Is 5 girth a bit thin nowadays?

[downthere]

.....what matters is the guy and how he acts, what he does, how does he make his partner feel.

Size doesn't matter as much as what you do with it.

Another good piece of advice B8, and the reason I know this to be true for myself, is that I have numerous friends that are girls - several that are model beautiful and I can't count how many times I've heard them say your last sentence. I never really believed it till I heard it from several of them over a span of years.

One particular gorgeous one (think Alessandra Ambrosio quality) had an overnighter with a guy that "was as big as my forearm" she said, and he was terrible. She handled the size ok, but he was just a plain bad lover. One other top 10'er in looks and body was from southern CA. She said the same damn thing in that her ex-husband was huge but a terrible lay. Her exact words about size - "It's all in how you use it". I was like, you're joking. "Nope...serious", she said. I've always appreciated the company of women, and they discuss all kinds of sh*t in front of me as if I'm one of them sometimes. (I never asked about size to be clear on that....they were just talking about bad lays)

So here are two beautiful women that didn't give a crap about size as long as it was average, it worked, and he actually cared about caring for her and what she might like, instead of him just getting off and making her a cum dumpster.

I've also heard "cum dumpster" so many times it's sad, really.

 

[AlpineNewt]

I've given a few girls a great time when I couldn't even get it up. Make from that what you will.

 

[downthere]

I've given a few girls a great time when I couldn't even get it up. Make from that what you will.

Hmm... to me that means you made her feel wanted and special, and your tongue and fingers knew what they were doing. And maybe little kisses and nibbling here and there, and whispering in her ear? Am I correct?

 

[drfrankencock]

I have seen this thread pop back up so many times that I finally agree with the title. Yes, without a doubt, 5 inch girth is a bit thin nowadays. It once wasn't. But now it is.

 

[akaTrex]

Size doesn't matter as much as what you do with it.

I have always prided myself in my oral skills. As you know many women cannot orgasam from penis thrusting alone.

Early on in my youth I invested in Sinclair Institute VHS tapes on "Skills" as the internet did not exist back then.

Also I started Hanging My Tongue with a 10 pound weight! :becky:

 

[AlpineNewt]

Hmm... to me that means you made her feel wanted and special, and your tongue and fingers knew what they were doing. And maybe little kisses and nibbling here and there, and whispering in her ear? Am I correct?

Sort of. But with more enthusiasm and silliness. I don't often have a naked lady to play with so when I do I make the most of it no matter what's not working!

 

[Sean Jacobs]

The situations where size matters can vary widely.

If you are in a long term relationship, and you actually care about your woman, you learn exactly what she enjoys. You become an expert on pleasing your woman. In this case your size no longer matters. If you were a bit small you have learned to adjust your techniques to please her. If you were too big you've learned to adjust your techniques to please her. Hopefully everyone is happy.

If you are involved in some kind of brief love affair size can be a huge advantage (pun intended) or a huge disadvantage. If I hook up with a woman who is turned on by a large penis, and whip out my 8x6.5 she is going to have a very positive reaction..which puts her in higher state of arousal, which in turn helps to make the sexual encounter better for her (you still need good technique). However, if i whip out a below average penis her reaction may be negative which may lower her state of arousal (but technique could help). The same goes in reverse. A woman may be afraid of a large penis (had a bad experience in the past, expectation of pain, etc) so my 8x6.5 is going to reduce her level or arousal (she may just tell me to keep that thing the hell away from her). Where as I whip out my below average penis and her arousal level goes up because her fear of pain is gone.

Ultimately technique is very important...but a technique that works extremely well on one woman many not work on another.. Hell, a technique that works very well on you wife may not work every time depending on her mood. I have to go slow and gentle with penetration on my wife, and then finish quickly or it starts to hurt too much....Unless she's drunk, then she loves to be plowed hard (she hasn't been drunk in quite a while ).

The one thing I can say about being big, which I've said in many previous posts, is the "WOW!" factor. When you get that wide eyed "WOW!" reaction (whether positive - she's excited that it's huge - or negative - she's afraid because it's huge -) it is a massive ego boost...at least it is for me.

Just my 2 cents.

 

[kickinthemebs]

Ah Christmas is approaching - time for festivities, mulled wine, hot whiskies, and festive beers

I have to go slow and gentle with penetration on my wife, and then finish quickly or it starts to hurt too much....Unless she's drunk, then she loves to be plowed hard (she hasn't been drunk in quite a while ).

 

[Sean Jacobs]

Ah Christmas is approaching - time for festivities, mulled wine, hot whiskies, and festive beers

Very true! Christmas is a time for dreams to come true.

