoid sex altogether. It's all a bit depressing, really!
How do you guys deal with it mentally? The thing is, I think my issue is almost hard wired into my brain now. I tend to get worked up too quick, leading to me blowing my load way too soon.
I suppose being open about it with a partner would have a good effect, although it's just so hard to talk about!
In your personal experiences, would you normally tell your partner (even one night stands) about your issue - before having sex? I haven't ever really had the guts to tell anyone about it, and afterwards I definitely look like a bit of a fool.
- It all seems like going around in a vicious circle really...Edit: - I was also wondering, has anyone ever overcome PE (Psychologically) through using viagra? I can imagine it would give you a bit of a confidence boost?
Cheers in advance for any input.
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