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Very outstanding comment.............makes so much sense.....I aiming for a 8.5x7 and people think that I'm crazy:rolleyes:....if dudes can get pound with that, how bout woman...???
Men don't have vaginas for an 8.5x7 penis to fit into...
 

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I think that this will be a great place to exchange information, learn from each other, maybe break down some stereotypes ( I've always hated stereotypying) and at the same time have a laugh or two. Good luck with the group!
 

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I don't think an 8.5x7 would fit in a vagina or an asshole, male or female.........

Says who???????? Theirs guys bigger than that who's got it in......and not just porn......
 

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I don't think an 8.5x7 would fit in a vagina or an asshole, male or female.........

Neither do I, well not the normal population outside of porn. Was just trying to show, in a nice way, how it's kinda stupid to think a woman can handle something because a man can.
 

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I think just like women there would be a huge variety in what they could take and handle...and what they enjoy.
not all gay men have anal sex.. so i am going to assume not all gay men would want a huge dong "pounding" them.. i would also guess few males would be able to take a 8.5 x7 penis in their mouth.
 

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I think just like women there would be a huge variety in what they could take and handle...and what they enjoy.
not all gay men have anal sex.. so i am going to assume not all gay men would want a huge dong "pounding" them.. i would also guess few males would be able to take a 8.5 x7 penis in their mouth.

Yep. Yep. Yep. Actually, contrary to what you might believe, I just heard of a study that said that the majority of gay couples actually don't have anal sex. I didn't hear the specifics on why or why not.
 

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Stereotypes should be avoided. It could even be possible that a gay couple don't have sex at all but just love each other. Wow, love what an interesting concept!
 

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WEll, i don't know, i guess its ok to have a gay/bi forum.
 

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Says who???????? Theirs guys bigger than that who's got it in......and not just porn......

Bigger than 8.5x7??? Sorry, not buyin' that.........even the biggest guys in porn aren't sporting a 7" girth.
 

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Let's get this back on topic, guys. Argue out the porn-star-cock-size thing again on one of the hundreds of threads we already have on that subject!
 

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let's get this back on topic, guys. Argue out the porn-star-cock-size thing again on one of the hundreds of threads we already have on that subject!

lmao!
 

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I have a question for our gay members. Just out of curiosity, do gays care about penis size when having sex with another male?

or let me put it this way, does penis size play any role in gay sex?

I hope this is not offensive to anyone as I am just curious.
Dick size gets talked about more on the gay scene than the straight scene, and it comes up more in conversation, comparing cock size in foreplay and its often talked about in hookups. Some gay guys are real size queens who will only be interested in cock size, but there are many gay men who see cocks as part of the whole person. Some size queens see it as a real challenge in the biggest cocks that they can take. One lad I know practices with some huge dildos, and will drive three hours to be taken by a big cock.

Cock size doesn't make a difference as to who is the top and who is the bottom, think pitcher & catcher, but if one guy is quite tight and the other is very big, then the hung guy may end up taking if they are both versatile. Versatile is where a guy is sometimes a top and sometimes is a bottom.
 

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Dick size gets talked about more on the gay scene than the straight scene, and it comes up more in conversation, comparing cock size in foreplay and its often talked about in hookups. Some gay guys are real size queens who will only be interested in cock size, but there are many gay men who see cocks as part of the whole person. Some size queens see it as a real challenge in the biggest cocks that they can take. One lad I know practices with some huge dildos, and will drive three hours to be taken by a big cock.

Cock size doesn't make a difference as to who is the top and who is the bottom, think pitcher & catcher, but if one guy is quite tight and the other is very big, then the hung guy may end up taking if they are both versatile. Versatile is where a guy is sometimes a top and sometimes is a bottom.

Oh man, this gay friend of mine told me the terminology............is it "passive" for the guy who's on the bottom? And I know what a "bear" is......
 

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if one guy is quite tight and the other is very big, then the hung guy may end up taking if they are both versatile.

When I was a lot younger I used to think of the hung guy as being more aggressive (i.e. top). Actually, I now know quite a few well-endowed guys who either prefer to bottom OR their partners just can't take them and they end up "becoming bottoms."
 

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I dunno, I have to chuckle reading this. I find that most of the really hung guys are usually total bottoms in the gay world. what a waste! lol but seriously, since I came into this forum I have felt that there is a general acceptance in here and no real judgement on one another, so that's what keeps me coming back. (before the gay/bi group). I feel very welcomed in the main arena and feel no compulsion to pull away into a sub group.
as far as the gay/ dick size question, I have to agree. A lot of gay men are size queens. usually the younger men though, and I'm finding now that I am more middle aged, it's less of a concern, and more of a "more than a mouthful is a waste" attitude.
 

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I dunno, I have to chuckle reading this. I find that most of the really hung guys are usually total bottoms in the gay world. what a waste! lol but seriously, since I came into this forum I have felt that there is a general acceptance in here and no real judgement on one another, so that's what keeps me coming back. (before the gay/bi group). I feel very welcomed in the main arena and feel no compulsion to pull away into a sub group.
as far as the gay/ dick size question, I have to agree. A lot of gay men are size queens. usually the younger men though, and I'm finding now that I am more middle aged, it's less of a concern, and more of a "more than a mouthful is a waste" attitude.

I'm more middle aged as well (God that just sounds bad but it beats the alternative) and I find myself viewing things in much the same way............that many things are less of a concern than they were in my 20's and even 30's. By 40, you almost don't give a fuck anymore, you just go with the flow...lol
 

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im not a very active poster on this forum. but wanted to say im proud to be gay and its nice to see the support!
 

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Oh man, this gay friend of mine told me the terminology............is it "passive" for the guy who's on the bottom? And I know what a "bear" is......
Yeah, Passive = bottom and active = top. Bears = big older men with hair, cubs = young bears, twinks = young slim boys without much hair, chickens = young twinks. There are lots of terms for people on the scene. I think gay guys are a lot simpler when it comes to sex and hookups. They know what they want, people can get labelled and they get laid pretty quick.

When I was a lot younger I used to think of the hung guy as being more aggressive (i.e. top). Actually, I now know quite a few well-endowed guys who either prefer to bottom OR their partners just can't take them and they end up "becoming bottoms."
Aggression, being hung and sexual role don't really match up from what ive seen. Its one of the big misconceptions that people have about gay relationships. Powertops are the aggressive tops who can be quite brutal, but there are even a few aggressive bottoms who demand their tops to "service" them.
 

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A lot of gay men are size queens. usually the younger men though, and I'm finding now that I am more middle aged, it's less of a concern, and more of a "more than a mouthful is a waste" attitude.

I'm more middle aged as well (God that just sounds bad but it beats the alternative) and I find myself viewing things in much the same way............that many things are less of a concern than they were in my 20's and even 30's. By 40, you almost don't give a fuck anymore, you just go with the flow...lol

Maybe cock size for gay guys is a bit like breast size for straight guys. Some people get turned on by it throughout life, but in teens they get you excited. Maybe its to do with raging hormones. If you take a group of straight lads in their early teens, they will be unable to keep their eyes off a pair of bouncing breasts in a bikini.