How confident are you with your size?
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Because it is responsible for the majority of length gains. The resulting EQ is only down temporarily, it is not a permenant trashing of your EQ. But if you stretch hard on Monday, your dick might not be at 100% when you have sex on Tuesday.
Fair enough. I agree with the weights/running I have the same issue. Jelqing is more fun/entertaining for me, but I usually try using my other hand gently pressing up and down the shaft as I hold it out just to keep it less boring and convince myself that extra motion is somehow helping me by relaxing the ligs more or something I can't prove.
you can do streches sitting as well.I am quite the opposite, i hate jelqs, my flaccid is like micro penis.
Around 6.5" BPEL, around 5.5" NBPEL, around 5" girth. That's apparently slightly above average but my height (6'4) doesn't really help. At least I'm thin so it's not all bad and luckily I'm into cardio so there's no risk of making it look smaller. Hopefully I'll see gains when I get into PE.
Unlike a lot of guys apparently, I only want a big dick, not a huge dick. 7" NBPEL with 5.5-5.75" EG is the biggest I want to go. I value diversity in positions, I value anal, deepthroating, long blowjobs, and I don't want to hurt the girl. honestly, flat out, do not want larger than 7" NBPEL and I never want to see 6" EG on that measuring tape.
Regardless of what size your penis is though, the worst thing you can do is feel sad or angry about it. Is that going to change its size? No. So why are you sad? You don't have to be happy about it but the least you could do is accept it. There are people with 2-3" BPEL's out there or less than 4" girths. Think about how they feel and shut up.
Unlike a lot of guys apparently, I only want a big dick, not a huge dick. 7" NBPEL with 5.5-5.75" EG is the biggest I want to go. I value diversity in positions, I value anal, deepthroating, long blowjobs, and I don't want to hurt the girl. honestly, flat out, do not want larger than 7" NBPEL and I never want to see 6" EG on that measuring tape.
Regardless of what size your penis is though, the worst thing you can do is feel sad or angry about it. Is that going to change its size? No. So why are you sad? You don't have to be happy about it but the least you could do is accept it. There are people with 2-3" BPEL's out there or less than 4" girths. Think about how they feel and shut up.
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With my wife? 0 confidence in my penis size. She bashed it for years and fantasized about an ex.
With other girls? 100% confidence. Especially when they tell me I'm big. I didn't realize until I joined this site that I am 'big'. I know that's subjective but at 7 x 5.75 I've realized I'm not normal and I'm definitely not small. I'm at least in the top 10% from what I've learned here. But my wife told me all the girls who said that about me lied. Now I know that's not true.
With other girls? 100% confidence. Especially when they tell me I'm big. I didn't realize until I joined this site that I am 'big'. I know that's subjective but at 7 x 5.75 I've realized I'm not normal and I'm definitely not small. I'm at least in the top 10% from what I've learned here. But my wife told me all the girls who said that about me lied. Now I know that's not true.
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my length is great but my girth is where i fail. I haven't measured it as im still looking for my measuring tape, but its very lean. about 2 in inches i suppose. Im praying(not literally) by next year or 2015 i an be atleast 2.5/3 because i know it takes time.
Im confident on my length and received praise for it, but my girth is where im not confident. When i was younger, most females only looked at the length. As i got older and started messing with more eperienced women, girth became a bigger issue than i ever thought it be.
Im confident on my length and received praise for it, but my girth is where im not confident. When i was younger, most females only looked at the length. As i got older and started messing with more eperienced women, girth became a bigger issue than i ever thought it be.
She said all this before we got married. Now she never says anything b/c she realized how much it hurt me and tells me everything's fine. I don't buy it. Now I'm doing PE to have a bigger penis with a bigger head ... two frequent comments she would make. She don't like me doing PE but what other option do I have?
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lance85, not to sound perverted because im not that way, but your size is perfect and what im aiming for as far as girth is concerned. my penis is skinney but long and ive always been praised for it, but my girth is where women would like to see gains.
Dont worry, your pretty good in both length and girth, im praying for those girth gains in the coming years
Dont worry, your pretty good in both length and girth, im praying for those girth gains in the coming years
Like I said, I only worry about it with my wife. Everybody else has been happy with it, praised it, or said nothing. Was never a concern for me. I didn't even realize I was big ... I thought I was average my whole life.
I'm not sleeping with anybody else or cheating but I cling on to those past experiences knowing that I made somebody happy and they weren't disappointed. They respected me and desired me. I cling to those feelings of being sexy and desired.
i didnt realize that my girth was a issue for years, women(younger women) always mae me think it was all about length untill i got older and begin to understand the importance of girth. Ill being praying for a 8x5 or atleast a 8x4. I also cling to the experiences of women who i had great sex with, in whichmy girth didnt disappoint them or didnt provide pleasure.
I'm not here to be your marriage counselor but we all need those feelings and cling to this feelings. If your wife is not giving you those feelings, you need to reassess your situation with her or have a serious talk with her. Life is too short to let these things pass you by.
I'm getting much more confident since starting PE 5 months ago.
My flaccid looks a lot better (sometimes i trick myself into thinking its getting big
), in erect state it looks pretty nice when I look myself straight into the mirror, but it looks/seems pretty average when I look at it directly looking down on it, and it seems pretty short when I look at it in the mirror but on a side angle.
So unless if you are pretty massive and you know it, how can you know for sure if you're big unless someone tells you so, unless you get lots of comments?
I do need to lose weight though to make it look bigger on my body.
My flaccid looks a lot better (sometimes i trick myself into thinking its getting big
), in erect state it looks pretty nice when I look myself straight into the mirror, but it looks/seems pretty average when I look at it directly looking down on it, and it seems pretty short when I look at it in the mirror but on a side angle.So unless if you are pretty massive and you know it, how can you know for sure if you're big unless someone tells you so, unless you get lots of comments?
I do need to lose weight though to make it look bigger on my body.
Not at all. It's really long and thin, looks like a drum stick. But I haven't had sex, so I have no idea what women would think.
