I need help guys (ED getting worse)

[CUSP82]

I have been reading his posts for at least a year or two.He has seen doctors, urologists, have had every test done to him and the conclusion is there is nothing wrong with him. He is in his upper 20's, never had sex, and the advice of his urologist and his father is to go out, get a girl, and have sex or at least try. He would rather use an ed excuse rather than go out and have fun. If his urologist and his father recomend it then I agree! Go read some of his old posts and see what you think!

 

[TheSperminator]

Can someone tell me what it is in general? .. What's the condition?

 

[not2big]

According to UKGuy's first post, he has cured his ED with kegels and now gets erections as hard as steel. Congratulations. Apparently, he is now trying to help other guys overcome there ED which may be caused by atrophied muscles by recommending kegels. Seems like we're experiencing the last stage of the "Boy who cried wolf."

I have a fairly severe case of ED, which I presume is caused by diabetes induced venous leak. (never confirmed by a Doppler test). However, I am able to override my problem with Trimix injections. Prior to starting injections, I did a lot of kegels with little or no improvement in my condition so I now conclude my condition resulted from a weakened artery(s) and not atrophied muscles. I hate to admit it, but I think UKGuy may be on to something, though it may be applicable to a limited segment of the venous leak sufferers.

Now that he has steel like erections, he should have no problem going out and using it on the girls.

 

[UKGuy]

I can assure you guys I am not here to troll I know I have issues and I'm looking to see a therapist soon saw one as a teenager so I'll try one again. I don't think I should be banned I know I repeat myself and post about my ED a lot but I will to be sure to stop posting about the same topics and issues.

By the way not2big I forgot to mention that while I have got "steel erections" from Kegels unfortunately I'm back to my weak erection again after a few days. I don't understand why this is but I guess Kegels needs to be practiced often and is no overnight fix.

I wrote this topic because I thought it might help some guys and give them hope. I'm no doctor but I have been researching and it seems atrophied penile muscles and low Testosterone could be linked to Venous Leak.

I guess I should stop posting here for while. I didn't mean to cause any trouble guys.

 

[TurtleProblems]

Man life sucks for some of us, don't it lol? You just try to do the best you can, and that's all you can really do. Like me, I'll have to use pumps the rest of my life because it was one of the only things that really worked for me to keep the hard flaccid and other erection problems away. And having the problems since I was 19 at a younger age, I know exactly how you feel.

Couple questions I had. Ever tried pumps? Ever changed your diet?

 

[DemOne]

The short answer is no. Venous leak caused muscle atrophy, not the other way around.

The long answer is muscle atrophy cannot and will never cause venous leak in a penis. Penile muscle atrophy cannot happen unless you first have venous leak, and have it over the course of multiple years with not one single erection, and the penile tissue is not being expanded and filled with blood. The mechanism at which smooth muscle works is nothing like skeletal muscle. Smooth muscle isn't a muscle that can build or lose strength, as that is not the function of it. It is not controlled by us physically, but only by our subconscious minds. Furthermore, the smooth muscle plays no part in venous leak as it is not the muscle that clamps down on the veins to hinder blood flow out of the penis, but the veins themselves that contract. The smooth muscle tissue in the penis doesn't play a part of even acting like a muscle.

 

[litopita]

To be honest UKGUY I really feel sorry for you (and it has nothing to do with the fact that am also from the UK ). I have seen some of your threads on here and you usually come off as pathetic/self defeatist, like you LOVE to wallow in your misery and hope to find someone to join in on the party (misery loves company). Am not trying to bash you my man. Your issue of obsessive anxiety disorder is one I have seen a lot. No matter what you read on all the different forums you go to, you are still always anxious. Someone with this disorder is very hard to help from the "outside". You have to help yourself. So like Cusp and these lads have told you, i would also advise that you stop researching and try to find a girl to fuck. If for anything, just to get out of "Virginia" (you are a 28 year old virgin for God's sake!)

The muscle theory is pie in the sky my man. Those "straws" aren't too strong to clutch on. Otherwise I would also be much stronger have doing 30 pushups, right? In fact it would be the opposite, I would be weaker since my muscles were now strained. Although 30 pushups a day for 5 months would make me "constantly" strong after exercising them. The same rationale applies to kegels. You will notice their effect after doing them consistently for a period of time, not just one night of kegels being able to cure "venous leak" (which is actually one of the biggest myths in male sexuality )

Stop looking at your dick my man and try to start using it, successfully or not. That is your destiny.

Cheers

 

[helpmeout]

Bucks fascia is part of the fibrous envelope that surrounds the penis. This is responsible for the outflow of the dorsal vein. The vein itself isn't leaking, just muscles being too thrashed to seal it off.

 

[Toe-Knee]

I have been doing foreskin restoration and I think I became less hard of an erection . I dont know if its related to the increase in senstivity. And FYI senstivity is related to the mind, as its something neurological. I need help on how to Increase my hard erection back to as rock hard as it was, any suggestions!?

 

[riceboy287]

If you get an opportunity to go on ThundersPlace, there is an interesting thread on an experimental treatment to reduce scar tissue. The treatment involves the application of a solution of DMSO and iodine. Apparently, the DMSO carries the iodine through the skin to the scar tissue. Studies have shown that iodine has successfully reduced scar tissue on internal organs.

