Hey everyone!

[downthere]

Just wanted to say hi, and plan on learning a few things here!! You guys and gals seem like a nice group of people....

Me - I'm 49 and blessed with good health, an awesome wife and 2 wonderful daughters. I'm 5' 11" tall, 200 lbs., blonde, blue eyes and decent shape. Pretty women hit on me a lot, so I don't have an issue about that, but I sure wouldn't want them to see my tiny, flaccid peen!! It's embarrassingly small when flaccid - Like 3.0"L x 3.5"G Erect it's not great, but not terrible I suppose from reading a bunch of sites. (I suppose I'm around average length, smallish girth) - 6.25" x 4.75". Guys have always been my biggest problem....they're real quick to point out I have a little peen when I take a whiz and they see it, making jokes. It's kinda hurtful and I feel like blasting one of their flaws, but I don't.

Lately, my Doc put me on Metoprolol and Lisinopril for blood pressure. YIKES!! Now what little bit I had isn't even working that good...

Anyway, my goal is to read a lot of the past posts and learn a few things. And, to gain 1" in both directions. I'd like to be 6.0 in girth, but that might not be possible. I'm going for girth over length. Suggestions??

Also, if the average woman can handle and prefers an 8.0" x 6.0", I wonder why the average guy doesn't have that to begin with?? I keep wondering that over and over. Just sucks for us smaller guys.

Thanks for listening!

 

[MrB8]

:welcomeani: to the Gym downthere!


Don't miss this thread!! :thumb:

:first: https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-enlargement-forum/73983-mental-pe-creating-right-mindset.html :first:​

And if you haven't already done so, please https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginn...fore-you-post-maximize-your-success-here.html and focus on safety. :biggrin1:


Then pick one of the manual beginner routines to follow for at least 90 days to condition your penis, most members here choose JP90, focus on conditioning now, and target girth later. :becky:


Your length is above average and your girth is right on the average mark, with dedication, persistence and consistency, you will reach your goals, just keep in mind that PE is a long term process, it takes time, don't rush it up, and you will gain in far more than mere size increase, but more importantly, improved penile health and higher EQ!

No one said that the average lady prefers an 8x6 penis, they prefer a working/healthy penis on a good man, size comes very last on the list, if at all, and not in the way you think it does.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/64047-yes-only-big-thick-dick-will-do.html

https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-perspective/45402-my-ideal-penis.html




Pay attention to your PIs, your penis is trying to tell you if you are over working, or you are in the growth zone, aim for positive PIs, and steer away from the negative ones.

Physiologic Indicators (PIs) to Help Penis Growth!

What to Expect....A Beginner's Guide


Good Luck!

 

[not2big]

Hey Downthete!

Welcome to the Gym. MrB8 has given you good advice to get you started on the right foot. As he said. You are well within the average range for erections, even a little above average in length.

I don't know who you hang around with, but your flaccid size surely doesn't warrent any negative comment.

Don't forget to take accurate beginning measurements and photos to chart your growth against.

 

[TPW]

Hiya Downthere and welcome to the forums! :wave:

Thank you for the introduction. It sounds like you are more of a grower than a shower because your current length stats are actually above average. I will never understand why men make fun of each other's package especially since they are most aware of how hurtful those comments can be. Well the good news is that you have found the Gym where you will most certainly get plenty of support for all of us here.

I also just wanted to let you know that should you require it, there are also some helpful and supportive ladies available on the forum too who are more than willing to offer their insight and wisdom. We can often be located in the following forums:

A Woman's Perspective

Relationship Forum

The Gym

Best wishes on your PE journey!

 

[Dangler]

Why do we males look at ourselves and think were small ? downthere you got a good size in my opinion.
Thanks for joining !

 

[kilgore]

Hiya Downthere and welcome to the forums! :wave:

Thank you for the introduction. It sounds like you are more of a grower than a shower because your current length stats are actually above average. I will never understand why men make fun of each other's package especially since they are most aware of how hurtful those comments can be. Well the good news is that you have found the Gym where you will most certainly get plenty of support for all of us here.

