Well. Years ago, in a Pegym so far away, there were actually women members. Most were wives of the members back then, but there was one stand out. She was, “The One”: TPW stood for The Passionate Wife, and, she was all that and more. If you look for her now she is listed as a senior member, assuming she hasn’t been deleted. But, back in the day, maybe 8-9 years ago she was an admin. Her knowledge and advise were unparalleled. Assuming they haven’t been deleted just search for TPW. She had a blog site outside of this forum. She helped me quite a bit with my relationship with my wife.