im one of the people who are lucky enough to start off with 8'' long gear, and whilst extra girth, hardness and multi orgasmic ability are definately appealing my main concern is if i increase my length that ill actually have a negative affect on my sexual life, so im just wondering if anyone has any experiences or advice to help me with this dilemma.
how big is too big...
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im new here so i feel i should explain myself a bit better, you see my question is more born out of inexperience, as im fairly young and dont have the most massive sexual experience to call upon, my age also means all the women i come into contact with are around the 18 - 25 age who will be less experienced and mature themselves, id be happy if the 9'' fellow could share his experiences/troubles (it feels quiet wierd calling soumeout by their size but like i said im new so im not up on peoples profile names).
im also curious about the 'how long is a piece of string' way of thinking where ive read several people mentioning that theyre going to stick with PE exersizes for life, does this mean in 30 years there'll be a number of older veteran members with 11,12,13 ,BPEL as they continue to increase theyre workouts, or will they shift their workouts to try to keep a strong and powerful penis, but go easy on the monster of the deep aspect.
basically where do people think they should stop, if they should stop at all.
thanx in advance for anyone helping to shed this newbies ignorances.
shouldve named the thread 'how long is a piece of string' sounds freindlier and more intriguing but oh well
im also curious about the 'how long is a piece of string' way of thinking where ive read several people mentioning that theyre going to stick with PE exersizes for life, does this mean in 30 years there'll be a number of older veteran members with 11,12,13 ,BPEL as they continue to increase theyre workouts, or will they shift their workouts to try to keep a strong and powerful penis, but go easy on the monster of the deep aspect.
basically where do people think they should stop, if they should stop at all.
thanx in advance for anyone helping to shed this newbies ignorances.
shouldve named the thread 'how long is a piece of string' sounds freindlier and more intriguing but oh well
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Hey man, welcome to the forum.
First off, I'm not a 9 incher although I do strive to be. Not even at the 8" mark yet but I'm working on it. After reading your post, let me put one thing to bed with you now. Very few dudes out there in society are sporting the elusive 11, 12 or 13" dick. Don't let what you read about in porn magazines or see online fool you. Some guys are actually able to achieve those numbers, my buddy going411by7 being one. I think he's like 10" or something enormous like that. He'd really be the best person to talk to. I can also tell you that just because you've got 8 inches, doesn't mean you have to feed her all 8 inches. If you have to leave about an inch or so out because it hurts her, then leave an inch out. Nothing says you have to go balls deep each and every time. Most girls can take an 8 inch dick balls deep but it's all in your technique and how you go about it. If your just shoving it in and fucking the sh*t out of her, chances are you'll cause her pain. The PEgym isn't just about making your dick bigger, it's also about giving you young bucks the wisdom to know what your doing BEFORE you find yourself in that bed with that hot girl and not having a clue what to do (well, of course you'll know what to do, I'm speaking metaphorically here).
In any event, I hope this has answered your question and put some of your fears to rest.
I think you're big enough already to be honest. 8 inches is big but not freakshow big, and I'm not sure why anybody would want a 10 or 11 incher.
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Not to be offensive, but I think guys who have had very little or no sex, are the ones who have brainwashed themselves into believing that what will satisfy women is an extremely long penis.
Um...Bragging rights? The "Oh My God", factor?
Yeah that's what it is, but sex must be less enjoyable with something that big. Most girls would struggle with 8 inches at first.
The guy with the worlds biggest penis hasn't had a GF for 13 years, which tells you sometimes you can be too big.
It varies with women though doesn't it? You get some girls who struggle to take 5 inches and you get others who can't feel anything unless it's 7 of more. This means the size issue is very confusing for men, because you'll get someone like yourself who will say size don't matter and someone else saying "less then 7 won't make me cum".
First, it depends on how old and how experienced the girl is. Some young girls (18-25) "think" that the only way they can be satisfied is with a guy who is really long. As they get a little older and more experienced, they learn a lot about their body and what satisfies them. I know quite a few women in their late 20's and older who just smile ear to ear talking about how their guy satisfies them. These women never have said once that the length of their guy is what satisfied them. They talk about technique!! That is the key.
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That's because you're not too big. You're big, but just about right I'd have thought.
True, but tell me this and be honest. A big guy with great technique versus a small guy with great technique, who would you prefer? Also I notice you mentioned on another thread you like a guy with a big girth. So a guy with a bigger girth must be better right?
ive never been naive enough to take porn films as reality, and if i decide to seek legnth gain then itd only be about an inch, maybe 2 if i get over enthusiastic. but 10+ is generally obcenely big, as a girlfreind of mine said elequently said about teh subject,
'what am i supposed to do with something like that, hoover my room with it'
so my comment on teh larger sizes was more me wondering about people who said theyd stick with the PE for the rest of there life. a lifetimes a long time, and id imagine you could get quiet a lot of gain in that time. so my second question was about this, whether these people would change their workouts to focus on different aspects than size, or whether theyd intend to carry on gaining.
and thanx for all the stuff already said its been really enlightening.
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this made me lol, urban legend has it that he faints whenever he gets a hard on because the blood rushes from his head to his member. i highly doubt teh truth in that but it does give a whole ne meaning to the male stereo type of the brain taking second place.
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You have a misconception about the Penis exercises. When the members here talk about doing PE for life, it isn't about the gains. The gains are important to start, then when they are reached, (some never reach their desired gains) it becomes a matter of maintaining penis health well into the later years. Just because you continue to do the exercises, does not mean you will continue to grow. Some are blessed that they can see very large gains and some struggle to get minimal growth. The important factor being; Be happy with ANY improvement.
aha thats what i was after. its what i thought but wanted to makes sure, im assumin that a person who wants to keep his current size but keep doing PE would stop doing Jelqs and Stretches or switch to an alternate form of these exersize that im guessing'll be covered in the advanced techniques.
