Been lurking here for a while, and think this place is great - an anonymous discussion where nobody laughs at the problem a lot of men suffer.
Anyway - I saw this numbing balm come up several times, and thought why not - and bought some.
I've been testing this stuff a lot, because it definitely works, but requires careful usage as it is incredibly (too much so) potent...
Here is some advice if you want to use this stuff (or any similar cream/balm no doubt) -
Only ever use a tiny amount. This stuff isn't like a balm you need to smear on, a sheen of the stuff will suffice. I gently rub my finger around so it is visibly coated (brown colour), and that's enough.
My testing has shown the best place to apply this stuff is around the upper ridge ONLY of the penis head, as opposed to the entire edge of the head. This place is super sensitive, so killing that off is where I find works best. I apply in a half moon from side to side around this ridge and in a line that is fairly wide so some of the head itself will have some on. Rub all over a few times, then leave it.
This application leaves you with enough sensitivity to still get an erection, because my testing has shown applying this stuff around the entire ridge/head will make it difficult, or even impossible to get an erection.
Important thing to consider that I have never heard anywhere discussing this stuff - never urinate or be excited when applying this stuff. Pre-cum or urine will spread this stuff around, and potentially down inside your penis shaft. This happened to me whilst first trying this stuff (trying to masturbate after applying it) - and my penis literally shrivelled up and I couldn't get an erection for a good 6 hours! I always wash it off carefully with a few tissues and water/soap - rub upwards so it doesn't potentially spread.
I find this stuff seems to last hours, sometimes it feels like days, and it combines well with masturbating beforehand (for me, masturbate the day before sex, or a good 6-12 hours before). Obviously this is the downside of this stuff - it does require a bit of pre-planning, but the last time I used this with my wife I applied it around 30 minutes before sex as she went off showering. I let it work for about 20 minutes, then showered myself - and it was enough.
Now - about me. I have (or had) a really bad premature ejaculation problem. I get the feeling my dick is like buzzing before sex if we have foreplay, and just touching it alone is almost enough to make me shoot. Before using this balm I could even cum just by trying to push the tip of my cock in... but with this balm, wow - it makes such a huge difference.
Last week was probably the first time me and my wife properly had sex (both virgins before), and have tried a few times with either me premature ejaculating, and her being in pain from her first time, so last week it all went perfect. I entered her entirely, and just let it rest - immediately noticed basically no sensitive feeling at all, I hadn't bust my nut immediately, and my dick was rock solid. Started to thrust, and I probably had what I would venture around 30-40% sensitivity - slow to medium thrusting was not enough to make me cum. We had sex for a good 25-30 minutes, and I could only cum by thrusting fast and tensing up my kegel muscle.
Absolutely love this stuff! It works on a physical level, but I also think it is helping me psychologically - I now know I can have sex without shooting early, and there is nothing quite like seeing your wife/girlfriend cumming from giving her a good fuck. Perhaps I can ween myself off it, combined with kegel/reverse kegel exercises, but for now I swear by this stuff!
Anyone else tried this stuff or have any advice/input? I'm not an expert, but this is just my thoughts based on a fair bit of testing
Anyway - I saw this numbing balm come up several times, and thought why not - and bought some.
I've been testing this stuff a lot, because it definitely works, but requires careful usage as it is incredibly (too much so) potent...
Here is some advice if you want to use this stuff (or any similar cream/balm no doubt) -
Only ever use a tiny amount. This stuff isn't like a balm you need to smear on, a sheen of the stuff will suffice. I gently rub my finger around so it is visibly coated (brown colour), and that's enough.
My testing has shown the best place to apply this stuff is around the upper ridge ONLY of the penis head, as opposed to the entire edge of the head. This place is super sensitive, so killing that off is where I find works best. I apply in a half moon from side to side around this ridge and in a line that is fairly wide so some of the head itself will have some on. Rub all over a few times, then leave it.
This application leaves you with enough sensitivity to still get an erection, because my testing has shown applying this stuff around the entire ridge/head will make it difficult, or even impossible to get an erection.
Important thing to consider that I have never heard anywhere discussing this stuff - never urinate or be excited when applying this stuff. Pre-cum or urine will spread this stuff around, and potentially down inside your penis shaft. This happened to me whilst first trying this stuff (trying to masturbate after applying it) - and my penis literally shrivelled up and I couldn't get an erection for a good 6 hours! I always wash it off carefully with a few tissues and water/soap - rub upwards so it doesn't potentially spread.
I find this stuff seems to last hours, sometimes it feels like days, and it combines well with masturbating beforehand (for me, masturbate the day before sex, or a good 6-12 hours before). Obviously this is the downside of this stuff - it does require a bit of pre-planning, but the last time I used this with my wife I applied it around 30 minutes before sex as she went off showering. I let it work for about 20 minutes, then showered myself - and it was enough.
Now - about me. I have (or had) a really bad premature ejaculation problem. I get the feeling my dick is like buzzing before sex if we have foreplay, and just touching it alone is almost enough to make me shoot. Before using this balm I could even cum just by trying to push the tip of my cock in... but with this balm, wow - it makes such a huge difference.
Last week was probably the first time me and my wife properly had sex (both virgins before), and have tried a few times with either me premature ejaculating, and her being in pain from her first time, so last week it all went perfect. I entered her entirely, and just let it rest - immediately noticed basically no sensitive feeling at all, I hadn't bust my nut immediately, and my dick was rock solid. Started to thrust, and I probably had what I would venture around 30-40% sensitivity - slow to medium thrusting was not enough to make me cum. We had sex for a good 25-30 minutes, and I could only cum by thrusting fast and tensing up my kegel muscle.
Absolutely love this stuff! It works on a physical level, but I also think it is helping me psychologically - I now know I can have sex without shooting early, and there is nothing quite like seeing your wife/girlfriend cumming from giving her a good fuck. Perhaps I can ween myself off it, combined with kegel/reverse kegel exercises, but for now I swear by this stuff!
Anyone else tried this stuff or have any advice/input? I'm not an expert, but this is just my thoughts based on a fair bit of testing