I also just wanted to let you know that should you require it, there are also some helpful and supportive ladies available on the forum too who are more than willing to offer their insight and wisdom. We can often be located in the following forums:

A Woman's Perspective

Relationship Forum

The Gym

Best wishes on your PE journey!

i actually don't think men do that much. i don't think another guy has ever done that to me (though i am far from a big dude)

 

[downthere]

Why do we males look at ourselves and think were small ? downthere you got a good size in my opinion.
Thanks for joining !

Hey Dangler, I don't know?? lol I do know this and I'm sick of it... GUYS have on occasion of seeing my flaccid peen taking a leak, make fun of how little it is. I don't look at theirs, so maybe they're small too? Whatever. Pisses me off nonetheless. On the other hand, I've been married 25 years, they've been divorced at least twice, some of them four. But, they got big 'ol peens they say. I'm pretty sure some probably do like one guy I know who had a gorgeous first wife who left him. He cheated. (He really messed up there!!!)

Thank you to everyone and ladies like TPW for the warm welcome!! You all are a nice group of people! I'm feeling better about myself already. I need to figure out the signature thing so I can post present, and future stats. I posted above 6.25" length and that is what I'm doing currently, (mushy) but when everything is good it's about 7.0". Girth no change. Pencil dick territory. This blood pressure med is horrible. I'm struggling to get it up at all, let alone keep it going.

Anyway, you guys and girls are awesome! Thank you. :biggrin1:

 

[MrB8]

Hey Dangler, I don't know?? lol I do know this and I'm sick of it... GUYS have on occasion of seeing my flaccid peen taking a leak, make fun of how little it is. I don't look at theirs, so maybe they're small too? Whatever. Pisses me off nonetheless. On the other hand, I've been married 25 years, they've been divorced at least twice, some of them four. But, they got big 'ol peens they say. I'm pretty sure some probably do like one guy I know who had a gorgeous first wife who left him. He cheated. (He really messed up there!!!)

Thank you to everyone and ladies like TPW for the warm welcome!! You all are a nice group of people! I'm feeling better about myself already. I need to figure out the signature thing so I can post present, and future stats. I posted above 6.25" length and that is what I'm doing currently, (mushy) but when everything is good it's about 7.0". Girth no change. Pencil dick territory. This blood pressure med is horrible. I'm struggling to get it up at all, let alone keep it going.

Anyway, you guys and girls are awesome! Thank you. :biggrin1:

https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginners-forum/2260-getting-started-101-how-post-much-more.html

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[DirtyNerd]

Welcome aboard mate

hope you find what your looking for and next time you take a whiz your penis drops in to the bowl

 

[TPW]

Hiya Kilgore,

I am glad to hear that it has never happened to you personally and perhaps grown men don't do it as often to one another but I assure you that I have witnessed a great many young boys tease one another during my time in elementary and secondary school. I even witnessed it when I was in university albeit not as much. And I only witnessed these shenanigans outside of locker rooms but can imagine just how much worse it may have been for some poor fellas.

i actually don't think men do that much. i don't think another guy has ever done that to me (though i am far from a big dude)

 

[kickinthemebs]

In relation to hitting girth over length - it might be a good idea to do a beginner manual routine firstly, and then move onto the more advanced girth exercises once you are conditioned. You could always invest in an air-pump, which does not require separate conditioning, but you must condition yourself to the pump (i.e. start off light and low duration, and work your way up).

Welcome to the Gym

 

[downthere]

In relation to hitting girth over length - it might be a good idea to do a beginner manual routine firstly, and then move onto the more advanced girth exercises once you are conditioned. You could always invest in an air-pump, which does not require separate conditioning, but you must condition yourself to the pump (i.e. start off light and low duration, and work your way up).

Welcome to the Gym

Thanks for the reply kick. Yeah, I really don't want to increase length that much if any at all as my wife likes close hip contact with grinding. Some days I'm in contact with her cervix, and she doesn't like that at all. Not sure I do either - it feels like a rock or something.