I am actually doing this right now. I haven't seen any results yet, but I've been only doing it for a month or two

 

[UKGuy]

Just when I think I'm improving my ED and low libido keep coming back

Just when I think I'm improving my ED and low libido keep coming back

So i haven't posted here in a while mainly because I don't practice PE but I still read the ED section of the forum sometimes. Anyway so I have been trying to do kegels recently (as they have worked for me in the past) I first mainly did normal kegels and my erections got better, still hard to maintain though but my penis got into a "hard flaccid" state. After a bit of reading I found out that the "hard flacid" condition is likely due to tension in the pelvic floor muscles so I worked on relaxing my pelvic floor, I noticed that my penis was getting softer and more spongy I saw this as a positive sign. I even got a few random erections which rarely ever happens anymore and when I got hard it would stay firm for longer and it wouldn't die as quickly also the glans while still not at full engorgement didn't deflate as quickly. So I ejaculated a few days ago and now it seems again my penis is dead, haven't woke up with any wood at all and have virtually no libido.

I have been more dedicated to making changes, I have changed my diet, eliminated sugar and caffeine completely, been doing exercises, pushs up etc, going to bed earlier, avoiding porn as well. I definitely feel more confident, alert, outgoing, have no anxiety, worry or depression anymore I swear my voice is deeper too but when I wake up with no erection and severely deflated glans it gets me down. I have seen recently that I can get good erections again but why aren't they lasting? It seems my erection has goes weak again after I ejaculate but I only cum twice a week at the most usually just once a week. I have stopped viewing porn for nearly a week and it's like if I'm not watching porn I have no libido. I have read that the penis can shrink if you don't use it often ( especially being a virgin) therefore getting no sex so I try and make sure I cum once a week at least or a couple of times I'm terrified at the thought of my penis getting smaller.

I'm not trying to be a downer here I still continue to work on my myself and try and remain positive but sometimes I feel like depression is creeping on me again and my optimism is crashing down I wonder If I'll ever be able have sex with a woman or get an erection spontaneously because I just can't tell anymore if my penis is going to work or not I'm scared to even try and have sex because of thiss. I'm not ruling out this could be partly a mental issue as well I did try and see a psychiatrist but it never went anywhere (they haven't got back to me to see them again basically). I don't see what I'm doing to make my erection good one day terrible non existent the next. I do believe I have lower testosterone than a lot of men (doctor said it was low normal) so I am working on this.

Any idea guys?

Thanks

 

[CUSP82]

You were broken for a long time and now things seem to be getting better slowly. That what will happen; the improvements will be slow. Give it time and stay positive.

 

[safexpert]

UK guy,

I believe your ED is due to an interaction of psychological and physical factors. I know you are finding it difficult, but you should focus on getting a woman and actually attempting to have sex.
I suggest a plan like this: Go on a traditional 'courtship' type of thing. Act like nothing is wrong even though the years have proved that there is a problem (but you are taking steps to manage the problem). so after dinner, maybe a movie and what not, you will eventually get to the point where you will both want to have sex, at that point tell her about your inadequacies. Do not reveal this until you are sure she is ready to give it to you. There are two benefits you will derive from telling her at that point. Firstly you will have considerably eased off the anxiety for your self, secondly, (from my experience), the woman immediately sees this as a challenge and quickly sets out on a task to prove to herself that she is attractive enough to turn you on and get you going. Just remember that once anxiety is out of the way, you will achieve the best that you physically can, which is all you can ask for anyway.

Good luck and do keep us posted

 

[UKGuy]

To be honest I don't know how to explain my thoughts very well I am sure my long term ED is partly mental, also possibly due to lower Testosterone levels but I am definitely convinced it's mainly an organic physical cause without a doubt. I only have to judge the quality of my morning erection which are embarrassingly weak (soft feeling deflated glans dies easily etc) to see it's a physical issue they used to be hard as rock. My penis has never been the same since 10 years ago it's no where near as strong, responsive or sensitive as it was, hell it even looks different, enlarged veins, bigger flaccid size, it looks and feels smaller too especially the girth and length wise I'm barely 5 and half inches erect I used to be at least 6 inches maybe a bit over that before the injuries. I'm sure this is just because I can't get a full erection so it seems smaller, the glans especially don't inflate well and very rarely to it's full size. My penis doesn't balloon and expand like it used to where I got hard quickly, it's hard to explain but it's like there's something preventing the erectile tissues from expanding properly.

I held onto hope for a while that Kegels, reverse Kegels eating a healthier diet and exercise would cure me unfortunately they didn't and the truth is that even though these methods may of cured others it won't cure all of us as ED can have endless causes. When you look at all the options available for ED (which are limited and sometimes embarrassing) I often wonder is really worth the bother? Is it really important to loose my virginity anyway? Maybe to my stupid ego but many have died virgins and I won't be the last I've never been a very Alpha guy anyway and perhaps I was never meant to be.

I don't know about asking women on dates again I don't see the point when I'm useless downstairs let's be real here most not ALL but most women expect sex in a relationship or casual hook up so maybe it's best to see beyond my penis accept I will probably never have a normal sex life and look for alternative ways to enjoy life I mean hell I hear about young guys who lost their unit due to cancer and they still somehow live life so it makes me think that it is actually possible for a man to be content without a sex drive. I've even looked into Castration on Eeunch forums (I'm not joking) my penis is useless anyway I had my chance at having a sex life and I fucked It up so why not go a step further and kill my sex drive completely, my only concern is I would probably need Testosterone shots for life so I can basically function.

 

[venousleak1990]

only solution in this case is a penile implant.....

 

[giantsrule]

It's all in your head uk guy. Your dick doesn't just not work sometimes if it's damaged it's a full time thing. if you can keep an erection for more than 30sec while not touching it your fine.

 

[horsemore]

What was tbirdy? he continues for here?
PD: PE is a shi u ll be impotent with it

 

[Dangler]

What was tbirdy? he continues for here?
PD: PE is a shi u ll be impotent with it

You have made your opinion perfectly clear.

You are free to change your opinion at any time, but pasting in the same negative diatribe repeatedly, well, you will wear out your welcome rather quickly.

digging up a 2 yr old thread ?