Honesty and a sense of humor about one's shortcomings always works best, I find.
TTBB is right on the money in suggesting that girls usually interpret all aspects of male sexual arousal and orgasm as a reflection on themselves. If he has ED problems, she thinks it's because he doesn't like her enough (she's not pretty, she's not good). If he ejaculates prematurely, it's because she's really hot. If he has delayed ejaculation, again that is a reflection on her sexual skills.
Almost right on the money. If a guy shoots his load quicker than he would have liked to, it's because he
thinks she's really hot or the situation is really hot, which is all that really matters anyway. That means the girl found a guy who thinks she's hot. How can that be bad?
Look, there is no absolute yardstick about hotness or sexyness or anything subjective. You could line up 10 guys in a row and 6 of of them would say a particular girl looks hot, 3 would say she doesn't, and 1 would be gay.
The takeaway is that ladies should just go with the situation and quit basing her self-worth on any one opinion. If the guy you happen to be with doesn't think you're hot, move on to someone who does, it's not the end of the world. Just like if you have a meal that you don't enjoy at a particular restaurant that others highly recommend, you move on and try another restaurant.
I still agree that a guy who shoots quicker than he wants to is really REALLY turned on. How is that a bad thing? Just let him recover for a few minutes, then grab him by the ears, shove him down between your legs, and let him just go to town for a while. He will definitely last longer this time! Turn lemons into lemonade.
I also agree that honesty works MUCH better than the complications arising from tall tales. Sometimes we create our own problems.
