Men vs women idea on what they consider a big unit

[BigO]

But every american does love guns..

Not every American, they are only needed because if they took them from us then the only ones who would have them would be criminals. I do not like guns at all, they are dangerous.

 

[Ravenously]

not every American, they are only needed because if they took them from us thn the only ones who would have them would be criminals. I do not like guns at all, they are dangerous.

And the Government, but I supose that's redundent.

 

[ThomasJohnThomas]

What I find really funny about this whole size issue is how small the units of measure are that we are talking about. Seriously, a difference of 1/2" or even 1" really isn't that big at all! In fact, I don't see how a woman would be able to tell the difference between a 7.5" length inside of them or an 8" length inside of them - its just such a small difference.
I would even venture to say that if their arousal level was very high and they were with a man with a 7" penis, versus if their arousal level was lower and they were with a man with an 8" penis - that the man with the 7" penis would feel larger to them because of the arousal level being higher (assuming relatively similar girth).


When you look at it this way, its probably pretty hard to tell the difference between anyone that is within the normal average range. This goes to show the phrase "its how you use it" does carry a lot of weight - if you use it effectively and you are an excellent lover, you will probably feel bigger and more satisfying than what your stats tell.

Of course they can`t tell the difference. We obsess too much with numbers. Girls don`t think in numbers when they see a dick. It is big or it`s not and that is all relative to each girl.

 

[BigO]

What I find really funny about this whole size issue is how small the units of measure are that we are talking about. Seriously, a difference of 1/2" or even 1" really isn't that big at all! In fact, I don't see how a woman would be able to tell the difference between a 7.5" length inside of them or an 8" length inside of them - its just such a small difference.
I would even venture to say that if their arousal level was very high and they were with a man with a 7" penis, versus if their arousal level was lower and they were with a man with an 8" penis - that the man with the 7" penis would feel larger to them because of the arousal level being higher (assuming relatively similar girth).

When you look at it this way, its probably pretty hard to tell the difference between anyone that is within the normal average range. This goes to show the phrase "its how you use it" does carry a lot of weight - if you use it effectively and you are an excellent lover, you will probably feel bigger and more satisfying than what your stats tell.

You are correct and even the girth isnt going to change it much if at all, if yu make her hot the she is hot, hot for you and no one else

 

[islander]

I remember a boyfriend I had had a super small mouth. I have a wide mouth with big lips. Both these qualities were starring us in the face. Yet we still dated and guess what we kissed at every far gin possible chance and it was good

 

[Closed039]

The above seems to fly in the face of the common knowledge spread about here that women can detect the most minute changes, a view that I have seen promoted on multiple occasions.

 

[duppy]

What I find really funny about this whole size issue is how small the units of measure are that we are talking about. Seriously, a difference of 1/2" or even 1" really isn't that big at all! In fact, I don't see how a woman would be able to tell the difference between a 7.5" length inside of them or an 8" length inside of them - its just such a small difference.
I would even venture to say that if their arousal level was very high and they were with a man with a 7" penis, versus if their arousal level was lower and they were with a man with an 8" penis - that the man with the 7" penis would feel larger to them because of the arousal level being higher (assuming relatively similar girth).

When you look at it this way, its probably pretty hard to tell the difference between anyone that is within the normal average range. This goes to show the phrase "its how you use it" does carry a lot of weight - if you use it effectively and you are an excellent lover, you will probably feel bigger and more satisfying than what your stats tell.

Wouldnt say that with girth 1/2 is a big difference & 1 inch is night and day

 

[Ravenously]

I remember a boyfriend I had had a super small mouth. I have a wide mouth with big lips. Both these qualities were starring us in the face. Yet we still dated and guess what we kissed at every far gin possible chance and it was good

Mmmm. I love a woman with a wide mouth and big lips, very sexy. Look at Liv Tyler, she has Steven Tyler's mouth but on her it looks great.

 

[islander]

I grew up with hairy men. So I liked hairy men. I dated a man with no hair anywhere. I loved it.

A lover had a deformity. I didn't know for months. When I saw it I wasn't freaked out. I already was so into him I loved it. It was part of him.

I had a medical treatment that caused a skin problem. I never let anyone see or touch the area. My last partner was so real so honest he made me feel comfortable. He saw the area and touched it.

I work thru fears and insecurities. We all do.
My hope is no man ever thinks you will lose or not get a woman because of your insecurity. you must own it.

 

[islander]

Peskep tic
when your kids are born they are tracked on height weight and head size. Percentile of growth to national average. As moms we want them in the 90% range like its some achievement Weird.
Not one of my friends or family were under 80%. Yet no one takes odds on that. Doubted the tracking system. Never thought of this til now.

Hmmm

 

[Going411x7]

Women are into feelings and security. They don't normally think in terms of cock size.
If you have lips that can suck a clitoris, and a tongue to insert into a vagina, I
guarantee you that you will succeed in satisfying most every woman. I would place
lips first, tongue, second, fingers third, and penis last (or a combination thereof)
in thrilling and satisfying most women.

