pe and a healthy sex life

[rollingthunder]

How in the hell do you guys manage to continue pe in a healthy relationship with frequent sex?

First lets consider time.
Mine breaks down like this with the order constantly changing.
Work, care for my children, relentlessly fuck my woman like the cock hungry little slut she is.
I've never liked to pe in the shower, and so many of our showers are together. I simply can't find time to get this done.

Issue number two, penis health.
I seem to be one of these guys that cannot pe with the occasional minor injury.

When my lady and I first started up, like our second weekend love fest, I had apparently gotten a bit rough earlier in the week and the thing was useless. Took nearly a week before it wasn't turtled and basically like a hard flaccid. Just felt wrong. Clearly injured. Obviously, I couldn't allow that again.

I've been at pe for well over a year, but never able to keep a schedule that allows proper gains or good conditioning.
I would do some hanging if I could ever manage a good six months of something like the JP90.
Right now my cock has one job. Fuck my lady as often as she deserves. I don't know how you guys do it.

 

[Mr. Stang]

Maybe thats what you should focus on then. If youre satisfying your woman, whats the need to feel like you have to PE? If my dick worked perfectly fine and i didnt HAVE to pe, then thats what i would be doing.

 

[rollingthunder]

Just personal improvement.
She loves my cock, but much of that is because I know what do, and she loves me.
Her anatomy allows her to take and enjoy much much more.
I see no reason not to give her more. If I can just find a way to get it done.

 

[I Will]

Well some of us are college kids, others of us are even HS kids, then you have the single people who vary in age from 20 all the way to 50 or maybe even older. You have a lot on your plate as is with kids, work, and a woman who loves to take it. Personally if I were you I would have a tough time finding a schedule to PE as well.

 

[rollingthunder]

Indeed.

 

[Mr. Stang]

Sounds to me you have three options. Stop having great sex with your wife to fulfill this superficial dream of having a bigger penis to fill her up, continue enjoying your sex life how it is, or find a routine thats less time consuming and strinuous so you dont hurt yourself wich probably wont let you see gains as fast as you would like.

 

[rollingthunder]

You shouldn't make assumptions.
My confidence and security are firmly in place.
You can call it a superficial dream. I call it just another thing I would do to be my best for myself and my woman.

I was simply curious if this is something others have run into. How did they handle it.
Also known as a conversation.

 

[Jakebfs]

I understand the time constraints, but you can find an extra half hour in the day somewhere. If its hitting your sex life why don't you get up half an horu earlier and PE then, you'll have the whole day to recover before a night of sex. Seriously just a 5-10 minute warm up and 25 minutes of stretching is all you need for length, at least in the first year or so (yes yes everyone is different). You don't need to strain yourself, if you're getting issues or injuries you're trying too hard, only go to your limits, pull or jelq that bit lighter.

Also, make sure you're doing kegels, you could even get your woman to turn something sexual into an edging session, things to improve bloodflow and EQ, because a bigger dick is harder to keep up especially if you're going at it like rabbits.

An alternative could be an extender during work.

 

[rollingthunder]

Those are all good suggestions.
I've tried most of them.
I already get up at 5-6 am and go to sleep between midnight and 2 am...so...fuck man. I've got to sleep a little.

Some days I find the time. Some days I don't. That's the problem. No consistancy.

The injury thing is weird. It feels fine to me, but a couple times ability to achieve an erection suffered for days.

I've always kegeled. My whole life. I actually had to stop. I was having pre e problems. To many involuntary kegals during sex. Had to get some balance back in the pelvic floor.

Also, it's not like the woman and I just have night time sex. We have problems. We fuck for hours and it could be any time of day. Whenever there are no children around and we aren't at work. The unpredictable nature is awesome, but I can't afford to have a worn out unit.

I'm sure there is a way to get it done. Sure as hell ain't easy though.
I guess those long sessions of fucking is some pretty good edging.

 

[Jakebfs]

If you're having that kind of consitancy problems then I don't think you'll be able to get a full routine in, sounds like you have a busy ass lifestyle. And definately don't give up all that great sex for PE.

One possible thing you could do is include PE as part of foreplay. I think the Looking4more's did this, where the mrs would actually help stretching or jelqing or whatever, women can find it a turn on, and if you have time for hour long sessions then you could easily do half an hour of PE with her before sex- You're already going to be lubed up and naked haha.

Otherwise an extender probably suits your time constraints if you're able to wear one in semi-pivacy.

 

[rollingthunder]

I'm really intrigued by the idea of working it into sex. We are as kinky as you get, soIt's not like it would be...weird or anything. Ha.

 

[Robberman]

Does she know you're doing pe? Because if she does, like a few women if these forums she'd happily help you exercise or she may even pick up some chores so you can have the time to do it

 

[Donnatello]

I would tell her dude, maybe she would be supportive and get involved with the whole thing. As far as reducing sexual performance go's then as long as you take it slow you shouldn't be getting any problems. Half an hour a day is probably all you need...surely you can find that!?

 

[rollingthunder]

I'm not opposed to telling her or even having her help.

Maybe after a long session when the thing is practically dead, it would be warmed up and limber. Sounds like a good time.