New girl, same old dick. Thoughts appreciated.

[robzor]

i've stopped wanking for weeks before, it makes a tiny difference to eq and increases my libido, nothing amazing though.

breakthrough today though- took half a v last night with the girl, got a bj. then woke up this morning with a boner. then about an hour later i popped another one! think it could be to do with the viagra though, but still encouraging.

the psychological component of my ED is starting to improve. i think getting comfy with 1 girl, and getting alot of sexual attention from her is reducing the stress associated with sexual situations and lowers my stress levels.

Also, this morning when I started getting a boner, i actually ENJOYED the feeling, which in turn, encouraged more sexual feelings and blood flow into my dick, which felt good again, which then caused more arousal and blood flow like a positive cycle of reinforcement. Whereas before, as soon as I started getting a boner, the sensation of it caused me to feel an underlying tension, which I think shut down the process of becoming aroused, which caused my dick to start going down, which caused more tension and worry, which shut my hornyness down more ... like a negative reinforcement.

On the physical side I find the massaging/squeezing is causing my dick to be softer and more open to blood flow. Everytime i notice it's a bit hard i squeeze, massage it which softens it up again.

also the PC muscle excersises I think are causing my half erections to 'hold' for longer without as much stimulation. im kegelling full strength doing between 25-50 a day.

good signs, still going to visit uro though.

 

[dexter68569]

@roborz..i think i am also in the same boast as yours. I get morning wood , and sometimes it last longer. But the moment i stand up , i start to loose my EQ. Even while masturbation if i keep providing physical strokes , it will be hard but if i remove my strokes it will disapear like anything. This bugs me, but i am doing my 90 days JP routine and trying not to think too much.

 

[robzor]

Just got back from the Urologist.

He checked my balls, they are a good size apparently?! he also checked my dick and pulses and said it's all fine.

I am getting a full blood test done which I get the results of in 3 months.

Apparently, if there is no hormonal imbalances then my problem is psychological. There will be no other tests done!

I explained I wanted a full pyhsical test with the ultracavernoscopy or whatever it's called and apparently he had never heard of it and there are no tests available other than the physical examination he gave me.

I'm from the UK and he said to bring in the supporting literature to back up these 'mysterious' tests that uroglogy clinics can do, that are probably isolated to the US and cost a lot of money.

Is he just fobbing me off or what? I really was hoping for some concrete results based on physical tests but it looks like there are none available in the UK. Either that or he refuses to waste NHS money on a 31 yr old, because it 'must be in my head.

At least I got prescribed some 20mg Cialis which is awesome! Pity it only masks the issue.

 

[dexter68569]

@robzor I am from UK myself and even i went to seemy gp. he checkedme and said that my problem is in my head. am going off porn and i will also try to reduce my masturbation routine. Let see how it works out.

 

[Pegasus]

Funny how many aliments once thought of as head issues ,are now accepted as physical.

 

[Pegasus]

Try to cut down to at the most once every five days and take it from there.

Why? I keep hearing anti masturbation stuff, but the explanations are unconvincing and seem to be puesdo religious.

 

[GTO]

Why? I keep hearing anti masturbation stuff, but the explanations are unconvincing and seem to be puesdo religious.

I think it stems from the fact that a lot of guys tend to beat the shot outta their cocks when they masturbate and end up getting really desensitized and even damage themselves - gripping too hard, handling roughly, etc. If you're going to masturbate and you're having sensation issues, get an "assistant" like a Fleshlight.