How bigs too big ?

[redbear52]

I have had experiences somewhat similar to rockwell. Currently, I am about 5.5" circumference at the glans, 5.75" midshaft, and about 6.25" at the base. My wife has no problem with vaginal intercourse, but I do get scraped some with oral sex.

I have gained about .25" girth through PE, or a little more. When I was younger and a bit smaller, I had a number of partners who would complain of jaw fatigue with attempts at fellatio, and a couple who at least occasionally became pretty sore after vigorous vaginal intercourse, and would need to take a few days off. I only attempted anal sex once, with a gal who suggested it, and we gave up after half an hour. I have not, however, not been able to penetrate a woman vaginally due to girth, although a few felt pretty tight (one somewhat uncomfortably so).

There is no doubt that women vary in vaginal capacity, and guys of the same size may have had very different experiences as a result of having different partners. But I would be cautious about believing that guys with a girth much over 6" will have "no problems" with women.

 

[rockwell]

I cannot believe stories of guys that could not put it in at all. I have put it in in about 35 women in my life and I am 6+ EG and none had serious problems. For sure when I was younger and inexperienced it may have been harder in a couple of cases BUT only because the girls were not well lubricated beforehand. I cannot stress how important the role of plenty of saliva is when you find yourself in this situation- it is the perfect natural lubricant. If it is not "possible" to lick or suck her vagina to prepare it just coat your dick with plenty of spit and go. With condoms as well even though they have some lubricant it is often not enough.

I know right? Lubricant is amazing, and going down on a girl usually gets her wet in itself let alone using your saliva. The incident I had with not fitting in my ex was because I took her virginity, then she went a year or so without having sex after she broke up with me, and when we tried again she was just extremelyy tight, I could feel her squeeze around a single finger. Measuring out a piece of 5.75 inch long string and making it a circle and trying to conjure up fitting that inside her was like, "oh. Well I see why we couldn't get it in" and it was partly because I think that she knew no matter what she was going to be sore and didn't want to be sore/walk funny considering she still had that other boyfriend at the time when she wanted to hook up with me.

I dunno.

Sotorp how do women respond to performing oral on you? After like 5 minutes of any girl trying on me she usually ends up saying her jaw hurts. And I'm thinking it would be extremely difficult for me to try anal but that's just more of a curiousity of mine not something I REALLY wanna do.

 

[sotorp]

Depends on the woman.My wife has this "jaw tiring" problem but my first wife or various girlfriends never mentioned it before.It depends on mouth size and general enthusiasm about bjs.I could also say my neck hurts when going down on her but since I enjoy it I completely forget about it.
Secondly, a woman that likes blow jobs will find ways to pace herself.there is no need to keep stretching your jaw wide open all the time.A combination of hand job , licking up and down , licking balls if you prefer etc and especially under the head will relax her jaw for the occasional sucking combo.It's good to teach her this and fun too. Just tell her how much you love it and show her how.

 

[mister]

I wish I could swoon some really exotic beautiful girls but I'm not really exposed to those types of women let alone consider myself able/patient enough to get them to hook up with me. The girls I've been with have mostly been just white girls (mixed european decent you know?) And the ones that I had issues with fitting in or wearing out were more my sized versus girls smaller than me.

I agree with what you're saying about women wanting more than they can handle. Its all based on misconceptions from society and lies of others. Like. Dick size shouldn't matter. When people said those things about me, it sucked cause I was comfortable with myself. Then a guy that had a problem with me harassed me about it saying I was small, so I beat the crap out of him, and fucked someone so hard that everyone just kinda backed off me. I don't like being judged by others, I stay out of any type of "scene" or social clique. I just wanna enjoy myself, safely, with beautiful women. haha.

Don't worry neither am I , exposed to exotics . But eh , you sound like you do alright so who cares, nice attitude to by the way ,it's the only way to go in my view and to hell with anyone .
But yeah sh't that must have been embarrassing , one reason I refuse to take any pics, I'm just not good enough electronically to thoroughly trust that I haven't slipped up, left pics on something , accidentally sent pics , whatever . Be just my luck they'd wind up on my mother inlaws table or - even worse . Actually I couldn't imagine much worse than that !!!
Anyway sounds like you fixed em all up in the end , nice going
Besides , whats wrong with your size anyway, what they all hung like horses around there or something , although I do know what you mean bad pic angle can be cruel and the female expectation can also be ridiculous.
I haven't measure for years myself and since looking into PE I see that I might have measured wrong back when I did and hey , if it's gonna be bad news then I don't wanna know just yet so I haven't bothered since starting pe as yet. His looking much better though I know that much.

Cheers

 

[mister]

Depends on the woman.My wife has this "jaw tiring" problem but my first wife or various girlfriends never mentioned it before.It depends on mouth size and general enthusiasm about bjs.I could also say my neck hurts when going down on her but since I enjoy it I completely forget about it.
Secondly, a woman that likes blow jobs will find ways to pace herself.there is no need to keep stretching your jaw wide open all the time.A combination of hand job , licking up and down , licking balls if you prefer etc and especially under the head will relax her jaw for the occasional sucking combo.It's good to teach her this and fun too. Just tell her how much you love it and show her how.

I had a girl once who's pussy was just so damn nice that I just could NOT keep my head out of it . Until , one day I got so enthusiastic that I ripped the under of my tongue right open on my own teeth and had to go to the docs. He reckons how'd you manage this - ummmm !!!
And , it didn't end there because I couldn't talk properly for weeks while it was healing , bit of a toughy to explain that one.

But eh , if they get lock jaw you just belt em across the head and tell to move it - kidden !

Cheers

 

[rockwell]

Don't worry neither am I , exposed to exotics . But eh , you sound like you do alright so who cares, nice attitude to by the way ,it's the only way to go in my view and to hell with anyone .
But yeah sh't that must have been embarrassing , one reason I refuse to take any pics, I'm just not good enough electronically to thoroughly trust that I haven't slipped up, left pics on something , accidentally sent pics , whatever . Be just my luck they'd wind up on my mother inlaws table or - even worse . Actually I couldn't imagine much worse than that !!!
Anyway sounds like you fixed em all up in the end , nice going
Besides , whats wrong with your size anyway, what they all hung like horses around there or something , although I do know what you mean bad pic angle can be cruel and the female expectation can also be ridiculous.
I haven't measure for years myself and since looking into PE I see that I might have measured wrong back when I did and hey , if it's gonna be bad news then I don't wanna know just yet so I haven't bothered since starting pe as yet. His looking much better though I know that much.

Cheers

The part about people thinking I was small is because my dimensions can make my member look a little stubby especially in photos and whatnot. The photos were actually for personal viewing only because I would experiment with my own PE before I ever knew it existed.. I didn't send them out or anything. When my phone was lost someone found it. And no one I know of is even close to my size in girth, and I'm probably slightly longer than most guys around here. People would only say its small because of the bad pictures.. So I had to do something to get the message across to everyone that I was NOT small so I ravaged that girl. Kind of funny actually..

And yeah!, I have a reputation for being really respectful and clear with my intentions. I don't want to settle down, and I don't wanna be tied down, I am far from a "player" or "sex addict" I just enjoy intimacy a LOT and when I can find a girl that's really down to earth and not a skank then I try to let her know I wanna get intimate. Sometimes it works out.