How many people here are able to stop themselves from ejaculating?

[kingpole]

I can stop ejacualtion but why would i want to.

 

[knight68]

I think I did for the first time yesterday night!
I was edging, I usually go as close as possible to PONR and then I stop or move to a less sensitive zone along the shaft until the urge goes away and then I start again.
Yesterday night I have tried to go as close as possible to ejaculation, then I hold one strong kegel for like 5 seconds and I did stop it! The good thing is i did'nt lose my erection, just my EQ went from 10 to around 8 for some minutes. My mind on the contrary thought I DID come, so for a few minutes my tool was still hard but the feeling was like making sex after you come. I kept edging, and in a few minutes I started to have the right feeling again.
I did it two times, the third I could not control it but was amazing!!

I have no idea how to control myself without kegeling, but before I did'nt have any idea on how to control myself PERIOD! So, i rank it as a personal success!

Kingpole, how long did it take you to master this kind of control? Do you think edging and kegels are the only exercises you need?

By the way, I could control it while edging, I have no idea if I can control it having sex.... that's going to be much more difficult!

 

[Pegasus]

Good work Knight you are on the right track. Now you have had dry orgasms from edging and kegals as I did, in fact I was not doing PE in the normal sense when I first did this. When I have trained people in this it has not taken great lengths of time to achieve. Many people will tell you to do some esoteric practise is necessary, but in my estimation this only increases the time taken to learn mmo.

 

[Pirate]

I have found this much easier to do when edging than during sex because of the control I have when I am the only one present. When I successfully stop ejaculation with a jumbo kegel, my erection is at 100%+ and extremely sensitive. (I don't believe that I have experienced a true dry orgasm yet, but I do experience something and I like it. Perhaps, as I get better at this, it will evolve into the it.)
Anyway, during sex, unless I am willing to pull out and take a break, very little stimulation is required to bring me right back to the PONR.

 

[007]

I for one believe ejaculation, the "money shot" is overated. The problem is that most males link ejaculation to orgasm but they are in fact seperate events, and also most males allow ejaculation to define their sexual experience. It's the orgasm, the pleasurable feelings, I want over and over again. Ejaculation causes everything to shut down suddenly, oh yeah that's a great time. How much fun would a road trip be if your car shut down totally, and you had to wait minutes even hours to start it up and get going again. Now I know that it's a point of macho and even bonding for guys to brag about shooting a load. But I believe there is alot more pleasure males are capable of than working themselves up to one squirt...I mean that is so finite, so boring, and has been done to death. I've been double timing my kegels so I can stop ejac. so I can continue of the journey to pleasureville again and again. Not perfect yet, but soon you be able bounce quartes off my pc and bc.

 

[wordup]

It seems like all I can do is retrograde ejaculation. Is getting to a full dry orgasm just a matter of timing? Because I can hold it back, but I lose my EQ.

 

[NP97]

I have twice while edging. I think I did once while my ex was blowing me without knowing it. She finished and I said I'm gonna cum, and nothing came out but I definitely had an orgasm. She felt bad, but I felt fuckin' great.

 

[mike34]

i think kingpole is right, after workin strong enough to at least get a dry orgasm at least once out of 5 times now...still need work but i had same expierence losing erection after stoppin ejaculation and that one time i did i felt something went wrong inside of mee. just wasnt right orgasm wasnt that pleasnt i can defintly see the cum being in your bladder...i felt it was exactly that..idk about you though

 

[Pegasus]

Wordup you may be kegaling a little late, this seems to be the most common cause.

 

[Brock Landers]

A good hard kegel and focusing stops me but I find that it's best to not even let yourself get to that point.