heartbroken...need kind words

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Aww man, don't take it too harshly dude. I think Mr. Sneakypants is right, you'l look back at this and just see that she was cock hungry and turning into a whore (I know you may not want to hear this, but hey, she had an affair/bigger dick that influenced both her life and YOURS which is not fair) She did the dirty, she's the one in the wrong. Just forget about her and continue working here until you can finally say: Fuck you bitch I have a big dick! (Excuse the language) And find a nice girl that loves you, for you, whether your 1" long or 20"
 

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She did the dirty, she's the one in the wrong. Just forget about her and continue working here until you can finally say: Fuck you bitch I have a big dick! (Excuse the language) And find a nice girl that loves you, for you, whether your 1" long or 20"
...and they are out there. Never lose the faith. Keep working on your own plans and dreams, the right time will come.
 

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Vapid and ignorant. More like a little girl with bizarre expectations, not a woman.
She'll probably end up with some asshole that'll beat on her, and cheat on her, and she's stupidly going along for the ride like it's "LOL OK!"

and then after he leaves her ass on the side of the road for the next piece of pun, she comes crawling back.
And after you're done, and she comes back, show her your new and improved...and then slap her with it...


...no wait, you'll catch a charge.
just show her what she missed.
 

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now that I think about it, FUCK HER.
ugh, i'm sooooooooo trying to not let the angry bitter me out, but as someone
whose dealt with some terrible women (and for everyone one of them, my sisters beat the dog sh*t out of them XD)
I know how low and disgusting some whores can get.

Finding a "woman" is a hard thing, because too many of them still think their in fucking middle school/high school.
Then again...I guess it's where I live, mentally i'm like...leagues above the public here. -_-;

...intelligence...gift and curse.
 

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wow.

same exact thing happened to me a few months ago. i met this girl online who i eventually ended up hooking up with a few times. long story short, we got into a ridiculous argument one day and one thing lead to another. it wasn't long before an epic war of words broke out and she ended up saying that i had a small dick (in so many words). now we were both saying some pretty nasty things back and forth but when she shot back with this my heart nearly sank. see, i always knew i wasn't large but i never thought i was particularly small either. but this just hit me like a ton of bricks. either way, it should probably be noted that this girl was only 18 and was pretty sexually inexperienced when i met her. additionally i didnt even have a full erection around her (wasn't a ton of chemistry). but nevertheless i have dwelled on it every day since and it has been nearly 3 months. i started working on PE shortly after this incident to achieve, if not a huge penis, then something of a confidence boost when i finally have something different to look down at. i should also say that i've never rec'd any complaints in the past from previous partners, or even from her. in fact ive rec'd many compliments. but i never really truly thought about my penis, so maybe it was an 'ignorance is bliss' sort of mentality. or maybe its just depressed thinking.. BUT nevertheless, that 0.05% chance that i DO have a size issue has been the subject of my obsession for the past 90 days.

for the record my measurement is between 5.75 and 6.0 depending on hardness (tho sometimes closer to 5.5 on a 'bad day'). in other words, im statistically average which, really, i haven't much of a problem with. but still..

i don't know about you guys but i am a pretty sensitive guy i'll admit. words have a high potential to eat at my self-esteem, regardless of my average weight or reasonable looks. who knows, but i think i've developed some sort of 'small penis syndrome' or even a slight case of body dysmorphic disorder as a result of this one stupid fucking comment. of course typing this out makes me realize just how ridiculous it sounds, but i have something of a history of obsessive thoughts along with anxiety and some depression so its hard for me to get over these things. but to be honest its not so much that i fear my penis is hopelessly small, but rather that i will experience some sort of performance anxiety in the future as a result of overthinking this. i am slowly returning to a normal state of mind (i think) but it has been extremely difficult.

sorry to thread hijack but i just wanted OP to know that others have undoubtedly felt his pain, if not worse!
 
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No thread jack jet ,be at peace. we all have pain we live through it ,grow stronger, strong enough not to pass it on.
 

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The opposite side to that coin would be....Your pussy is frickin huge ,I could parallel park my dads RV in you.
 

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If she said that to you then she clearly does NOT deserve a guy like you.
 

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Have you been with other girls also?

I was with one girl who said she wanted a bigger dick. It took me until the next girl I was with to realize the ex had a HUGE vagina and my penis was fine.

But yeah, she was just looking to hurt you. Don't let her get to you, that's how she wins.
 

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hah, her vagina was not particularly tight! i do think that her 'small' comment was legitimately based on watching porn. as i said she was young and pretty inexperienced. what else would her basis for comparison be? i also had not recently trimmed down there and was not at full erection level. so that *may* have had something to do with it. so maybe i really did *look* kind of small based on these factors. anyway, i keep trying to tell myself that she was just being a c-word but i can't help but think 'hmm.. well maybe she was right?'.. even though im pretty sure she wasn't.. i donno, its hard to explain. you know, it's kind of like telling an anorexic girl that she's fat. of course she sees a skinny girl in the mirror, but she somehow still belives she's fat. that's precisely how i feel.

@hhorner50: not sure if your question was directed at me or OP but yup i have slept with other girls. now, each of these girls got pretty wet during sex so friction was rather decreased. which is another thing that, upon recalling this detail, made me think that maybe i was inadequate. though i hear it is quite normal for decreased friction/sensation if the girl is pretty wet. at least i hope it is. my girth is about 5".
 

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This is a good thing, it will keep you motivated.
Every time you jelq, think of her words and think off what's she's missing when you growed a monster! :)
 

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Yes, indeed. This is a VERY big reason why I choose to keep my PE endeavors to myself; the last thing I want is an angry ex-girlfriend venting around town about how I have a microscopic penis and how I spend my days yanking at it, hoping and praying that it grows from super tiny to not so tiny. PE is MY personal, private business and as long as I'm living in the privacy of my own bachelor pad, it will remain as such.



Οr if you have met your goals.I will answer if she was joking me about PE.Now I am ready for a porno film wait and see...and after one or 2 weeks with a whore she wouldnt believe in her eyes and the joke would turn back to her...
 

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Οr if you have met your goals.I will answer if she was joking me about PE.Now I am ready for a porno film wait and see...and after one or 2 weeks with a whore she wouldnt believe in her eyes and the joke would turn back to her...

Or you could simply answer her your pussy smells like sh*t or something worst....That would make her shut up at that time...xaxaxaxaxaxa