Hypersensitivity, involuntary spasms/kegels and the Death Grip

[JamesMonroe]

Here I just now found another doctor that wrote an article about male sensitivity, which further tells me my theory is correct. Is talks about the use of different grips, with and without lube. Just don't overdo it, that's all.

Relationship advice : Male Sensitivity Problem

 

[bautista19]

Color me skeptical. I would relate being more acclimated to sex via desensitization to dulling taste buds allowing you to eat more flavorful foods. What's the point?

Conquering premature ejaculation and penis enlargement are not gifts to one's lover, but are gifts to one's self.

Note: Other than me pointing out my skepticism I have no other hypothesis or ideas related to this subject. As you all were.

 

[JamesMonroe]

....continued.... If you read my post on deth grip and hypersensitivity and involuntary spasms/kegels, I talk about my theory that it is the light, soft, sensual touching and loose grips during masturbation that is probably causing most or some of the hypersensitivity, involuntary spams/kegels and prem ejac.
When Thai massage girls give you a happy ending, that is what they use to get you súper excited and ejaculation faster... They use light sensual touches that make your penis jump for joy and prolonged exposure to those light types of stimulation trains your body to react to it so that the body continues to do its work (life giving cycle). Catch my drift? I've gotten my results only when I train hard. It goes for everything. Jelqing, real sex, edging, ballooning, rev/reg kegels, etc.... Do you want a weak little guy going to war? NO. You have to put prepare him with intense training. But i said carefully, dont Kill your penis. Just tighten it up a little and expose your whole penis to more stimulation and do it dry sometimes. if you don't have a major case of Prem ejac, then fine, don't do it.

 

[SRuel3216]

I totally think this is my problem. Death grip completely makes me involuntarily legal like crazy and makes me reach ponr so fast

 

[JamesMonroe]

I totally think this is my problem. Death grip completely makes me involuntarily legal like crazy and makes me reach ponr so fast

That's the thing though... I think you have to slowly try to get used to it like I slowly tried to get used to edging longer and having sex longer. I feel that we have to train out penis to receive MORE intense stimulation than what most tight vaginas offer. It makes sense to train the most intense way to be best prepared for anything, doesn't it? I don't mean over-do it though. Treat it like edging where you wanna try to last a minute longer every time and just look out for negative signs.

 

[JamesMonroe]

Incase I haven't mentioned it, I'm trying this theory out because I always had prem ejac and I always masturbated lightly with sensual touches, lube and a light grip. I'm also testing this theory out because most people with Deleyed Ejaculation have used a tight grip and no lube, and doctors claim those are the reasons. I'm trying to find a way people can help themselves without having to rely on constant sex with a patient partner to get rid of their prem ejac. Good luck, people and please keep me posted!

 

[zunamary]

James, Ive read that most of the people that begin doing tight grip get to the PONR really fast.. When I tried this I found it easier to edge with tight grip, and I didnt get too much aroused; I was in more control, altough I always masturbated with a light grip. Does this mean hypersensitivity isnt my problem?

 

[JamesMonroe]

James, Ive read that most of the people that begin doing tight grip get to the PONR really fast.. When I tried this I found it easier to edge with tight grip, and I didnt get too much aroused; I was in more control, altough I always masturbated with a light grip. Does this mean hypersensitivity isnt my problem?

Even after having real sex with no prem ejac anymore, as soon as I started the death grip I was ejaking pretty soon too. I had to slowly get used to it and train myself to last longer and longer like in edging and sex. Then after a while I switched to no lube. I am gonna go back and forth now with lube and without to see where I'm at. Do you use lube or not? It also matter HOW U STROKE, whether its with foreskin or with skin on skin friction. When I death grip edge, I also rub the top if my head because that is the spasm spot for me!
Did this help at all? Idk....

 

[zunamary]

Well, I stroked withou lube, forskin to hand since i am uncut, and didnt get to the head because dry it would hurt.

For me, my most sensitive spot is the frenulum.

 

[JamesMonroe]

Well, I stroked withou lube, forskin to hand since i am uncut, and didnt get to the head because dry it would hurt.

For me, my most sensitive spot is the frenulum.

I think you have to practice and find a way to rub/stimulate the penis head and frenulum dry without hurting yourself. Try gripping higher at your head. Just striking the shaft and barely touching your head lightly like you are doing now might even make your penis head to hypersensitive because if the light touches and lack of stimulation. I would say for you to do the dry classic ballooning with your thumb, of all your sensitive spots. Did you ever even try that?

 

[zunamary]

I think you have to practice and find a way to rub/stimulate the penis head and frenulum dry without hurting yourself. Try gripping higher at your head. Just striking the shaft and barely touching your head lightly like you are doing now might even make your penis head to hypersensitive because if the light touches and lack of stimulation. I would say for you to do the dry classic ballooning with your thumb, of all your sensitive spots. Did you ever even try that?

Yeah, I tried balooning but I could never control that.. By doing it I also lost self cntrol and started masturbating regularily or balooning for the orgasm (I had my better orgasms by balooning my frenulum though). But Idk, it was kinda weird.