 

[funkylemonade]

Women are into feelings and security. They don't normally think in terms of cock size.
If you have lips that can suck a clitoris, and a tongue to insert into a vagina, I
guarantee you that you will succeed in satisfying most every woman. I would place
lips first, tongue, second, fingers third, and penis last (or a combination thereof)
in thrilling and satisfying most women.

I concur, however I don't agree that strictly oral will suffice for women, which is what it sound's like your implying. Then again you have an abnormally large penis and based on your stats was always above average. In my opinion developing oral skills is way easier than building stamina for long durations of penetration. I could drive my woman crazy with my mouth but ultimately she wanted a penetration orgasm. Sure it worked in the short term but after a few months it wasn't enough. It makes sense on a biological level. I believe the big unit question has too large an emphasis placed on it. When it comes down to it, performance and technique is what's going to please a woman.

 

[Going411x7]

Absolutely. I agree with you about the need for penetration. But I think for
a man and a woman, penetration just adds to the intimacy. My woman loves
my dick, of course, but if I stick a finger up her vagina as I am entering her,
she loves it even more.

"Performance and technique is what's going to please a woman." :clapping:

 

[amiok]

In college there was a kid with a notoriously big dick, and one of the girls that I knew just blurted out "ooohhh I'd like to try that."

Exactly. It is utter bullshit that girls don't want big dicks. I understand if one loves me she will work with me and fuck my brains out. But that and wanting a bigger dick are very different things. They fucking like big dicks.

Tom: That might be the dumbest analogy buddy. It really may be. Not trying to be a dick. You seem like a really cool guy and do try to make us small guys feel better. But that is an awful analogy lol.

Don: Yes the differences are very small in the real spectrum of thinking. But when talking about my pathetic 4.5 NBP and some fuckers 7 incher they are going to feel and absolutely love that difference.

Peskeptic (again): Yup we hear on here this all the time "MY girlfriend noticed!!!!!!!!! I fucked her earlier and she was moaning like a porn star!!!!! I have gained 1 inch in length and .25 inch in girth in three months and she was almost in tears cause I am a horse now!!!!"

 

[islander]

Ever thought the reason the sex was better for these guys is because they are more confident? Maybe the tiny number of men actually posting those types of stories needed that inch to feel better hence improving their relationships. Let's not discount the millions of men who improve themselves in other ways and get the same better sex results.
The point of functionality (too big too small) I understand. But remember the facts. We are 4.25" long. 1.5" wide. We adjust AS NEEDED.
Its not a metal vagina.

 

[AlteredBeast86]

Okay, if you notice, the one's with big penis' on here are saying size doesn't mater. The ones with smaller penis' are saying it does. The women on here all seem to be dating dudes with big penis', go figure, and they say size doesn't matter. Then you have the in-between fella's (like me) looking at this class warfare (hahahaha) and thinking hmm... the answer must be somewhere in-between.

C-mon people, size matters. Women, your presence VALIDATES this. Why would you even be here if size didn't in some way matter to you? Seriously. Dudes with the big penis', shhaaaddd up. Your opinions on size are so skewed, and so biased, and so privileged, that it's like a white guy trying to tell a black man he understands what racism feels like. Yeah, okay pal. Small guys, hmm... I hear the lamenting and I feel for you, but I have no advice brothers. Increase your wallet size and the ass will follow. THAT is your solution, well that and PE.

 

[AlteredBeast86]

Amiok, I think you are like the id in the subconscious levels of the psyche. You say pretty much what no one wants to here, but in many ways feel in their own heart, what you say is more often than not correct. Women's power of perception is quite good--my fiancee has said the difference between her ex and I is 1/4-1/2 inch of length. I didn't know women could be such mathematicians when it came down to peen size. They are. Hahaha... To her credit, she has noted my sexual prowess being at a much higher level than he. I have always been "good, real good" in bed, so my average size has never been an issue.

As for boob sizes, yeah, don't give a flying sh*t about that. NEVER HAVE & NEVER WILL. A cup, B cup, C cup, whatever. I'll take anyone over the other on any given day and not have a thought of value based judgement on the smaller cup. I LOVE the female species, in all shapes and sizes, well except the skeletal and fat versions. Hey, kind of like too big and too small!

As for my take on what women find most attractive:
Personality
Confidence
Physical looks
Body
Status
Money
Ambition
just to name a few they think about before penis size.

 

[TTBB]

The women on here all seem to be dating dudes with big penis', go figure, and they say size doesn't matter.

That's news to me!! LOL

 

[AlteredBeast86]

Dang right it is. Oh yeah, I know all about your exploits in the Caribbean TinkerBell. Oh yeah, big time. Cat's out of the bag baby, and it's gone bananas.

 

[duppy]

only if I had a big peen