How does a man get multiple orgasms? I feel like it's not the same as a woman's multiple orgasms
44yr old monogamous male reporting lol....
I've been married for roughly 25 years; we are eachithers only sexual partners and my wife has been having multiples for 15-ish years, and since then I have begun having the occasional second orgasm; I never had multiples until she started.
I speculate that the novelty of watching her climax repeatedly after I climaxed, plays a role, as I'm very visual.
We also use the "she comes first" approach and I'm essentially "edging" during her first dozen or so orgasms; once she tells me to cum, she typically has her strongest climaxes and it's simply arousing to witness; watching her writhe and grimace out of breath is a sight to behold. Additionally, she's typically clenching her PC muscles hard and pulling me in deep against her cervix; this new feeling, coupled with the spectacle of her climaxes really increases my already powerful arousal.. If we've taken a few days off and I'm good and ,"full", I've got nearly a 50/50 shot of having a second orgasm. Regardless of the delay, be it 3-5 seconds or 3-5 minutes, all of my orgasms include ejaculation, although each release gets progressively smaller. There are times that I've pulled out after a second, straddled her and she's stroked me with her hands to a third and a minute or two later, I can slip on one of my favorite strokers (Tenga spiral "pixel") and crank out a 4th. This is fairly rare, and 4th orgasms happen but a handful of times per year. When that level of eroticism is reached, I have had full body orgasms (FBO) too. I have only experienced the FBO's 3x in the past year, but the common threads included the following:
*Waiting 2-3 days without an ejaculation.
*Fantasy and visualization, especially if she dresses sexy that day.
*Teasing/foreplay in the hours leading up to the be encounter (she often "tickles"/teases me under a blanket when we watch a movie).
*Good hydration, as I have a massive ejaculation and that in turn arouses me more.
*Edging for 20-30 minutes once the more direct stimulation begins.
*Oral edging in between manual stimulation with her hands. The oral is also very "novel" for me, as she only does this once every other week or so, as my 5-1/2"- 5-3/4" girth makes her struggle and gag. Oddly, the subtle gags and gasps, along with light, but unavoidable teeth scraping are just the right combination to launch my arousal to new levels.
I typically try to time my climax on these days to when she's sucking my head, then I lift her chin to signal my pending deluge (she doesn't want it in her mouth) and she then twists my frenulum firmly while holding my ball sack back TIGHTLY.
This combination of foreplay and edging techniques, combined with the novel stimulus of fellatio, and the sight of my first massive shot, are just what the Dr ordered.
My best FBO was earlier this summer and had her fearing that I was in a seizure. I was flopping around like a fish as the continued to stroke me and if it weren't for her inquiries into my well-being and my need to reply, I believe they could have been even stronger. We're about to incorporate some sounding and prostate play into the mix too, as I feel that the novelty of those new sensations could be effective in pushing me to new levels of pleasure.
My wife jokes that somebody should study me for, "science", but we're still not able to recreate FBo's more than once every few months. FWIW, the "big one", as in my best FBO, did include ejaculation too, but it became a mere trickle by 15-20 seconds in.
I hope that provides some insight; were still learning, so hopefully I'll be able to refine the process as we log more experience!
Horseman1978