 

[Thick_Unit]

akaTrex & Thick_Unit, what is your MEG & BEG? Might be good to know for people who stumble on this thread, just so people know how thick and sometimes be 'too thick', so to speak. Girth-wise I never really want to leave the 'Goldilocks' zone, so to speak...Length I don't care about (and want to be as big as I can), since it is controllable.

6.5"

 

[chemicalagent420]

-sorry off topic response to PEskeptic- -ignore to stay on topic-

Hey PEskeptic,

It really does not mean you are not as good of a lover, but it does typically make a man more likely to use long strokes where short strokes might be more appropriate. Some women are able to cum from long strokes, but more often deeper shorter strokes matter more. I'll post a couple of links that ultimately led to me practicing PE and foreskin restoration side by side. I think running the two programs together have produced big girth gains from me, and I am continuing to gain even since my last signature measurement. As far as sensitivity I have had a dramatic increase. If you aren't into the foreskin restoration thing you can always use a Manhood. The glans is meant to be a mucosa and therefore remain moist at all times just like the clitoris. As a man gets older and produces less smegma his glans will dry out somewhat and nerves become buried. This is all very simple science. If you left your tongue out in the open it too would lose its delicate abilities. A Manhood when worn regularly will return maximum sensitivity in about 30-60 days. You can check out the reviews people rave about them. I have a few buddies that wear them and verify the reviews.

ManHood: The foreskin substitute for circumcised men, foreskin restoration, and uncut men with a short or tight foreskin

Attached below is a link to a chart to show the innervation of the natural penis. This chart is from the British Journal of Urology, and cited appropriately, and really tells the story. No one knows for sure how much is lost, but the frenulum is said to be the male G-spot, and the remnant left after the snip is still the most sensitive part of the penis although sensitivity is diminished. Once unsheathed it can only be stimulated by direct friction hence the long stroking at the mouth of the vagina. I have used the touch test to find out where my sensitive bits are most sensitive, and while I get depressed thinking about my loss I have gained much more sensitivity in my frenulum remnant, even to the point of having orgasms without ejaculation (probably also due somewhat to kegel work and the like). I am expecting more sensitivity gains still.

The Touch Test: Can You Feel the Difference? - The WHOLE Network: Accurate Circumcision & Foreskin Information

Here a former nurse describes the anatomy of the penis and penile skin (something they don't fucking teach you in America!) I definitely have had to overcome my own techniques to compensate now that I understand the way sex is supposed to be. My wife orgasms without fail now, even last night when she was kind of hammered and typically has trouble.

The Penis - Sex Education 101 - YouTube

Sorry guys this is off topic of girth, but I think it is extremely valuable information that has made sex completely new for me and feeling things for the first time I had no idea was possible.

 

[Phoenix7672]

Maybe I'm odd, but loss of sensitivity (to a point) doesn't bother me, so long as I can still get pleasure myself. I guess maybe sex to me is more about trying to drive a girl wild and still get off myself in the process. Less sensitivity should lead to longer sessions, which means more potential pleasure for her as well. As long as it feels great to her and good to me, I'm happy.

Also part of the reason I want a really really long length is so I could potentially bottom out almost anyone, which would let me go as deep as both of us wanted for maximum pleasure.

 

[Aloonski]

Whats mseg? And how do i start this training program?
Im 6.8" and 5.3"
My goal is 7.5-6
But what do i do lol?

 

[Cavalier]

Whats mseg? And how do i start this training program?
Im 6.8" and 5.3"
My goal is 7.5-6
But what do i do lol?

Go to the START HERE! link at the top of the page. If you have any further questions please start your own thread in the beginners forum.

 

[theonering]

This thread is really depressing for someone who is 4.5in girth... FU Guys!!!

I'm around that size. A little bit thicker on a good day. I've been with my wife for 7 years, and she loves it. Do not be disheartened.

It's all about perspective. For me it looks a little thin, for my wife when she's giving me head whilst I'm on top of her says it looks thick, or when she's looking from the side.

Think of it like this: your looking at a football from the top. Looks small and thin right? Look at it from the side and it looks a lot larger.

4.5 is thinner than and anything thicker, obvious, but it is not too small to have a fulfilling sex life.

 

[Reallyshortblackguy]

I used to think i was a bit small but after being on this site I've learned otherwise. So in all honesty i really don't care whether or not my dick is the biggest or fattest a girls as ever been with. All i care about is that its over 7 inch in length, 5+ inch in girth and 10/10 erection.