Is it normal to go soft a lot during jelqing?

[Samurai]

When I get my penis to a roughly 50% erect state and do a few jelqs(maybe 4 or 5), it goes soft. Is this normal? I've stopped watching porn because I don't want to depend on it to get hard but with just jelqing alone I don't really get turned on or should I say stimulated enough. Am I not relaxed enough, you think? If this is normal, maybe I can relax more with it because at the moment, it's taking a lot of the fun out of peing.
Thanks for any help.

 

[IdealPenis]

Try to do the PE when you are relaxt. It's working for me. Usualy I take a bath or a shower. Hope you manage to find the way for you.
This was one of my first read of jelqing --> Pleased Lovers - Secret Arabic Jelqing Maybe the relaxation is the key..

 

[Banana]

What I do is I start to jerk off until I get the right erection level and then jelq. After about 5 minutes of jelqing I stop and jerk off a little more to get my erection level up again and then I jelq. It works for me and I think overtime your penis will get used to it and you'll be able to maintain the right erection level longer. I must also say that your penis does have to be hard. It must be engorged with blood but it should be malleable.

 

[Hairtrigger]

Welcome to The PE Gym Samurai, once you have dropped much lower than a 50% erection level during Jelqing do a Kegel just before you make your bottom grip. This will pump more blood in to keep your erections more stable. Jelqing works better in the lower ranges of the erection level, it offers more expansion, compression and helps in stretching the Tunica. You want to make sure your not squeezing too hard also, if you feel any hardness or pressure in your unit back off. In time you will find the right level to help you gain but for now just take your time and learn all that you can. Good luck. HT.

 

[Samurai]

Thanks a lot guys. I'll try your advice in my next session.

 

[PESG]

You're in much better shape going soft during jelqing than you are if you were going hard. While I believe you should have some form of an erection during jelqing, you'll get a lot more accomplished be able to jelq at a lower erection rather than a higher erection. Also, it's 10x safer!

 

[cat_fish_28]

i had same problem to start come to find out i was griping to tight