i can't cum!! ??

[iwanttobebig]

OK..i've had sex about 1000 times with my girlfreind but, has only cumed in her twice. too beable to cum in her i had to play with myself untill i cumed, and then put it in her.

i was wondering... Could this be the porn?
i had sex with her like 5 times today! i cumed once.. which took me like 30mins off playing with myself!
i know she gets upset with this.. she talks all dirty with me and i just dont CUM :/
earlyier it was sooo good.. but i just couldn't blow my load! .. you know where you first start masturbating and you cum and carry on.. thats how it felt! she was sucking me off and it was that goodd i couldn't handle it lol !!! but still couldn't not CUM!!

i'am addictied to porn, but not soo much now. i can stop! i stoped for like 1 week easy.. but then i got horny and played with myself, it felt great and then the next dday i though studff it :/ lol.
any help would be great!!
many thanks!! x

 

[Pegasus]

This is called delayed ejaculation.
When you masturbate can you cum within a reasonable time?
How firm is your grip when you masturbate?

 

[StretchPE]

yea maybe your gripping it a lil too tight! do you use lube when you jerk?

 

[Going411x7]

Stop masturbating and watching porn COMPLETELY for a week or two or three, and I'll bet you'll be able to come in her, statl!!!

 

[iwanttobebig]

yeah.. i spose i doo grip hard when im wacthing porn.. it takes me about 20mins-30mins to cum wacthing porn.
i will try and stop wacthing porn for as long as i can. do you think if i dont cum or masterbate untill i have sex on wednesday, will i beable to cum or have a chance in cumming then? .. (this wednesday comming the 15th, which we will be together for 10months!)
many thanks to thos who have posted. x

 

[schlittle]

OK..i've had sex about 1000 times with my girlfreind

this wednesday comming the 15th, which we will be together for 10months!

Sex 1000 times in ten months that's.. (quick calculation).. OMG THAT'S SEX 3 TIMES A DAY!! Omg these young ones.

 

[hele16]

Stop watching and stop having sex for a good two weeks.

 

[PEnoob]

Eat more quality protein. Gotta give your dick something to spit out.

 

[BigO]

Protein wont do much for blowing a load, actually increasing natural juices, keeping hydrated, taking arginine, and the other penis supplements along with not jacking it like a maniac should do the trick. I dont care who you are, if ya sit around watchung porn anking on your tool alot then your gonna have trouble when it comes time to please the ladies, just saying!

 

[iwanttobebig]

i can please my girl, i have her screaming .. but i just want to cum in her. lol

 

[Batwoman]

I agree with the guys above who suggested that you stop completely with the porn and reduce your masturbation as much as possible. It sounds like you are just too used to your own grip and only cum when you get that exact stimulation.

I know it is probably unrealistic to expect you to stop masturbating all together, so how about trying this: use your other hand, not the one you are used to. And cut back to a very light grip. Maybe you can un-condition yourself that way.

Also, tell your girl what you are trying to do. You need to take the pressure off you (and the pressure she is probably putting on herself, too). Stop trying so hard to cum -- you are probably so focused on thinking about it that you never get into the zone.

Good luck!

 

[Pegasus]

This can be a long term issue with a number of factors, griping too tight during masturbation is a common one.
Or it could be simple ,we will know soon enough.