On another note, I broke out the seamstress tape for the first time in YEARS. My flaccid girth is right at 4", so maybe I'm not so bad after all, but still want to improve. I thought I was 3.5" like in my original post. Still nothing to brag about though.

This is kinda funny - I read some women's article online and it talked about the 9 different penis's a woman will encounter. It would seem I'm a "shape shifter"! Made me laugh. Kinda

 

[kilgore]

Hiya Kilgore,

I am glad to hear that it has never happened to you personally and perhaps grown men don't do it as often to one another but I assure you that I have witnessed a great many young boys tease one another during my time in elementary and secondary school. I even witnessed it when I was in university albeit not as much. And I only witnessed these shenanigans outside of locker rooms but can imagine just how much worse it may have been for some poor fellas.

yeah, you are probably right. i don't think it happened as a kid (maybe once or twice), but I don't think adults do that. case in point, when flaccid i am pretty much hung like a pimple, but no one has ever said anything (to my knowledge, anyway).

 

[closed224]

I to am a grower not a shower. I am in fact a turtle master. My flaciid length is often barely over an inch and flaccid girfh is less than 3" but erect I am over 7 inches long and over 6 inches. And yes slow steady pe is why. Enjoy the growth process, take it slow and steady and you can grow, in my experience my executions have gotten much stronger as well as bigger. E enjoy the journey.

 

[kilgore]

I to am a grower not a shower. I am in fact a turtle master. My flaciid length is often barely over an inch and flaccid girfh is less than 3" but erect I am over 7 inches long and over 6 inches. And yes slow steady pe is why. Enjoy the growth process, take it slow and steady and you can grow, in my experience my executions have gotten much stronger as well as bigger. E enjoy the journey.

i am actually not doing pe. i'm glad, though, that it is working for you.

 

[BigO]

Welcome downthere!

Most times, guys who tease and taunt like that are really just trying to build themselves up, at the cost of bringing you down. Your stats are not bad at all, and fall within the average range. Which means most, if not all, of the guys doing the teasing are the same size.

Makes their comments pack a little less punch, doesn't it?

Good advice above. Stick with the conditioning routine first, and you may be surprised with some girth just from that. Plus, PE naturally increases flaccid as you go along!

Best of luck, and stay patient.

 

[downthere]

yeah, you are probably right. i don't think it happened as a kid (maybe once or twice), but I don't think adults do that. case in point, when flaccid i am pretty much hung like a pimple, but no one has ever said anything (to my knowledge, anyway).

Yep, sad to say Kilgore, they were adults - in their 30's. All professional jobs too. Now mind you, they didn't go on and on about it, just a quick, "Man, you're not very big, are you?" I would respond by saying, "Not when I'm around hairy dicks like you peckerhead!!!, but the women like it, especially my length." That would end it and we'd carry on with whatever we were doing. It still bothered me though, but I didn't let on like it did. I can remember 3 for sure, maybe 4 instances of this. Thing is, every one of them had some other kind of personal insecurity going on. (Extreme weight, second divorce, lost a job, etc.)

 

[downthere]

Welcome downthere!

Most times, guys who tease and taunt like that are really just trying to build themselves up, at the cost of bringing you down. Your stats are not bad at all, and fall within the average range. Which means most, if not all, of the guys doing the teasing are the same size.

Makes their comments pack a little less punch, doesn't it?

Good advice above. Stick with the conditioning routine first, and you may be surprised with some girth just from that. Plus, PE naturally increases flaccid as you go along!

Best of luck, and stay patient.

Thanks workin' - I KNOW you're right. Still was a punch to the gut though each time, because I knew I wasn't big. A 29 year old girl at work has very serious cancer...she'll likely die soon. 3 kids too. In the scheme of things, my problem is very, very minor.

 

[kilgore]

agreed. there are far worse things in life than being under-hung.

 

[closed224]

One thing that has really helped me feel better about my penis was to stop belittling myself. I have begun internal bragging and cheering for my penis and its size and health. If I speak of my penis I say nice things about it. I started PE not with that mind set. I too thought I was small, but everything I read said nope I was average. Now I am awesome. WINNING!!!