touche.
but maybe the reason that these girls arent flocking to you (if they aren't), is the way your going about already thinking about things?
going into a battle, thinking you already lost, is in no way going to win you the war.
Lol. No, my previous posts were in no way reflective of my life, rather, the life of anonymous {plural}. I do pretty good with the ladies.
On terms of dating, your views may very well be true,
however in the clubs, women are their for the same reason that you are, they want to fuck, no doubt about it.
I find that women (the ones that arent party girls, and who actually have a brain on their shoulders)
are open, hell, they LOVE when I guy comes at them with something different, something that not every guy is offering them.
Forget about saying 'hi', walk up and tell your cat is the re-incarnation of richard nixon.
make it unique.
Yea, in the clubs where the majority is passed drunk and wanting to have sex, no one is really going to be picky about who they hook up with. But, how about a different scenario? Your walking down the street and you see an attractive woman. You walk up to her and start talking. BUT wait. Before you finish your introductory, she says your not her type. This is what was in reference in my former posts.
An everyday situation, where you plan on getting a phone number or a date perhaps. Getting a blowjob or whatever is easy. You can get that anywhere. Building a relationship and getting a woman to take you seriously (and then getting sex!) is whats hard. And, sadly, it's even harder for ugly guys. It just doesn't feel right when a woman just gives you sex. It feels alot better to me, to know that I won it or earned it, so to speak.
This is why, if I were given the choice to keep my looks but lose my size, or lose my looks and keep my size (or possibly even a bigger size)...I would not chose the latter.
Edit: But let me just say this. I think that size is very important and in most cases, play's a vital role in whether you get the girl or not. I just don't think that size alone triumphs over looks, personal hygeine, fitness, personality and alot of other things women find aesthetically pleasing in a man.
If a guy is attractive, fit, has a good personallity and happens to have a large penis (not too large of course), yes, most likely he will get the woman every time. But, if his size is the only positive about him, most likely, he won't find too many women other than sluts who will sleep with anyone. But you don't need a large size to get a slut, so I guess that attribute is pointless in the end.