Introducing Myself

[Randy the Ram]

Hi Gym,

I've been a long time reader here, and my insecurities about myself have finally brought me out of hiding. My lone goal is to achieve a happier and healthier life. I just ended a relationship of two and a half years with someone I loved deeply, but wasn't treated right by, and it's resulted in about 30 extra pounds and a bleak outlook on the future. That's why I'm here. There are a lot of areas for improvement in my life, and I need it now more than ever. You can call me Randy or you can call me Ram. I'm looking forward to getting to know all of you guys that I've been reading for the last couple years.

Randy the Ram

 

[kingpole]

Welcome to the gym. I hope you can find the answers you seek. If anything you can talk to us. Many of us have been in your shoes a time or two.

 

[Waylander]

Welcome Randy. See you around the gym

 

[Jason - PE !]

Welcome.

 

[Dustpan]

Randy:welcomeani:
This is a good place for you to regain and improve your life. Good luck with your new journey

 

[MrBigDick]

Hey man, welcome aboard and good luck. You'll find this place to be extremely inspirational in terms of you improving your life. You've already taken the first step, coming here, signing up and committing. Good luck with your goals, PE and otherwise. And as KP said, most of us have been in your shoes a time or two bro, you're not alone here.

Curious, you drive a Ram by chance???

 

[hardcore]

welcome randy! good luck on your journey

 

[millia]

Hi Gym,

I've been a long time reader here, and my insecurities about myself have finally brought me out of hiding. My lone goal is to achieve a happier and healthier life. I just ended a relationship of two and a half years with someone I loved deeply, but wasn't treated right by, and it's resulted in about 30 extra pounds and a bleak outlook on the future. That's why I'm here. There are a lot of areas for improvement in my life, and I need it now more than ever. You can call me Randy or you can call me Ram. I'm looking forward to getting to know all of you guys that I've been reading for the last couple years.

Randy the Ram

Randy, WELCOME!
First of all - if she treated you wrong then it's fine, you will find someone who will TREAT YOU SO MUCH BETTER! And someone who is better for you then she was. I'm sorry you're going through a tough time and the weight loss and depression must be hard to deal with, but remember life goes on, and while life is bad now, it will get better! If you want to discuss anything we have great support here on the forums. Even about the weight gain we can help you out with!
Best of luck on your journey my brother.

 

[calixto]

Ram, welcome to "The Gym" and you have just taken the first step in getting to know many incredible guys, all of which who just posted here are just a few of our finest.

We all are pulling for you here. You will find that the PEGym family/forum is probably the most caring, informative, and just plain AWESOME there is. So many guys here are just wanting to help each other, and we all have this feeling, it seems, like we really are
"all in this together" so its an "all for one" situation, truly it is.

We welcome you to the family brother. Good luck!

 

[bgstick18]

Randy,
How are you bud. Hope you received my last PM I sent you responding to the one you had sent me. Feel free to write me with any questions whether penile or regular workouts. Hey listen man, its like all the other men have stated, we truly are a family here and we are all here to help and guide each other, share ideas, give constructive criticms and so on. I think I speak for all of us here when I say we are glad you have chosen the PEGYM for your penile AND body enhancement ventures. Hope all is well my good man

 

[Radiohead]

Welcome Randy.

I'm glad that you have decided to take action. PE is not just about enlargement, it's about getting in touch with inner self, sexually and emotionally.

I look forward to getting to know you.

 

[maelsukr]

Welcome to the GYM , Ram . You've already heard from some of the best here .
They are BETTER than Allstate . Have fun while growing your self !!!

 

[Randy the Ram]

Thank you kingpole, Waylander, Jason, Dustpan, MrBigDick, hardcore, millia, calixto, bgstick18, Radiohead, and maelsukr for the welcomes. It's much appreciated.

bgstick18, I got your private message and responded. Thanks for taking the time to answer my question.

I want to thank you guys for the support regarding my recent failed relationship. I've had a very tough time dealing with it. She was someone I loved deeply and who's life I cared for more than I do my own. I spent two and a half years putting my time, effort, and soul into this relationship, but just wasn't getting it in return. It's been pretty disheartening, and made me wonder if there really is a perfect girl out there for me.

I've been trying to measure, but I'm having a hell of a time doing it. I've suspected I had low testosterone for a long time now, and I just can't seem to get "the little guy" going so I can take my measurements and start my journey. I find it odd, considering I've seen a rapid amount of patterened hair loss in the last several months, with all the burning and discomfort on my scalp. I know that DHT is a by-product of testosterone, so I can't seem to figure out how I can be losing hair and suffering from low testosterone at the same time.

