Just Talking
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I love sitting in class only to notice that the girl sitting in front and to the side of me is looking fucking hot. Makes class go a lot faster.
Not the time and the place 
I suppose I can't talk, I've only asked two girls in my life and neither was face to face (I do prefer face to face but the conditions weren't ideal)
and yes in class I've noticed hot girls a few times, if only I had the guts to talk to them but it seems very random unless you talk about the work i guess
I suppose I can't talk, I've only asked two girls in my life and neither was face to face (I do prefer face to face but the conditions weren't ideal)and yes in class I've noticed hot girls a few times, if only I had the guts to talk to them but it seems very random unless you talk about the work i guess
to me it seems fake if I use all these books and stuff (I've downloaded a couple) and it seems to cast women as very unintelligent and very manipulative and while I believe some of it is true, I just don't think it's me so much getting success as it is the author (if its successful a lot). Not that I won't take advice from people about how to ask girls out etc, but taking step by step instructions seems a bit much to be honest from a guy I don't know.
Ryan: Maybe try making comments. Something that does not really require a response from her. If you are paying attention to what she talks about with others around you then one day you can say, hey I remember hearing you saying last week you were going to see Conan. I saw it, I thought it was good... (swap out whatever the topic actually is)
Or if someone else in the class says something funny or something you happen to have experience with you can look at her and say something.
Like if someone reacts to a teacher comment about a math problem you can say "I could have used that this weekend" and laugh and nod your head like you are included her in your comment.
I dont think these are considered games. You are trying to engage someone to include you in their comments, their conversations.
Even dropping a pencil her way lol
Shy people need to work their way into something. So if these girls already know you are shy then once you drop little comments and lines they will think about you. There is no getting around it. Its like a light bulb that goes off "omg he can talk, listen to him great!" and they will engage with you soon.
I hope this helps. I am so outgoing and a little pushy really so its driving me wild thinking you are staying quiet. If you were in my class I would have you talking against your will hahahahaha
Or if someone else in the class says something funny or something you happen to have experience with you can look at her and say something.
Like if someone reacts to a teacher comment about a math problem you can say "I could have used that this weekend" and laugh and nod your head like you are included her in your comment.
I dont think these are considered games. You are trying to engage someone to include you in their comments, their conversations.
Even dropping a pencil her way lol
Shy people need to work their way into something. So if these girls already know you are shy then once you drop little comments and lines they will think about you. There is no getting around it. Its like a light bulb that goes off "omg he can talk, listen to him great!" and they will engage with you soon.
I hope this helps. I am so outgoing and a little pushy really so its driving me wild thinking you are staying quiet. If you were in my class I would have you talking against your will hahahahaha
lol well at the moment it's just how I am generally, there is no one particular I am thinking about. I don't think people think I'm shy, it's not like school where you have to talk to people and stuff which is what I miss about high school. I don't make friends at university really, I talk to people I already know/people I'm doing work with.
But I would never want to try and ask out a girl from university for one reason, the likelihood is she lives too far away from me. My uni is in the city where I live 40 minutes away from train (sometimes 50) and of course people live all over the place who go to my uni. I don't even have my license yet (it's 18 here, not 16 by the way).
I'm just one of those people who doesn't like to initiate conversations with people I don't know yet once I know someone even for a few seconds, I can talk for ages like I've known them a long time. But 2011 isn't my year with women it seems lol although I'm not going to have any expectations for 2012 (I don't mean that in a very negative way, like I think I definetly won't have success. I just mean I'm going to let whatever happens, happen) because I had expectations at the start of 2011 for everything to be great this year (with work, uni, women, gym etc)...and I guess gym is great, work is good enough, uni is me just passing subjects not excelling haha and women stopped before the midpoint of the year lol.
In the past year and a half I have gotten 4 girls numbers (1 I asked for, 2 I was interested in, 2 I wasn't) so it seems I peak when I get their number If only that was the hard part
But I would never want to try and ask out a girl from university for one reason, the likelihood is she lives too far away from me. My uni is in the city where I live 40 minutes away from train (sometimes 50) and of course people live all over the place who go to my uni. I don't even have my license yet (it's 18 here, not 16 by the way).
I'm just one of those people who doesn't like to initiate conversations with people I don't know yet once I know someone even for a few seconds, I can talk for ages like I've known them a long time. But 2011 isn't my year with women it seems lol although I'm not going to have any expectations for 2012 (I don't mean that in a very negative way, like I think I definetly won't have success. I just mean I'm going to let whatever happens, happen) because I had expectations at the start of 2011 for everything to be great this year (with work, uni, women, gym etc)...and I guess gym is great, work is good enough, uni is me just passing subjects not excelling haha and women stopped before the midpoint of the year lol.
In the past year and a half I have gotten 4 girls numbers (1 I asked for, 2 I was interested in, 2 I wasn't) so it seems I peak when I get their number
If only that was the hard part Ive always wondered about that.
You say "university" and we say it with more words. Like "My son is off to college" rather than "my son is at university" hahaha
"I met her in class at college" rather than "I met her at university"
Everytime I see you say uni or university I saw it in an English accent. I have no idea where you are from. Its just cute.
Hey 4 numbers is good! You are so young and you have humor. Best of all, your at university!
You say "university" and we say it with more words. Like "My son is off to college" rather than "my son is at university" hahaha
"I met her in class at college" rather than "I met her at university"
Everytime I see you say uni or university I saw it in an English accent. I have no idea where you are from. Its just cute.
Hey 4 numbers is good! You are so young and you have humor. Best of all, your at university!
I was born in England but lived in Australia till about 4 years old then back to England from 4 to 14, then back in Australia from 14 to present. I did have a really strong English Accent when I got here but now it's mixed. If I was to take anything from America it would be all them college type parties you see with the frats and stuff, it'd be so much cheaper in comparison to having to go out and spend a lot of money. Seems other than work, uni and clubs I have no other avenue to meet women and since I don't want to take the first two options, looks like it is clubs lol. I guess gym as well but I take gym seriously and I like to just do my workout
Hah, I'm the same way man. I'm not the type that likes to go looking for women. And the only place I meet anyone is from work, the gym, or concerts. I don't mind, I find that when things just naturally happen it works out better in most cases.
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I've never looked at all and iniatiated something with a girl in my life, I kind of wait and let it come to me which hasn't resulted in high volume but I have had a couple of opportunities although they didn't work out
It's kind of a catch 22 because I need to like someone before I have the drive to do something about it but I can't like someone before I meet them and like I said I'm not good at initiating conversations with people I don't knowGood. Hopefully you can at least become friends with her. Hopefully even more though!
She asked me about Windows 7 for her Mac and I happened to have it on my drive since I save useful files.
The class ended with her saying that "You are very resourceful."
Yea dude. Let her see how resourceful you really are.
I truly have no idea what that means lol