I want to say again that I appreciate the welcomes and support that I've gotten right away. You guys are already an important part of my journey back to feeling normal again.

 

[vulcan]

Hi Ram,

I went to my GP regarding hair loss & they did a testosterone test on me.

When I am going through a rough patch in life, i sometimes stop exercising - at the very point when i need it most.

Making sure you are doing something each day (even just walking for 20mins) will go a long way to keeping your mood up, and also your EQ.

Welcome to PEGym.

 

[Batwoman]

Welcome, Ram! Sorry to hear about your woes. Sounds really sad, I wish you luck in moving on with your life. You are doing the right thing being here, this is a supportive community focused on self improvement and you WILL find your life improving if you listen to the suggestions here.

I's like to second what Vulcan said, make sure you are doing something positive for your body/mind every day. Exercise is your friend: there is no better way to get your body and mind back in shape. Walk, run, lift weights, swim, it really doesn't matter --- just be sure you do SOMETHING every day. Adding PE into your life is also a great thing.

Anyway, good luck and welcome to the PEGym!

 

[larrypinball]

I spent two and a half years putting my time, effort, and soul into this relationship, but just wasn't getting it in return. It's been pretty disheartening, and made me wonder if there really is a perfect girl out there for me.

Hi Ram and welcome! Sorry to hear about your situation. I've been there and I'm afraid in the past I've also put someone that was very dear to me in that same situation you're in.

I do believe there is a perfect girl out there for you, and I'm pretty sure she will appear somewhere around when you stop searching for "perfect" (and of course you need to have taken a few steps on your road to self improvement). In my opinion perfect isn't something that is found or just exists, it is something you create and it is not constant - meaning it has to be worked on all the time and sometimes it may even conflict with what you thought was perfect for you and it's how you deal with that fact, that I believe is one key to having a "perfect" relationship (not a "perfect girl").

If there's something like an advice here I think it is this: If you're searching for perfect, you will always end up finding flaws and then you will fail. Little by little it'll be a long road of small disappointments. Rethink the concept of perfect and you will succeed (in life, PE and the gym) - perfect is created by hard work.

Even if you're not in the right place at the moment, you will get there and these forums and the people here will gladly help you get there. And then all of a sudden your old girlfriend, who you thought was the perfect girl you, will be nothing more than a shadow of the past.

 

[Randy the Ram]

Hi Ram,

I went to my GP regarding hair loss & they did a testosterone test on me.

When I am going through a rough patch in life, i sometimes stop exercising - at the very point when i need it most.

Making sure you are doing something each day (even just walking for 20mins) will go a long way to keeping your mood up, and also your EQ.

Welcome to PEGym.

Thanks brother. I just had blood drawn to check my thyroid and testosterone. I should find out the results tomorrow, and then hopefully start up a routine and a progress log.

I've been on a diet since the day after Easter. I've lost exactly 22 lbs. since then. It's the one positive thing I have going right now.

 

[Batwoman]

22 lbs! That's a huge amount, congratulations!!!! If you've gotten that much off, I know you can do the rest.... and more besides. Have you been exercising? Exercise will make you feel better under almost any circumstances, I've found.

 

[Quirky One-Eye]

Hi, Randy, a belated welcome to the forums.


As a fellow fattie, allow me to offer some encouragement. You've apparently dropped quite a bit already and that's great. As you drop weight and begin living again you'll find some of your testosterone production bounces back. I encourage some degree of physical activity each day, whether walking for a little while or going to a gym -- do SOMETHING for the body and the mind will go along with it.

As for measuring and starting your PE journey, remember -- PE isn't just about size, it's about HEALTH. For now, if "the little guy" (as you put it) isn't quite up to snuff, then rather than worrying about measurements, just focus on some mild stretching (the same kind of casual stretching we men do when we're sitting around in our shorts watching television, nothing forceful) and massage.

When more weight drops off and YOU feel better overall, that activity alone will have helped Mr. Happy along the road to recovery, and it will help YOU for now if you stop worrying just yet about measuring and numbers. If your penis HEALTH isn't cutting it, then the numbers themselves are meaningless, useless.

As I've told countless trainees in weighlifting before, we all have to start somewhere and the guy you see pushing hundreds of pounds was NOT doing that on his first day!

One thing at a time; it's a marathon, not a sprint.

Good luck, and again -- welcome!

 

[fit4chix]

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